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i personally dont think it is... superficial to want certain things.. i mean... i want to win the lottery... dont means im gonna win it...

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what my contention is ...is... if you "DEMAND"certain things.. then u in turn should have those things...
u want a pretty boy... are you pretty...
you want a buff man... is your body tight..
UR man man must have a phd... Do you have one...
you want a man with a porsche.. do u have one
...
if you dont...
then i wouldnt necessarily call that person superficial...
just deluded...
what if the man of your dreams with all those things you want...
turns around and asks u for the same things u demand...
hmmm?
he is tall he wants tall kids... so he wont marry a woman under 6ft...
or u demand a pretty body and he turns arounds and demand you have a body like tyra banks..
hmmm...
and so the cookie crumbles
in short... i say...
make sure what u demand.. u can also give when its asked of u

So thats a response? man your just ............yawn.....yawn..can't be bothered really.

I see by the way your spelling my name you have been reading around the forum and have decided to join the Musketeers, well done dearniceone.gif

Well I dont think im shallow because I have certain criteria I just know that within myself if they dont meet some or all of them,we wont last but 2 minutes.

Some of my criteria are as follows :5ft 10 or over(because I am tall)

Good teeth,(cant bear to kiss a man with teeth like a row of condemned houses)

Proportionate weight

Smell good

Working-dont care at what just so long as its legal,and besides I have enough money to take of myself.

But above and beyond everything else he has to have serious intellect or the capacity for it,otherwise I get really,really bored.

...and please dont talk to me about shallow, especially when I dated a brother who collected trollies at Tescos for a living...and why did I date him?even though he was borderline Buttaz,I dated him because he was really bright and he made me laugh,it was he who broke it off in the end because although he never articulated it,I think he was afraid of me on some level.confused3

@Abissinia
thanks for the compliment about my avatar. once again, I am not faulting women to have certain standards for a mate, i say once again, that is not it. All i am saying with the few of the aformentioned examples above are some shallow statements posted by women in different posts here and in other forums. Once again, there is nothing wrong with choosing some good standard qualities. many of you all are reading this wrong. Of course there is nothing wrong when a women or man for that matter seeks someone with a stable job, good looks,transportation, etc... those are not shallow. Why would she date(although some women do) a guy who doesn't have his own vehicle? Shallow are examples of being tooooo picky(hence breaking things down like a microscope on characteristics that are just simply ridiculous with some of the examples women stated above. Nowhere in my examples can anyone state where I faulted a women for choosing a good looking guy, a guy who has transportation, etc... All of you are arguing statement that I did not post. How can you debate with me about statements or characteristics not mentioned in mypost? Again PEOPLE don't get it twisted.confused3

@oo9

Thanks oo9. I couldn't have said it any better. The ones who are writing ridiculous statements and getting my rhetoric twisted obviously have no clue, maybe I hit a factual nerve and they can't handle the truth, or clearly didn't read my entire post. You made excellent points at ridiculous statements posted.

I don't mind a debate, but I rather have an intelligent honest discussion rather than a foolish-off the wall or topicdiscussion any day. niceone.gif

@jett black
First off jett black, I can start any thread on this forum that I want. So you can save "please don't talk to me about shallow" to yourself.

Second, good for you that you have certain criteria that you look for banana.gif. I have certain criteria that I look for in a mate also. Good for you that you dated a guy who had a hobby collecting trollies. You admitted dating a borderline buttazz. Hmmm. I think that is a matter of poor judgement on your part to date a butt azz. Dating a buttazz is just stupid. That has nothing to do with being shallowI think you better read my post again where I spoke of mental stability. As a matter of fact maybe you need to read it 2 or 3 times before you get my point.smoking-devil

oo9

dingbat

i guess you are another missing the "humour radar"



oooh I remember

the Arabic or in txt it was a reply to your idiotic thread " can black peole read?"that - you have a Masters- pull the other one bruv. The only Master you have is your boss at Tescos.

but

let me teach you basic genetics

both my parents are tall, but i am short

as you can see genetics for height gene is goverened by a dominant gene and a recessive gene. hence my mum and dad have the gene Tt and Tt and sinceT= tall and t=short, i have the gene tt, but my sister got TT=tall or Tt= Tall, hence if i marry a tall person say for example with Tt and I am a tt then their is a one in 3 chance i will have a tall kid, even better if the guy has TT and my tt then all my kids will be tall

but then who cares what you think...............you are a black man and a mong at it.



but then we have wolverine in the "sexy feet" thread making a shallow preference for wpmen with sexy feet, saying it is a bonus, well i say it is a bonus to be tall, and since i get asked out by tall guysthen don't sweat me , sweat the technique.

HOW TO IMPRESS A WOMAN
Compliment her,
respect her,
honour her,
cuddle her,
kiss her, caress her,
love her, stroke her,
tease her,
comfort her,
protect her,
hug her,
hold her,
spend money on her,
wine and dine her,
buy things for her,
listen to her,
care for her,
stand by her,
support her,
hold her,
go to the ends of the Earth for her.


HOW TO IMPRESS A MAN

Show up naked.
Bring food.

LOL cb but there is one other thing... keep quiet, shushhhhh

@blackmatta

yep error it is one in two chance or 50% chance of your kid being tall

but since I am super shallow, i am gong to do genetic screening and choose a mate with only TTblktoungue



and since you guys do nothing but whinge about every thing from what we wear, to how we style our hair, too what to choose for our prospect partners

then i would suggest to leave us ALONEblktoungue

@wolverine

I don’t think you understood what I was saying… Let me try again. A woman has a right to choose what she wants in her mate (we agree on this), she can set whatever standards she wants, however high or trivial her characteristics it might come across to you and me, it may be normal and very important to her.

My preference is completely different to most. Important things that I look for in a potential partner may not be as important to some but I may come across as having too high expectations or too superficial to others.

I agree with you that we should be realistic with what we demand, but then I have never come across a person who got a partner by attacking them with a bow, arrow and slingshot. Those who are overly critical and wrapped up with nitpicking, never actually manage to get any relationship started.

But, remember however superficial or impossible a woman’s demands may seem to you, there is always someone who matches those specifics to a tee and probably think her demands are normal too. Believe me I’ve seen it.

All I am saying is that as long as the woman/man demanding the moon, the stars, and the sun can provide her/his own moon, star, and sun in return then fair game to them.

However, if a woman is demanding all of the above yet can’t provide nothing of her own I’ll advice her to stop deluding her self.