Incognito:
To do nothing is to opt out. When you opt out you don't have a say in how things go. My children are my most precious commodities and I will do whatever it takes to make them whole in a system that treats them as lesser beings. To quote a song by Gil Scot Heron,' home is where the hatred is.' and if there are problems in the home caused by whatever reason, children are going to go outside for their sense of identities. As a responsible adult who has willingly taken on that mantle, I chose to let my home and ideology towards my blood be a nurturing one, cause if I don't educate and love mine, someone less fit and capable is going to fill them with rubbish.
At the end of the day, people make choices about how they want to act out a situation. It's either fight or flight. I choose to do the best I can, so long as I have breath in me. You do what you chose to do. I have no problem with that!