that's why i can't get into the whole thing about "african/european beauty standards"


a person's attraction to one person doesn't prove or refute what their beauty standards are.

hardly.


we get into being fake and contrived when we feel we have to "act' like a person attracts us to show that we are conscious.


the fact that the brother isn't feeling this particular woman doesn't mean anything other than he isn't feeling her.


let's allow each other to breathe and be honest, please.