Yeah i hear you about the danger bit but i can't help it, its not the first time i've ticked off youths and don't forget most are not carrying weapons, they're generally not bad kids, they just have no manners. i'm of the school that believes adults should not fear pickney and its up to us (whether they're our kids or not because some don't get no guidance at home) to show them they are pickney and must have manners out on road. if more adults said 'no' and stopped cowering in fear in front of these youth about they want respeck, i honestly think most of these drag up kids would calm down. many of these kids are angry because they know nobody cares enough to discipline them. i also did weigh up my options and assessed the situation and made sure i was in a spot wherby if they did kick off i had a good escpae route. i woudn't tick off every bad kid in any old situation if it looked like it could be the end to my life because i'm no have a go hero - but these girls were so likkle bit and if they truely wanted to fight me and i did get stuck, i assure you i would not think twice about bashing them both.

back to the music situation i still would be monitoring which sites my kids went on and would look at their playlist. if they didn't like it then the phone would get cut off and the MP3 taken away. its my money after all, they're my kids and i would be in control. no girl pickney of mine aged 13 would be singing loudly on the bus about how they want to be ****ed, not a chance in hell.