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Post imported post - 08-08-05, 04:49 PM

it was the inappropriate nature of that comment that made you come across as immature.

When discussing the potential break up off a family saying how you are hotter thanyour friends girl is really irrlevantand self glorifying.

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Post imported post - 08-08-05, 04:56 PM

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Let me apologise to, if that is how your story goes then I can see better what you are saying. I think reading what you said about being prettier, I have seen to many simple minded little women break apart relationships and not out of any liking for the guy but just for the thrill of doing it.

If the guy as a child on the way and a girl, take note, because if he can behave like that with you while all that is happening then why wouldn't he do it to you. I know your special and more pretty right, but looks don't last forever and there's always a prettier woman around the corner so careful. niceone.gif
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Post imported post - 08-08-05, 04:56 PM

I do not self glorify myself butI speak the truth and like I said just because I think I'm hotter than his girlfriend that does not mean that I would disrespect her or destroyANYONE'S family get it str8!!
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it was the inappropriate nature of that comment that made you come across as immature.

When discussing the potential break up off a family saying how you are hotter thanyour friends girl is really irrlevantand self glorifying.

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I do not self glorify myself butIkeep it real & speak the truth and like I said just because I think I'm hotter than his girlfriend that does not mean that I would disrespect her or destroyANYONE'S potential family.. Get it Str8
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Post imported post - 08-08-05, 05:18 PM

like i said b4 uneccessary comment and immature given the matter was meant to be serious.
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I do not self glorify myself butI speak the truth and like I said just because I think I'm hotter than his girlfriend that does not mean that I would disrespect her or destroyANYONE'S family get it str8!!
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Ok, I think we get the picture...you think you are hotter...we got that str8. How much longer do you plan to labour that point?....it's getting a rather monotonous now and really has little relevance to thecentral point about you 'doing the right thing.'
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In their dealings with each other the Wise Man and the Fool believe they can outwit the other. However, the Wise Man KNOWS when he is dealing with a fool!
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Well with no disrespect backatya it was meant to the other reader who seems to think just because you speak your honest opinion, makes you someone who self glorifies.

You are right this is not the main issue of this topic but it seems some other readers (hint...hint) are stuck on this ONE sentence..
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like i said b4 uneccessary comment and immature given the matter was meant to be serious.
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offtopic.gifWell, with no disrespect stay on the fact and stop watching the ONE sentence.. As for my maturity level lets say if I was as immature as you would like to portray I would think you would have ALOT more to say than just I am j immature (if you catch my drift!!) C Ya!! EvE2k5
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No disrespect Eve2k5, but it doesn't seem as if it takes a lot to be hotter than this girl.

@ All: I realise there are deeper issues here...I'm just having a laugh okay?
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niceone.gifoh please, I don't wanna be portrayed as shallow, but I am now being crucified for being honest in a serious situation..It seems its a crime to speak your mind TRUTHFULLY nowadayz!! LOL!!
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What can that man possibly see in a girl who could wear a YELLOW & BLACK TRACKSUIT to a WEDDING?????

It's bad enough she wore atracksuit to a wedding...but in yellow and black???bighairlol
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MY SENTIMENTS EXACTLY!!!blkclap
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I would have to say that when you took the step to meeting his girl knowing you had those feelings for him you was BANG OUT OF ORDER. You say high and call her your fren (do you hold the baby and drink from her cups)you toldhim you have deep feelings for him and he tells you its cool. What kind of a man did he grow up to be.

Your both taking that poor girl for a fool and if i was that girl and i ever found out you would never be able to find a man again, and you would NOT be walking around thinking your hot.

For real find your own F**king man. Or cant you. to be running after man for 9 years you cant be that hot baby.

I hope if you do end up together he will have you pregnant and leave you for nex gyal
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I would have to say that when you took the step to meeting his girl knowing you had those feelings for him you was BANG OUT OF ORDER. You say high and call her your fren (do you hold the baby and drink from her cups)you toldhim you have deep feelings for him and he tells you its cool. What kind of a man did he grow up to be.

Your both taking that poor girl for a fool and if i was that girl and i ever found out you would never be able to find a man again, and you would NOT be walking around thinking your hot.

For real find your own F**king man. Or cant you. to be running after man for 9 years you cant be that hot baby.

I hope if you do end up together he will have you pregnant and leave you for nex gyal
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Get something straight for starters she was at the same wedding that I was at I didn't go out of my way to meet her it just happened out of shear politeness (obviously something you know nothing about!).. I do not call her my friend as she is my friend's girlfriend that all is it. I do not go to her house or drink from any cups !! (It seems you have stained your miniscule of a brain & getting everything twisted).
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As for telling him about my feelings he meant it would be cool to still hang out as FRIENDS, I personally do not think so because its dangerous..
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No one is taking anyone for a fool if anything she is getting my respect which is due as a fellow black sister. Me and this guy have not spoken since I told him he should give his family 100% without no distractions.. And he has done so..
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If we end up together it aint got sweet F. A. to do with you but however it will be a case of what is meant to be will be!!
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Post imported post - 26-08-05, 01:57 PM

calm down now honey, what you need to do is put all the facts in your post and then maybe i would have all of them hey.

im commenting on what you put so think b4 you write so all facts have ben put down.

Dont go on like your miss goody two shoes cause it was you that said your hotter than his girl. So what who told you that, he obviously dont think so his having kids wid her.




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