Sooofresh Wrote....
Another alternative is
1) be nice .........get walked all over...
2) give her attention ......you'll,at first(probably!) get ignored(unless you're Mr.Wonderful!)
3)be nice..........get walked over(some more

).

4)give her attention ...get (totally!) ignored.......


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However.....
1/ be indifferent at firstthen be nice(once U start to get to know her

)
2/ continue to be indifferent(most Women/Girls consider themselves attractive so find it VERY hard to believe/understand U don't fancy them("he MUST be Gay")....this will arouse(in 75%+ cases) their curiosity...and usually(NOT always) they will start to take an interest in youclp)
3/then get the right balanceI would suggest being cool...not pressurising them...giving the Ladies the space they need but also treating them well and like a Queen if U like each other when you're in their Companyniceone.gif.....
p.s.Shame it took me 20 Adult Years to realise this.blktype..