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12-06-05, 09:27 PM
guys - sometimes you chase a woman forpure "bootie call" - she refuses you for awhile.. you work her over, turn on the charm extreme,until eventually she succumbs. yes?
after you get your wish, what happens? how do you feel? (outside of "victorious")
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12-06-05, 09:45 PM
Sleepy...
NOTE that women who are "refusing" are hardly likely to be a booty call are they?confused3Also booty call requires no charm... you already know her.
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12-06-05, 11:30 PM
@Eccentricity. May sound self righteous but never done it beause as much as I love hot and sexy women never seen women just as sex. Got to actuallly like her sincerely or why bother. If sex is important I want it all the time. So I have to like her.
Never been into this she was sexy at the time but once the load is released she is not sexy any more and can't imagine why I bothered in the first place. Nah...very shallow that and disrespecting yourself as a man.
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12-06-05, 11:35 PM
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Anyway i don't understand why a guy would waste time and energy chasing a woman for nothing more than a booty call.. confused2I really don't get it.
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One thing is for sure theseguys must have a disturbingly long lasting ability to deal with rejection.
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12-06-05, 11:43 PM
after i got my wish i wished she would just disapear.
suicide is a parmanent solution to a temporary problem.
drug addiction is a temporary solution to a parmanent
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12-06-05, 11:49 PM
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@Eccentricity. May sound self righteous but never done it beause as much as I love hot and sexy women never seen women just as sex. Got to actuallly like her sincerely or why bother. If sex is important I want it all the time. So I have to like her.
Never been into this she was sexy at the time but once the load is released she is not sexy any more and can't imagine why I bothered in the first place. Nah...very shallow that and disrespecting yourself as a man.
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clp)Well said sir...i find it very amusing as well when some people invest so much energy into *chasing* someone for sex or mind games...its just soo lame and as Abs said, maybe rejection issuesconfused3
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13-06-05, 12:02 AM
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@Eccentricity. May sound self righteous but never done it beause as much as I love hot and sexy women never seen women just as sex. Got to actuallly like her sincerely or why bother. If sex is important I want it all the time. So I have to like her.
Never been into this she was sexy at the time but once the load is released she is not sexy any more and can't imagine why I bothered in the first place. Nah...very shallow that and disrespecting yourself as a man.
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Ooooh Thank God for a True man who tells it like it is!
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13-06-05, 12:12 AM
@Ladies not grandstanding but the truth. People are either superficai or not. Like my friends they have depth and all kinds of qualities andI I have them for life. The books or records or music that touch me I have them for life. So if you really like a woman or imagine having carnal relations with a woman, you want that none stop. That is how I see life and always have.
And also what about your personal shame. Look very few women can say they had this man beause he is easy. That I am not. So when you share intimate things it is deep. Most of my and my ex's are tight. You can't say you cared for a woman sincerely and then say she is shit or talk bad about her. Things don't work out cool. But you still love her smile or wackiness or her heart. She has been kind to you in the past and why should I not be kind to her or her children.
That is how I see it. Old school I supppose or just showing my age.
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13-06-05, 12:18 AM
@Dimoke also I am very very funny about black women or my women as I see black women. Don't like the thought of a black man treating another man's daughter lke that even if she is empty enough to want it. Find women of other groups if you must and even then not happy about it to be honest.
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13-06-05, 01:08 AM
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@Dimoke also I am very very funny about black women or my women as I see black women. Don't like the thought of a black man treating another man's daughter lke that even if she is empty enough to want it. Find women of other groups if you must and even then not happy about it to be honest.
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Yeah you are right there, Like i said before, this kind ofthinking is just too principled for some people...i don't understand why people always forget the theory of treat others like you would want to be treated when it comes to dating....confused3
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Its like the moment sex is brought into the equation, all our morals just go out the window and we forget thats someone's daughter or son....how would i like it if someone treated my sister, brother etc like that?....alas, majority of times many don't take this into consideration.......
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My dad once told my uncle to bug off for complaining about his daughter's boyfriend running off on her, he reminded my uncle about the many women he left with babies just so he could sleep around....he bluntly told him to leave him alone with his drama because as old as the saying goes, what goes around comes around.......thats always on my mind when i am dealing with exes i guess....
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13-06-05, 01:53 AM
@Dimoke my sister you can speak for me, beause that is how I am raised and will raise any child under my supervision. How would you like somone to treat your sister like that annd that is somebodfies daughter?. Even if she is foolish enough to be willing you are disresepcting a father. I know my father and if you diss his daugther or him. It's like your sisters friends. Hey they can be up for it but I am gone. Crazy.
BIG TROUBLE. So why expect less from others. Simple things my sister basic rulesare the pillars of massie complex things. Too many people think today they are too clever and all they are is dumb. Respect me as woman I am a complete gentleman and vice versa. Simple basci rules. Not hardconfused3
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13-06-05, 10:01 AM
guys - sometimes you chase a woman forpure "bootie call" - she refuses you for awhile.. you work her over, turn on the charm extreme,until eventually she succumbs. yes?
after you get your wish, what happens? how do you feel? (outside of "victorious")
The way I see it, you can't chase something that doesn't want to be chased, you can't play games with someone that doesn't play along with you, bottom line is ...... it takes 2 to tango...
All that she refuses himis plain crap, if she don't want him,she will set it straight..... no matter how much sweet and charm he turns on.
So upon that.... the way I see it.... pureFAIR EXCHANGE.
After the wish
Well........I would like to take a sweet nap, with or without her.....confused3
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13-06-05, 05:40 PM
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The way I see it, you can't chase something that doesn't want to be chased, you can't play games with someone that doesn't play along with you, bottom line is ...... it takes 2 to tango...
All that she refuses him is plain crap, if she don't want him, she will set it straight..... no matter how much sweet and charm he turns on.
I was just about to say that before I saw your post.
That's only the shit you see in the movies about a man chasing the woman of his dreams until she finally gives in. In real life she'll call the cops on that ass and have a restraining order against you if don't respect your boundaries.
Ain't no man hardly "charming" a grown woman, especially if he's nor rich or some type of famous entertainer.
Usually if she gets with him, it's because she wanted to be with him in the first place.
The only positive thing "charming and chasing" does is get the attention of a woman who may not have noticed you to begin with.
But I can bare witness that good conversation and dropping knowledge sometimes does make a woman who is already attracted to you...even more attracted.
Because the steel is black...the attitude is exact. - Public Enemy
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