Originally Posted by chi

I think my type has changed. Before it was more about looks, (obviously as a youngen). Now its about personality, value systems, intelligence, how they treat me, then looks. I find it turned off almost instantly by a good looking guy if he isn't as attractive inside.

I think people will find that until we learn to look at the inside and not how light or dark a person is, how tall or short....we will keep going the through "phases", but only because we fail to understand what really makes the difference between individuals.

I used to date only Nigerian guys, now I have stretched to neighbouring countries....lol......never thought I would though.