where are all the pretty black women - Page 3

Twang · (#51 (**permalink**))

Trunk wrote: Efenjee,I didnt imply that attractive black women are rare,I merely pointed out that *I* dont see very many,and yes,I do see many attractive women of different nationalities,...just not many black ones......but as you say,maybe my eyesight is not that good,....who knows, if I have them checked maybe out it could open up a whole new world of attractive black women.lol.blkbrukteet

Busted fool... get a life

Case closed.

Abissinia · (#52 (**permalink**))

Twang niceone.gif, said everything that needed to be said bro.

Just wanted to say I am glad you two (Darkomega and trunk) have found each other... Now you can blissfully go on dissing black women.

This is why i support abortion.

trunk · (#53 (**permalink**))

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Efenjee,you`ve asked me a question but you`ve also put forward your own answer,so its pointless for me to add anything further than to say that in my opinion not many black guys date exclusively black women,.ie date only black women,..there are a great deal that date women of any race and simply because a guy dates a black woman does not necessarily means he only dates black women...and the same is true also for the reverse.

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Admittedly there are exception to the rule,and there will be black men that only dates exclusively black women,and black guys who only date exclusively white women.

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Okay Trunk, so let's talk about the black guys that date any colour girl:

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do black guys discuss how unattractive most black women are? Do they pretend to our faces that we are the most attractive but behind our backs slate us? Please letme know.

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I wasn't having a go at guys that date white women, all I'm interested in right now is what black guys say about black women that they don't say to their face. I was guessing that it's the black guys that prefer not to go out with black women but if you are saying that is not the case, please answer my original question. Sorry if I made it look like I already had the answer.

Is there a general consensus among the black guys you know that black women are on the whole rather unattractive? Please be aware that I am not arguing with you, I just want to hear what you are saying.

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Efenjee,as a rule men universally are attracted to attractive women,that is how nature made us,in order to chose a mate we are drawn to certain physical attributes,and depending on the man those attributes will differ,..and also to a great deal our environment,...there are other factors,but generally speaking men will always look at a pretty women,...regardless of her colour.

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There is no getting away from it,both men and women are drawn to the physical attributes of each other and each individual may look for different physical characteristics,but we will still chose an attractive look to an ugly one,and even though ideas of attractiveness may differ,..we still look all want an attractive person,...in Jamaica some men are drawn to very large big bottom women,,although that is considered horrid in other cultures.

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Its hard for me to tell you what black men are saying to their women`s faces as opposed to what they say behind their backs,...ofcourse jokes are made sometimes about certain body parts,but thats usually crude banter between men,what a guy says to his woman is between him and his woman alone.

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If you are happy with *your* man and feels secure about the way he treats you then there is no need to be concerned about what he may or may not say when in the presence of his friends.

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As far as I know there is absolutely no concensus amongst black men that I know of that black women are on the whole unattractive,that would be pretty silly,as there are levels of unattractiveness and attractiveness in every colour.

simz · (#54 (**permalink**))

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typical efenjee, always trying to bring the 'white woman angle' into things. whats wrong with you? this topic isnt about race, but once again your prejudices and insecurities come to the fore. looking at all your responses, there is always a race slant in them.

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My sentiments exactly Darkomega....it was never about race but it seems I`m being dragged into a discussion which only proves others prejudices,.....then I`m accused of having an "agenda" when I dont say what others wish me to say.

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Negative, if it was never about race the title would not be 'Where are all the pretty black women'. You started this yourself and with each comment you make your just digging a hole deeper for yourself so I would quit now while you've still got a leg to stand on. I don't know where black men like you are dragged up from but it seems some of you need to go back to the motherland and get some CULTURE. There are beautiful black women everywhere if you want to see it, but YOU don't want to see it that is why your making these type of comments. Also if your wife is black why not ask her that question?

trunk · (#55 (**permalink**))

simz wrote:

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typical efenjee, always trying to bring the 'white woman angle' into things. whats wrong with you? this topic isnt about race, but once again your prejudices and insecurities come to the fore. looking at all your responses, there is always a race slant in them.

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My sentiments exactly Darkomega....it was never about race but it seems I`m being dragged into a discussion which only proves others prejudices,.....then I`m accused of having an "agenda" when I dont say what others wish me to say.

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Negative, if it was never about race the title would not be 'Where are all the pretty black women'.

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there are black women in all races,..maybe you should get out more.

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You started this yourself and with each comment you make your just digging a hole deeper for yourself so I would quit now while you've still got a leg to stand on.

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This is not some kind of race,and I have no idea what you`re talking about digging holes,I am having a discussion,if you dont chose to respond then dont,..the board is big enough,there are a myriad of other topics for you to vent on.....I am more than capable of looking after myself,I dont need a bunny boiler to hold my hand or tell me when to stop talking.

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I don't know where black men like you are dragged up from but it seems some of you need to go back to the motherland and get some CULTURE. There are beautiful black women everywhere if you want to see it, but YOU don't want to see it that is why your making these type of comments. Also if your wife is black why not ask her that question?

