@nbonyenohwrote: One out of every three black women will be raped or molested in her life time and eight out of ten times it will be by a parent or a close relative (me included).

I am not aware of this, does thishappens onlyin the UK or worldwide? Where did you get you stat. from?

FIRSTLY I WOULD LIKE TO BIG UP KUSH FOR STARTING UP THE TOPIC AS I AM FEELIN UR SENTIMENTS AND POSITIVITY.

I TOO LOVE MY BLACK MEN, U ARE A BEAUTIFUL CREATION AND I AS UR SISTER WILL ALWAYS HAVE UR BACKS. SOME PEOPLE ARE BEING SARCASTIC AND CRITICAL, FOR INSTANCE SAYING "LETS SING KUMBAYA" I SEE THIS AS CHILDISH. THERE IS A SAYING "BEFORE YOU CAN LOVE ANYONE ELSE YOU HAVE TO LEARN TO LOVE URSELF" AND THATS WHAT WE ARE DOING, WE'RE LOVING OURSELVES AS A BLACK PEOPLE, WHAT IS SO WRONG WITH THAT?

AS A BLACK FEMALE I LOVE BLACK MEN AND I AM NOT AFRAID TO SAY IT. IM IN LOVE WITH MY OWN BLACK MAN, I LOVE MY FATHER, BROTHERS, COUSINS ETC.. AND BLACK MEN AS A WHOLE, OK YEAH THEY HAVE THEIR FAULTS BUT WHO DOESN'T?

THIS IS MEANT TO BE A POSITIVE TOPIC AND WHEN I ENTERED IT I THOUGHT THATS WHAT IT WOULD BE SO WHY ARE PEOPLE POSTING NEGATIVE COMMENTS AND TRYING TO PUT DOWN PEOPLE WHO ARE EXPRESSING LOVE IT DOESN'T MAKE SENSE, THIS IS NOT A CONTROVERSIAL OR DEMEANING SUBJECT, DOES EVERYTHING INTHIS FORUMHAVE TO TURN INTO A SLANGING MATCH, COME ON GUYS FIX UP.

TO ALL BLACK MEN - I CAN ONLY SPEAK FOR MYSELF, I LOVE YOU. SIMPLE AS. THERE IS NOTHING BETTER THAN HAVING A BLACK MAN BY YOUR SIDE, SOMEONE WHO SHARES YOUR HISTORY, SOMEONE YOU CAN RELY ON, DEPEND UPON, LOVE, NURTURE AND SUPPORT AS YOUR FRIEND, LOVER AND PARTNER.

US LOVING OUR BLACK MEN IS ALL ABOUT PROGRESSION, UPLIFTMENT, FULFILLMENT. I SEE NOTHING WRONG WITH THAT. WHEN WE UNITE WE BECOME STRONGER AS A PEOPLE AND I SEE THAT AS A VERY POSITIVE THING.

NUFF SAID

Thank you everybody, I am glad that this topic has provided an opportunity for Black Men and Women to make loving statements to one another. Keep the love flowin and post some love for a special Black man or Woman in your life.
P.S.-The Kush who started this topic joined on Monday, Febuary 2,2004...since there are two Kush's using this website now.

Oh yeh? well all this love that's being given out is making me weak. Ive read some of the other replies love, spirituality sensuality and all that jazz. WHATEVER! AS FAR AS I'm concerned I dont like Nubian queen career women. Sounds like the type I wrote about if you care to look at my other posts.

What BlackMen need most is organising. We don't need anyones love. Especially not Nubian queen love. We've been lectured dissed and kept out by everyone for too long. When Black Men organise we will take love when and from whom we please. We Wont be asking. A lot of you I suspect are young Brtothers who don't fully grasp what this accursed White Man run world has in store for you.

Do not listen to anymore rubbish. I used to believe in Nubian queens and all that crap,but you realise thatits not love that counts its power. From the playground up the biggest kid getsrespect and what he wants.And you Brother must not be diverted from what counts.Its about getting strong, strong enough to kick arse, go where want, when we want. How do you get strong, first train the body, take up self defence, weight training.Then train the mind, this is the key.Unlock allthat dormantpower that a mans beentrying for hundreds of years tokeep you from tapping into.

