Respect for his mother and the woman he would like for himself are two different things.

And yes, you have to use what other people will despise for them to understand how much you despise something else....and with these difference then ask to define what raising a child means when one person is found out to be pretending to be operating on the same values as yourself.

Babymothers/babyfathers, there's nuff man and woman into this, don't associate me with it and use your values to tell me what I should or should not be doing for my children. Leave that to you and your class....I'll try and find mine.

I know men who are happy being babyfathers and fully accept my position. I didn't set out to be one, I am one by association, that's where it will stop with me.

All this there for you when you need him bullsh!t...a father should just be there, how do you do that with multiple babymothers...your definition of what a parent is must be different to mine....don't associate me with it.