Tahliba - can only reiterate people will only be arguing what it is they are defending, my children despising me and loneliness, please do not judge me by your standards.

Ironic how you hope you know what the babymother is doing yet you can categorically ask what it is I am doing. I can't work with babymothers, the very concept sickens my stomach, anything else would mean I'd have to lie to my kids and that would be a worse fate than them hating me or loneliness could ever be. If they are going to hate me it's because I stood for what I believe, I can happily take that to the grave.

When I see my boys I tell them the situation they are in is pure nastiness and to never ever believe this is normal and even worse make some Coronation Street watching mofo tell them who they are.

Fear, my worse fear is worse case they'll simply grow up to find out whta was really being defended for themselves.