Le Moor - no one has the right to judge anyone, I'll have an opinion on the frame of mind behind what people are defending though. Never thought i'd see the day when defending/sharing your values are seen by others as passing judgement on them. Lay with dogs you'll catch their fleas. As Sizzla says, he reminds them of who they are supposed to be or take it from Caplton, dem done bow already and they can't say they're sorry. I'll never apologise for my values, it's like mini cab drivers who expect you to feel guilty for having an academic able brain.

Part time dad?, please don't insult me....in todays environment you're part time even when living under the same roof. Many times I have had to work abroad, many times I come in when they have gone to bed and leave before they wake up and this is supposed to improve now you live apart, get real, my children will grow up with their own conscioussness or as i told the babymother, if it's about defending predicaments i do not expect her to raise them with family oriented African consciousnees, I mean how can she if she herself doesn't have it - and so the myth of absent dads and innocent babymothers continues for another generation