As I said before my sister is Igbo, she married a Yoruba. They had traditional ceremonies and they were held in London. You see, its called compromise. If there is a real issue, it should be dealt with simple.

If my husband to be had a real issue with going to my fathers place, I would think we would be adult enough and mature enough to come to an arrangement which is at least comfortable for us.

He would ofcourse have to have enough balls to open his mouth and tell me, instead of expecting me to read minds.

I know a Nigerian couple who have gotten married on the Indian ocean, it was something they wanted and they are adults.........