Tahliba - sounds too familiar huh. Getting over it, as I said, it all depends on what you call a family which will also determine what you mean by getting over it.

Tell a woman about values and don't be surprised to hear the reply, 'I've got my own job'. As far as family structure and infrastructure goes we epitomise wotlissness, if I was thinking of my own survival and how I look then getting over it would be a no brainer.

You talk about responsibilities, now can you be more specific in what that is in a babymother/babyfather living apart scenario, and where class and standard and culture fits into that?


Get over it, as the song goes, there's always something there to remind me, babymothers galore defending nothing else but babymotherism!! I will not be associated with such nastiness.