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I dont know where black women like you are dragged up from,but it seems you need to crawl back under your stone and get over my opinions.....and my preferences.

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Nasima · (#56 (**permalink**))

trunk wrote:

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Abissinia wrote:

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trunk wrote:

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where the hell are the attractive black women...??

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I would assume they are all hiding from you...

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WAY TO FUNNY MY SISTA ! bighairlol

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@ TRUNK blkbuttkick

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IN ALL SERIOUSNESS AND FAIRNESS , FIRSTLY YOU'RE ATITUDE FOR STARTERS COULD BE A STRONG CONTRIBUTING FACTOR WHY YOU'RE NOT ENCOUNTERING THAT BEAUTIFUL SISTA (FROM THE INSIDE OUT) . JUST AS A GOOD BROTHER CAN DETECT A FOUL SISTA , LIKEWISE A HONORABLE , ATTRACTIVE SISTA CAN DETECT A FOUL BROTHER . I KNOW SPEAKING FOR ONESELF, I'LL DARN NEAR EXHAUST EVER AVENUE TO HAVE NO DEALINGS WITH A BROTHER THAT IS NOT WORTHY IN SPEECH AND ATITUDE AND IFIT'S QUITE APPARENT HE'S SHALLOW. IF THE SHOE DOESN'T FIT THEN I GUESS YOU DON'T HAVE MUCH TO WORRY ABOUT NOW DO YOU ?

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Nasima. guyflag

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No bro`,the shoe doesnt fit...So I`ve got absolutely nothing to worry about,...thanks for the psychological analysis though...lol.

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@ Trunk

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For Clarification Purposes I'm ALL LADY ! and i'm glad the shoe doesn't fit. LOL and you're welcome for the analysis , i'll be sure to leave you my bill . Have a Blessed Day !

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Nasima.

Richard Darial · (#57 (**permalink**))

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Trunk...you keep emphasising that you ain't saying attractive black women are n ot out there but just that YOU DON'T SEE any attractiveblack woman and I'm starting to wonder if this is some sort of riddle.

Trunk, are you in jail? Or a monastery? On a naval ship? In a submarine? You have to be somewhere cut off from normal society where you are not seeing a normal cross section of the community. Let me know if I am right.

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No Efenjee,I am not in any institution,.....but its fair to say that one man`s idea of beauty is not entirely the next man`s wouldnt you say.

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That's right.

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If there was a feasible way to make sure that black men ONLY saw black women, who'd ever complain none of them were pretty?

babygirl44 · (#58 (**permalink**))

@ Trunk

Sorry if you have already answered this question somewhere, I might have missed it but:

WHAT COLOUR IS YOUR WIFE? Just interested is all.

Aryek · (#59 (**permalink**))

Trunk,

If your idea of a beautiful black woman is truley Naomi Campbell, then you shouldn't be having a problem seeing attractive black women. Naomi Campbell has typical Black features that are predominante in our populations. There are millions of Naomi Campbell types walking about in Africa right now. These are the same women who came to the Westyears agoand are the same type who come to mind when most people think about the typical black woman.

If on the other hand, your ideal look for a black woman, is Tyra Banks, then you should turn your eyes to East African women because that look is predominante in their population but is not typical in the rest of the black populations. If Tyra Banks is what you want, then you won't find too many black women beautiful because most of us do not look like that.

If your idea of a beautiful black woman is one who looks like Halle Berry, Sade or Beyonce, then it's no wonder that you've only seen 5 beautiful black women in years. Halle Berry and Sade are mixed race and since most black women do not have a white mother or father,you are unlikely to find too many black women who resemble these women and you, therefore will not find them attractive. Beyonce has a recent Spanish ancestor and even though, she's more black than anything else, she still falls in the same category as Halle and Sade.

In the end, it depends on which of these three groups you find attractive. This is why people wanted to knowwhat you considered to beideal.

trunk · (#60 (**permalink**))

Aryek wrote:

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Trunk,

If your idea of a beautiful black woman is truley Naomi Campbell, then you shouldn't be having a problem seeing attractive black women. Naomi Campbell has typical Black features that are predominante in our populations. There are millions of Naomi Campbell types walking about in Africa right now. These are the same women who came to the Westyears agoand are the same type who come to mind when most people think about the typical black woman.

If on the other hand, your ideal look for a black woman, is Tyra Banks, then you should turn your eyes to East African women because that look is predominante in their population but is not typical in the rest of the black populations. If Tyra Banks is what you want, then you won't find too many black women beautiful because most of us do not look like that.

If your idea of a beautiful black woman is one who looks like Halle Berry, Sade or Beyonce, then it's no wonder that you've only seen 5 beautiful black women in years. Halle Berry and Sade are mixed race and since most black women do not have a white mother or father,you are unlikely to find too many black women who resemble these women and you, therefore will not find them attractiv