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22-07-05, 08:43 AM
I don't have any guy freinds because my bf gets crazy jealous
why so insecure? I don't understand I let him talk to who ever he wants to..
I'M in the music industry I'm a self promoting artist that means i have to keep in touch with everyone I meet male female whatever!!!
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22-07-05, 09:26 AM
Why don't you dump him, then you can have all the men friends you want?
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22-07-05, 01:10 PM
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I don't have any guy freinds because my bf gets crazy jealous
why so insecure? I don't understand I let him talk to who ever he wants to..
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Because us men know that the woman/male friendship thing dont work,it`s only a matter of time before we are gonna want to peel off her knickers and give her a good shagging,that`s why we dont like our women running around with no guy saying they are just friends......we know what that sucker is after,cos we would have been after the same damn thing.
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very few women/male friendship stays that way,unless one of them is gay,it`s only a matter of time before sex rears its ugly head.....andpenis raises his.
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22-07-05, 01:49 PM
DATS TRU U KNO
WHEN I 1ST STARTED SEEIN MY MAN I TOLD HIM THAT I HAVE GUY FRIENDS DAT SOMETIMES I GO SHOPPIN WID SO IF SOMEONE TELLS HIM DEY SAW ME WITH A GUY,HE'S KNO IT WAS INNOCENT....HE TOLD ME NO! HE SAID IF HE SAW ME WITH A GUY, NO MATTER IF IT WAS MY FRIEND,HE DONT BUSINESS!!!
SO I TOLD HIM STRAIGHT...OH WELLmad-moonie, U'LL HAVE TO BUSS DEM UP DEN. NO NEED TO GET JEALOUS, IM UR GURL AN NO ONE ELSES......AAAAAWWWWWWWniceone.gif
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22-07-05, 01:59 PM
OH WELLmad-moonie, U'LL HAVE TO BUSS DEM UP DEN
are you encouraging your man to fight your friend?
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22-07-05, 02:25 PM
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OH WELLmad-moonie, U'LL HAVE TO BUSS DEM UP DEN
are you encouraging your man to fight your friend?
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nahblkthumbsdown, of course not, but what am i s'pose to do, not chill wid my man friends cuz somebody is jealous??
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22-07-05, 03:28 PM
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OH WELLmad-moonie, U'LL HAVE TO BUSS DEM UP DEN
are you encouraging your man to fight your friend?
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nahblkthumbsdown, of course not, but what am i s'pose to do, not chill wid my man friends cuz somebody is jealous??
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Is he also allowed to chill with his female friends without you getting jealous,and would it make a difference to how you feel about his female friends if they were all tall with big tits,sexy asses and ****able no hell.
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22-07-05, 11:46 PM
lol
i get what ur sayin but ive seen the gurls he chills with an at first i was annoyed but then when it comes down to it, he's my man, my baby an im the one he comes to when he needs to feel good, when he wants good company an when he needs to talk about anythin
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23-07-05, 12:46 AM
not all men are jelaous..
me..i never have ori would never give anyone that satisfaction...
since i dont dig jealous women either
if u wanna do whatever go do whatever.. if i had to stop u then we were not meant to be... i would never stand in the way of.. or beg anyone not to cheat....
There can only be... one...
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23-07-05, 07:37 AM
The alternative to having a jealous partner is having one who doesn't care enough to be bothered about who you see or what you do. Someone who plainly doesn't give a ****...
Nobody likes someone being possesive over them which is the extreme, but be honest... if your lover was not a little bit jealous you would be annoyed.
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23-07-05, 10:41 AM
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The alternative to having a jealous partner is having one who doesn't care enough to be bothered about who you see or what you do. Someone who plainly doesn't give a f**k...
Nobody likes someone being possesive over them which is the extreme, but be honest... if your lover was not a little bit jealous you would be annoyed.
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i personally think its especially for a man its just a idiot thing to...be askin ..oh were u going who u seeing.... me myself i dont answer those kind of questions if asked in a certain tone... from a man is gonna be askin a woman that then u have passed the baton 'specially if she isnt buggin you...about who u seeing and what u do...
like i said my take on is i would never try to stop anyone from cheatin.. the sooner you do.. the sooner u expose yourself.. as not being the right one...
if u think by askin oh where u goin who with....etc etc.. you are in some waystopping or running interferance that may stempossible infidelty.. then ur realtionship isnt going anywhere
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but i will maintain... there is no such thing as aplutonic( spellin *just woke up) between a man and a woman...especially young attractive ones.. there are always underlying factors... if not on both parts.. thenon one... individual's part
There can only be... one...
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23-07-05, 02:21 PM
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if u wanna do whatever go do whatever.. if i had to stop u then we were not meant to be... i would never stand in the way of.. or beg anyone not to cheat....
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If anyone is going to cheat there is no way you can stop them, in fact being controlling and jealous all of the time would make it easier for them to cheat as there is no trust to break in the first place.
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@IAartist123 Jealousy is a very normal emotion, everyone suffers from it in different forms. It's only ever a problemifjealousy iscontrolling himinstead ofhim controlling it, i
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f it'stainting thingsyou two do andthe wayyou interact with each other.
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And another thing men and women can just be friends, no one has to be gay or ugly for it to work... but you do have tothink ofeach other as if you were brother and sisters, then the thought of anything more will never come into it.
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