Not at all.

I have two illustrations which may show how I think.

You throw a party, everybody is welcome.
But due to being such a popular host all your friends turn up, and they bring their friends, plus a few gatecrashers arrive also.
No one can use the toilets, nobody can dance because of the numbers, the food and drink provided wont satisfy all the guests.

A ship sinks and there are limited spaces in the lifeboats, many people in the surrounding water want to gain a place in your boat. The decision is, do you let everybody into the lifeboat, making it unstable for everybody ? Or do you have strict limits and let only the official number into the boat ?

My wife is the hostess at that party, she was first into the lifeboat beside me.
She agrees with me, whoever turns up to get into the party or the lifeboat gets turned away.