Who are all these Nubians queens who are their subjects and what is their country, most of all i'd like to know who does the work? No me I'm just a Black Man whos tired of charmers who tell me and you, how much they've got our back but dissus behindour backs. These are the first to run to Mighty whitey with scandal and to rub in your face how much of a career woman they are and you better be a career man too otherwise you ain't touchin this! Am I wrong "Sista"? Your prepared to stay by yourself coz no doubt "you can do better by yourself".

Anyway Bro is time to fix up we will start meeting and planning quietly, it must be quietly never let anyone into your heart not even those who claim to have your back. We must build and lead by example. Find Brothasand organise, monitor our enemies andexpose them.Youv'e seen what power can do, it kicked arse in Iraq, don't you want some? When youv'e got power you get all the love you want, all the time without asking, you don't work for anybody, everybody works for you and calls themself a career woman orNubian queen for the priviledge.

NativeSon

@nbonyenoh


Thanks for making yourself explicit. It unfortunate it is like that in America and some places.

Yep yep, I love all you black men....you are truly superior in the male species!! No one looks, acts, feels, is,as sexy as you guys are!!

Love yourselvesand othersand you will recieve love in return.

Much love,

Amber xxx

@cashmoney-

Have you heard of the term constructive criticism. So what if black women want to (in your eyes) engage in male bashing.

Fool you need to understand that women are just notify menon the areas that women are not happy with. A sharpe,mindful,positive and virtuous man would understand that if black women never cared about their men then they wouldn't let you know.If you love and cared forsomeone then you would want themto better themselves.So to achieve that you tell them their faults.

@GUEST (THE 1ST ONE)

WE BOTH KNOW THAT YOU WANT TO BE BLACK-THAT'S WHY YOUR ALL UP IN BLACK CHAT. THE FACT THAT YOU WILL NEVER BE ABLE TO BE BLACK HAS GOT YOU BITTER AND TWISTED AGAINST US. WHITE PEOPLE(ESPECIALLY YOUR WOMEN HAVE AND WILL NEVER BE HAPPY WITHE THEMSELVES-THEY ARE NOT PRIDE).

THEY ARE CONSTANTLY TRYING TO OBTAIN BLACK CHARACTERISTICS.

1. YOU ALL TAN YOUR SKIN TOO MAKE IT DARKER.

2.YOU ALL RUSH TO HAVE IMPLANTS IN YOU BREAST AND BOTTOM

3.YOU ALL HAVE BOTOX INJECTION BECAUSE YOU ALL AGE FASTER THAN WE DO-SO REALLY YOU ARE TRYING TO KEEP UP WITH US AND STAY YOUNG AND FIT.WHAT YOU NEED TO DO IS NOT EAT THE RAW MEAT AND ACTUALLY UNDERSTAND THAT THERE IS MORE THAN BEANS ON TOAST TO EAT.

Asian people also want to be black(mainly the boys). Most of the asian girls want to be white by using bleaching products on both hair and skin.

None of you are proud of what you are-thats why you all want to change and try to be something that you never will be.



God bless

Why does a topic of encouragement and love for Black Men have to end up the dissing of other races and a war of words on who is "struggling" the most among the sexes!!

oh well-a life!!!

maybe i was wrong to write what i did-NOH SAH!

Truthfully i understand where you are coming from but IT WAS NOT POST AT YOU.I dont mindthe fact that you felt the need to be inna.Thank for your view-it wasvalid to some1.

Allwas doing is sticking up 4 black men

BrothersLadyLexi loves ya'll 4 LIFE!!

To Aleysia

there is nothing wrong wit liking black men but u make it sound like everyone discriminates when dats not tha point! i am with a black man who feeds me spiritually and mentally on a regular basis. besides there is nothing wrong with praising a black man when he does good, ya'll people don't mind opening ur mouth when they're quick ta do wrong-feel free ta correct me ifim wrong.Personally i'm attracted to a persons personna and i ent sorry ta say dat it's a black man dats done it for me.i'm not ignorant to any other race or culture, u don't particularly choose who u click wit its just a thing dat happens i just found tha definition of what it means to be a man and he happens to be black-now what!? x x x x x blkfishslapx x x x x x x x x x