so we are taling at a break and there is me with on black male one mixed male and one white male........anyway i am looking in teh lates sophiscates black hair mag and singer Leela James (never heard of her but she is in this american mag i have an addiction for) http://www.leelajames.com/

anyway in the mag she sporting her natural hair which we may call a big ole afro....with movement. so i show the lads and say i would love my hair to be like that. and the white guy is like well you need to get growing your hair, but damn you chnage your hairstyle so often, .... etc etc conversation progresses and we talking hair and i say to the black brother i know you wuldnt check a girl with an afro or natural hair , he says no with attitude so i add yeah your only into those silky blond down there types. i also say that the mix race brother would check a girl with an afro and he is like as long as she is clean i dont care. afros are nice. so black brother tries to turn on me ( ya see my blackness scares him for some reason) he goes i am nlt bothere bla bla plus you cant say nothing you inly check black men( i could have sworn i had this brown skin that people refer to as black) and the white guy junps in and says it doesnt matter who she only checks she is married so what does it matter.

sometimes i get the feeling that this brother feel he needs to always defend the fact that he has never checked a black girl and that he just lost. not because he dates outside his race but because he has no clue someone show me if there is a such a place as save.a.brotha.com lol

shoo you would have thought u was in the wrong for having a black2black love thang....by all means check ya white gal but dont slag of those who dont. the worst thing is the mixed race guy seems more black an in touch must be a good education from his jamaican daddy

@ LadyDay

What I want to know is who is the more bothered: Him by the fact that you only check black guys; or You by the fact that he only check white girls

The way I figure it, you two cancel each other out so its all cool.
Sorry for being a little mishievous tonight, but reading your post had me thinking......"Oh no not anyother inter-racial thread, and I thought it was supposed to be about hair".......LOL

Respect

i am not bothered by the fact that he loves off white girls, just cant stand it when he has go at me for preferring my race that he happens to be apart of. do what you like but dont hate player

@ladyday

Another confused soul. But you put him on the backfoot telling him he wont check out his blackness. Why you playing wid him like dat?..lol

As for the mixed race brother being more in touch.

Shows the value of real education. If its one thing Ive learned. The outstanding coconuts of the world come in all shape and shades.

From dark jet nubian shade to the reddist of red.

@LadyDay

Now you see what you gone and done....you are going to be the topic of cussing between this black guy and his white european queen tonight....now you tell me Ladyday how have you helped the advancement of our race with your insensitive remarks LOL...now there is absolutely no way this guy will come back to black....oh what a waste and shame blkcrywe the women of the African race really should kneel down and pray for our lost brother and pray he comes back to usbighairlol

Ladyday: all I can say is that you've got time to be conversing with fools like that, from I hear a brother running down only European women..I'd aint even bothering to converse...

@mafdetbighairlol

@k, you know me. its so funny and i cant help myself. he will see me as a revolutionary whilst others will see me as one who is intouch with her race

your right i shouldnt waste time on the, especially if you see the girls he goes after. h eis tuck in his ways 30+ women of africa worldwide we nah want dat der man deh. ok i will stop shaming him back to black. he can have blondy cause he surely cant have me

......but I thought the wholeproblemwas thathe doesn't want you, (or someone who resembles you).........lol

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LADYDAY WROTE: anyway in the mag she sporting her natural hair which we may call a big ole afro....with movement. so i show the lads and say i would love my hair to be like that. and the white guy is like well you need to get growing your hair, but damn you chnage your hairstyle so often, .... etc etc conversation progresses and we talking hair and i say to the black brother i know you wuldnt check a girl with an afro or natural hair , he says no with attitude

First of all, you did pass judgement on him on the basis of this statement of yours " i know you wuldnt check a girl with an afro or natural hair " and on this basis, you were in the wrong whether you admit it or not. If i were him 2, you will inevitably get an attitude from me. You would not have asked another Black female like yourself this question" i know you wuldnt check a dark skinned black man " would you?

so i add yeah your only into those silky blond down there types. i also say that the mix race brother would check a girl with an afro and he is like as long as she is clean i dont care. afros are nice. so black brother tries to turn on me ( ya see my blackness scares him for some reason) he goes i am nlt bothere bla bla plus you cant say nothing you inly check black men( i could have sworn i had this brown skin that people refer to as black) and the white guy junps in and says it doesnt matter who she only checks she is married so what does it matter.

sometimes i get the feeling that this brother feel he needs to always defend the fact that he has never checked a black girl and that he just lost. not because he dates outside his race but because he has no clue someone show me if there is a such a place as save.a.brotha.com lol

shoo you would have thought u was in the wrong for having a black2black love thang....by all means check ya white gal but dont slag of those who dont. the worst thing is the mixed race guy seems more black an in touch must be a good education from his jamaican daddy


All i can say is you and some other sisters need to get over this "All black men are with white women blah blah" as most Black men are with Black women and not all Black women are with their own kind 2. I believe you are trying to re-createinterracial relationship thread knowing that people are fed up with it. Just let it go please.

@ LadyDay : We've all heard da phrase "Da Grass Is Greener, On Da Other Side" fine, but if yr said friend/black colleague tinks dat is da case so dat he goes off & chases caucasian skirt den more fool him..

l'll rather have my same ole same ole "GRASS" as l know dat where me deh even if da"GRASS" is old l know its"CLASS" & dat will"LAST" 2 "RAAHS"..