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@ Gemini

I have my reasons to believe you are another poster under a different name either that or your double (Gemini) personalities are highlighting you not to be genuine. So for those purposes all I will say is take the key words out of your statement above such as Black, African, Race etc and research them individually and put it all together. Start with the basic dictionary a your first tool of research.

Either that or what until someone else comes along and will take the time to explain things to you………….sorry but I (MAFDET the correct spelling) don’t play that, plus I need to go and put the rat trap back out too many out and about running wild in the place.blktrainers




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wrong on all counts Madfet

my "double gemini personalitites" are due to me forgetting to log in befpre replying, though I'm intrigued as to why you think I'm posing as someome else.

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@ Kareem

Get lost sport-smileysometimes you are so far up my blkangryin some of these theads even my own shadow is complaining go away.blkdevillol........better still

@ Gemini

Don't worry but since Kareem is here I am sure he will explain the difference between Race, Nationality etc to you. I mean I am sure he wouldn't want the other posters to know that he just came in here following me......as usualblkthumbsup blkafro

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bighairlol[color=navy]u 2 are just too rude to each other. AndI think u both know who I'm talking about!!


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i am black and i am proud and i will say it loud. black is ok for now its when people say coloured i have to trip. i aint out there burning to be brown skinned and beautiful (all brown shades included including blue-black)

back to topic>> the only nega thing i have heard about black men is the dole which is a lie

british black men are strong willed, they have direction. i have been influenced by two steve pope and dotun adebayo(x-press) i did work experience with them and they showed success has no colour but determination. my uncle was not born here but he never stopped working since he got here. my cousin he focused at 18 and getting his career well underway the whole family proud and encouraging. he already been appeasring on tv and his success has influenced another black brother our other cousin who is up and coming.

brit black men got it right too respect given where respect is due sport-smileybeing black should not be fight among black folk.


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Thank you LadyDay for that, because you wander where some of these sisters who post some of this stuff come from.


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So what your not going to brief Gemini or was youonly here for my benefit.

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Sorry if you find me rude (I know he is) maybe ifhewas to register I could send them exclusively forhis eyes only along with a lovelypicture of a decaying dead cat.







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Your sis Mafdet here again, hope I see you again in the other threads, or was it just these two you decided to post in on your first visit here as a guest

I am not stalking you trust me, its just that I had to respond to your above message as I haven't really come across females talking in that manner. It just strike me as unusual as that type of manner, on say this forum in particular, usually comes from the American Males posters/guests

But then again you could be a male homosexual, then that may well clear up any confusion I have as indicated above.niceone.gif




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Wow great post by Mikey. I agree 100%.

Everyone here clearly means well but we need to be more pragmatic people. I know a lot of brothers who despite the system are knuckling down and making their way. They include FTSE board members, theatre directors, medical consultants and IT consultants. They in themselves may or may not 'get there' but they will inspireour youthtofollow and hopefully exceed.




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How come this topic filtered out.. come on more praises for the Black brothers..... banana.gifinstead of all the unconstructive male bashing we have to deal with.... ower


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Post imported post - 12-12-03, 08:19 AM

Menzer I read this thread when I first joined. I tried hard to come up with a decent UK black male that we can point to, as an example of a postive black man that we can praise. I couldn't.

I hardly know any guys, so really generally speaking, I love the way our men talkand ifthey can match that with educated brains, thenI tell you, Iwould praise them forever!!!

Have you any examples?


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banana.gifSister AQ said:"They have the ability to make me laugh really hard, they have a beauty that's second to none, they're sexy no hell, they dress criss, they're successful in their own right whether it's having a stall on the market, media, night club, whatever, they have a knack of telling you to "come" when you're damn angry with them and take you in their arms and you juuuust melt.

Well, that's my experience anyway.

Gwaan girlfriend. Represent.....clp)
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Flexi said:"well i agree that its hard to find a positive black male role model...it is indeed... but i'll praise up the brothers and tell them exactly what they are good at....

Listen partner. On principle I don't get involved in these type of threads because they are quite offensive intellectually. And like you I never read these threads seriously with the exception of a couple of comments from favourite people.

But really for you, or anyone,to say that it is hard to find positive role models;leads me to ask where and what part of the plantet you are living on? Let me apologies, you could be talking about the world of the white media, or so called black media, but because I have not read the entire thread, could be pissing in the wind. If so I applogies now.

But generally when people make these kind of points, from my experience says more about those making those comments.
My contact books are choc a bloc with top class,[A1] tried and tested brothers, in all kinds of feilds; and you can't help bumping into brothers. One of my closest/trusted brothers, who is a bad man in his feild, told me the other day how he bumped into a white guy in their feild and cut a long story short, introduced him to some brothers; who he said are wicked in their discipline and who he is now hooking up with.

The other day, I was in my building society and I bumped into a brother who is from my island, who I always bump into him annually back home. We were discussing issues and various work we are carrying out in our home country, and I noticed a brother eveasdropping and 'pacifly' part of the dialogue. After my countryman left, the brother[Nigerian] introduced himself to me, and told me he could'nt help but follow the conversation and explained he was a development engineer, even though he worked as a Social Worker[what's new] and he attended one of the best institutions in the country. The South African president's nephew, a bredrin of mine from university, trained as an Oceanographer, but is also a social worker ,wiping the arse of the dysfunctional and dependent. And he is mixed race.

Subsequently we kept in contact, with the Nigerian brother, and when you see the work and ideas my man had which he had shelved. Now we are in the process of arranging for our engineers to hook up with my man and take this discussion furhter.

I find these kind of threads funny, because it would seem to be essentially for the under 30's and women. The reason being is this, in educational, professional and exepriential terms black women are like kids to men. The most advanced in any and almost every feild are black men, who are not part of this under 25-30 dysfunctional/dislocated generation. If you want to find highly educated black people, you have to check black men.

When I attended a particular elite institution, as an undergraduate, I did not see any black women, probably one and in fact most elite institutions, where you find black people, they tend to be male.

So if we don't see black men on television, or in the media and when we do see black people they tend to be girls and women, which makes many of us laugh, it is simple. Black men are the power of black society, the real muscle, not women. We are the ones who will break white power and dominance not women. 1000, educated black women have less social and political consequence than 100 black men.

White men would be terrified if we got profile, not only about what we would do with it, but he would stuggle to get women of their choice, because we would have them to reject at will. Women with education are not as important as men, with education, because our fundamental instincts and oreintation are different. Women will suck up and nuture and big up an enemy. It is their nature men will not, unless lesser men who exist in every group. The more weedy weak, less powerful types.

I cannot forget as a kid who loved American history, how most of the white men who wiped out and systematically exterminated native American civilisation, had native American women. As white men did in South Africa. Took a long time for me to work out what that was about, women spreading their legs for an enemy; while the same enemy was persuing their fathers, brothers, cousins and friends and ex lovers to wipe them out.
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