where are all the pretty black women

trunk · (#1 (**permalink**))

I have to get straight to the point,and without wishing to insult anyone,...but where the hell are the attractive black women...??

I can count on one hand the amount of attractive black women I`ve seen in about 5 years,I am certainly no oil painting myself,and I`m not ugly either, I consider myself a fairly decent looking black man with a fairly decent physique,but it seems that attractive black women are a bit thin on the ground,...and that is *my* opinion,...someone else may have a different opinion.

obviously beauty is in the eye of the beholder,and everyone`s taste differs,and I am not saying that there are no attractive black women,just that *I* havent seen any.

I will state the types I`ve seen that are a put off simply by their looks/attitude later on,but lets hear your views,.....and oh by the way,....anybody who waan jump innah mi chest bout wah mi seh feel free,...just realise seh mi aggo jump right back innah yours.

Twang · (#2 (**permalink**))

Define pretty...

Abissinia · (#3 (**permalink**))

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where the hell are the attractive black women...??

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I would assume they are all hiding from you...

Strongbodygirl · (#4 (**permalink**))

I have to get straight to the point,and without wishing to insult anyone,...but where the hell are the attractive black women...??

@trunk

WHAT??!!..Sounds like you need to pull your head out of your behind...blkbooty..

Never heard such foolishness!!

Aryek · (#5 (**permalink**))

That depends on your definition of beauty and the kind of black woman that you're looking for. If you have certain features that are not prominent in the black population, then you will not find too many black womenthat are to your taste and you are best served lookingelsewhere fora mate. If youare looking for a woman with a certain attitude, thenmaybe you are looking in the wrong place. Certain places tend to produce and attract people who think and act a certainway,so it might just be that the places youfrequent tend toattractwomen whose attitudes you don't like. If your looking for an intellectual girl, for instance, you are more likely to find her on the campus of a university than you areto find her on the street corner of a ghetto. If you are going to trashyplaces to look for a mate, then you can expect to find trash.

Aryek · (#6 (**permalink**))

It would also be helpful if you could describe what physical and emotional characteristics you look for in a mate. Narrow down what exactly it is you are looking for and that way you won't confuse the people on this site. You'll get better responses to your question this way.

evo0 · (#7 (**permalink**))

trunk wrote:

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I have to get straight to the point,and without wishing to insult anyone,...but where the hell are the attractive black women...??

I can count on one hand the amount of attractive black women I`ve seen in about 5 years,I am certainly no oil painting myself,and I`m not ugly either, I consider myself a fairly decent looking black man with a fairly decent physique,but it seems that attractive black women are a bit thin on the ground,...and that is *my* opinion,...someone else may have a different opinion.

obviously beauty is in the eye of the beholder,and everyone`s taste differs,and I am not saying that there are no attractive black women,just that *I* havent seen any.

I will state the types I`ve seen that are a put off simply by their looks/attitude later on,but lets hear your views,.....and oh by the way,....anybody who waan jump innah mi chest bout wah mi seh feel free,...just realise seh mi aggo jump right back innah yours.

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I hear you!!!

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King Tubbs · (#8 (**permalink**))

trunk wrote:

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I have to get straight to the point,and without wishing to insult anyone,...but where the hell are the attractive black women...??

I can count on one hand the amount of attractive black women I`ve seen in about 5 years,I am certainly no oil painting myself,and I`m not ugly either, I consider myself a fairly decent looking black man with a fairly decent physique,but it seems that attractive black women are a bit thin on the ground,...and that is *my* opinion,...someone else may have a different opinion.

obviously beauty is in the eye of the beholder,and everyone`s taste differs,and I am not saying that there are no attractive black women,just that *I* havent seen any.

I will state the types I`ve seen that are a put off simply by their looks/attitude later on,but lets hear your views,.....and oh by the way,....anybody who waan jump innah mi chest bout wah mi seh feel free,...just realise seh mi aggo jump right back innah yours.

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Well, its hard to comment as you havent defined YOUR definaition of attractive.

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As you havent I will assume like many I've heard make this comment, you mean the type of light skin, ebony magazine model, rap video types....to which I will reply....not surprising because in the real world they're arent many women who look like that.

G PROMAN · (#9 (**permalink**))

mine just left me

HAYLEY · (#10 (**permalink**))

@ G Proman, there are plenty more fish in the sea niceone.gifHope you are ok. Anyway my two girlfriends (both spoken for now) hardly ever got approached by men and they are drop dead gorgeous and wonderful people, Why is this?????:?

simz · (#11 (**permalink**))

trunk wrote:

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I have to get straight to the point,and without wishing to insult anyone,...but where the hell are the attractive black women...??

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What I would like to know is, why is this such a big issue to you? Are you looking for a girlfriend or are you just making this statement just to start something?

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I can count on one hand the amount of attractive black women I`ve seen in about 5 years,I am certainly no oil painting myself,and I`m not ugly either, I consider myself a fairly decent looking black man with a fairly decent physique,but it seems that attractive black women are a bit thin on the ground,...and that is *my* opinion,...someone else may have a different opinion.

obviously beauty is in the eye of the beholder,and everyone`s taste differs,and I am not saying that there are no attractive black women,just that *I* havent seen any.

I don't know why you feel the need to share this with us.

anybody who waan jump innah mi chest bout wah mi seh feel free,...just realise seh mi aggo jump right back innah yours.

See all you want is an arguement, your not really interested in our views just a shit stirrer.

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I refuse to go any deeper into this with you as it seems your either:

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1. Trying to cause an arguement with black women everywhere.

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2. Just being petty cos you know what you really want to do is date outside your race and your looking for an excuse to do just that.

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I advise black women not to bother to respond to this post as it will go nowhere he just wants to start and get the reaction his is looking for and then say we are all the same. LATERS.

untitled · (#12 (**permalink**))

HAYLEY wrote:

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@ G Proman, there are plenty more fish in the sea niceone.gifHope you are ok. Anyway my two girlfriends (both spoken for now) hardly ever got approached by men and they are drop dead gorgeous and wonderful people, Why is this?????:?

sadly because most guys automatically assume that because they are beautiful, they are spoken for. in this case, it's true! that, or they are too stuck up their own asses to give a guy the time of day (not that they are stuck up... just that guys might think that and avoid them because it's not worth the hassle...)

Abissinia · (#13 (**permalink**))

HAYLEY wrote:

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@ G Proman, there are plenty more fish in the sea niceone.gifHope you are ok. Anyway my two girlfriends (both spoken for now) hardly ever got approached by men and they are drop dead gorgeous and wonderful people, Why is this?????:?

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Because most men are generally intimidated by beautiful women, so tend to avoid approaching them. Most men also have some idea of the type of girls that go for them and usually prefer to stick to that rather than go for the ones that they think they would never stand a chance with.

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So unless the woman gives them some sort of sign (loads of it) that she is into them, they definitely wouldn’t go out of their way to talk to her.

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Like untitled said many men also wrongly assume that all beautiful women are taken; but we all know that’s not true. I personally have several gorgeous friends (inside and out) whom men never ever approach, so they don’t actually date much at all.