thats what videoman wrote

ya dun kno. The funny thing is that there's a new Black **** star called Lexi (I kid you not). But I've read the posts with some amusement. To answer Lexi's initial points 1. Men watch **** for a sexual release, regardless whether he's in a relationship or not.


theres nothing worng with what he's said, it would do you well to read between the lines.It is an honourable man who would rather wank than hurt the feelings of another human being for the sake of his own selfish tensions.

Give me a man that wanks to release his tension and a man that lies to get a girl in bed and I know who I'll choose time and time again.





Makkedah wrote:

Lexi wrote: What type of man claims to love a women then goes and watches ****ography videos of white women with yellow hair etc



I find that your statement/reasonings areredundant for the following reasons:

Well there are a lot of black men and women in the **** industry.

Couples of all races watch **** together. Some even make videos of themselves together.

Men are visual creatures by nature. ****o is just another facet that caters to that part of them. ***Hint: Watch the type of **** he watches. If he's watching men on men it is a key sign that he has other tendancies***

How do you know that EVERYman or woman that masturbates feels bad about what they did after they complete the act.

If a man and a woman are seperated for military service, work comittments etc. Or if one spouse cannot temporarily perform sexuallydue to medical reasons, i.e.just gave birth, medical illness, surgeryetc. Is it not better for them to self gratify themselves in the spouses absence rather than CHEAT???

Personallyif my man wouldwatches **** with me orwithout me, atleast I know he is having safe sex with himself rather than falling into bed with the random chick and exposing me to all sorts of unmentionable little critters and diseases.

Just wondering.

Everybodys motivation for doing it is different. We can't judge and lump them all into one boat and mark it "H.M.S PERVERTS".

Side bar::

Obviously there is a high demand for ****ography.The ****o industry generates millions, and ****o stars are quite rich.**** and sex aids can run to be quite expensive. They sell their products high because they can and people pay it and have been paying for eons.



Masturbation = self love.

Masturbation = safe sex.

Ahhh, Makkedah and Lexi.

I can talk shit and I am a wanker, however I dont know who you ladies are, but I still got love for you. It's just the internet so you need to relax.

Oh yeah, regarding my post declaring my love for Black women....

It has the power to overcome the lust thatcorrupts mere mortals and it can transcendthe human spirit to a higher plain of emotional subsistance.

does it really?


Yes really. The funny thing is, I get grief from my male friends who ridicule me for not sleeping with every female that presents herself to me. There's been countless articles, programmes and films made about men who cheat, especially Black men. Why they cheat is subject to examination, but I exercise restraint (for Makkedah, thats the "overcome lust" bit) because as I've got older, sex with someone you care about is more important than sex with everyone in a skirt. I guess on that we have to differ.

Also, the link made between masturbation and homosexuality is an amusing one. I hope for your sake you were not being serious. I dont consider masturbation acrime against humanity nor do I feel sleeping with a woman to purge my every sexual urge a Godly act. I'm curious where it says in the Bible that masturbation is a sin, I'm sure you can enlighten me. However, if its just your opinion, on that we have to differ.

I do have faults, but I dont consider masturbation being one of them. Thank you for spelling it out and making it plain, Greeneyedukgirl. Also, thank you Fazuan for your words of support.

And to all of you, one love (pardon the pun)

Furthermore, if it is a sin to self pleasure urself.....Why did God put them perfectly arms length away?

We do not allow links to **** site here sorry, but no can do!!!!

oh, sorry.

well **** is for saddo's really but desperate men also watch **** cause they're sad or probally wanna spice up there sex life by watching the sex moves that they preform



but **** is also a health hassard cause they don'tteach peeps about safe sex,a lot of these **** stars have got aids and i think it's sad really how peeps watch **** to spice up their sex lives,

i don't watch **** it's a once in a blue moon thing for me cause **** does nothing for my benifit

anyway lexi keep it blessed yeah(p.s i'm sure we know each other)

Please explain to me how two people having sex can be a turn on for me having sex with my partner!!!?

This is an honest question guys coz I just don't get it!!

Lexi wrote:
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Hey Lexi obviously the fact that your gurl's guy is watching **** films is bothering her.

I'm assuming that when she met him he was watching them before??? What exactly is it that she does not like, does she feel that somehow he does not find her attractive or enough for him which is why he must be watching them???

You know what he could kind of vouch the same argument by her going into chatrooms, *which we all know are known for people linking other people, before you start not everyone but some*, he may say she could be chatting to a next man and feels threatened by that!!!

Ok has he asked her to give up something that she likes and she has done it for him, if she has she can say that she does not like him watching the films and see what his reaction is.

But is not part of loving someone accepting the parts or things they do that you don't like also???

I don't think him watching them is cheating that's what he likes to do. What your friend has to ask herself is if it is something she can accept him doing, if she cannot then she ends it otherwise accept it as what he likes to do.

There is no right and wrong with regards to relationships or what a person does, only what you find comfortable or what is right for you and wrong for you.

About him watching a man getting Oral, do you mean man on man or a woman giving it to a man???

If you mean man on man then she should ask him if he finds it a turn on because if he does then maybe he might be bi-sexual and if she having unprotected sex with him she got bigger issues than him watching **** films.

If you mean man on woman then why would that make him gay???

Bwoy Jeanza so much question you hv?

lol

like the name by the way

Actually he wasn't watching them at the start of their relationship.To the second question i think she does feel inadequate and less attractive to him. I told hernot to gwaarn bout it coz she is so pretty and trust me most guys would be more than satisfied. She said that he promised that he would never look at another women in lust.

WOMEN take note if a man tells you he will never look at another women in lust again-DEM TUH LIE!!!

Both of them go on chatrooms.

Not sure if has asked her to give up something she loves. But to be fair he didn't want to give her head so they both agreed that she could get it else where. He told ME he hated the fact that another man was making her happy.So then i farced and told her.She decided that she would stop for him so thats what she did-plus she told him she had stopped too.

Concerning oral sex i'm saying on the videos/dvd's they usually show a women or man giving head to a next man.Now the camera more than often gives a close up shot of a penis with a mouth at the end of it.Whats so for filling in that?? That would put me off the nicest most finger lickening chicken on earth.