tru story no made up ish.

i kno they are way lot of black folks that dont accept interracial relationships, but there's this kid we knew grewing up, kid was dark skinned, i mean he is probably 1 of the darkest black people you will come across. Girls (black) really used to diss him, and wudnt date him. then he just went like well **** it i had enuf, started dating outside the race. (we was about 19 then and had never really had about 5 girls on his notches )

Years have since gon past and well he got a bit of paper on him and still dating outside the race, but eversince the paper sistas been crying foul and really running their mouths like %$)( . I really don understand it, is it coz the women around us are now mo mature or its just the paper attraction.

interracial topics are banned i'm afraid

Nut before this closes, I will say that woman have alot to answer for in the case of your friend, theer is a ' I dont mind intercail as long a sthe black person is bruk down and/or brass pocket'

Just like with Chris Eubank, you hear alot of the ' you can take him' talk coming from black women because he has , to quote a fellow villager' that ''EARLY MAN'' look about him

I would love to discuss this but this is getting locked as soon as mods sees it

Sorry, but those are the rules

Yes i hope the mods will put a stop to this foolishness... how many times and how many ways are you going to start black women bashing? you yourself know the answer... what you want in a man when you are a teenager is very different more superficial the guy you are more likely to date is the guy who your friends think is fione... or has a nice ride to ein over your friends... all to do with impressing your friends but when you get older it's more than that, your friends opinion still matters but not as much as his kind heart, or his sense of humor or his thoughtfulness whatever... Not too many women i know who are over the age of 21 would date a man just because he has a nice ride, a hard body or lots of cash...

And for the love of god stop this foolishness about money mattering more to black women than anything else... WTF? Everything is about money, every damn thing cost so yes a sista will look for someone who is financially secure if you think otherwise then your a damn fool... because no person i know man or woman will choose to live on beans on toast when they can have a steak ok...

Gzzz really what the hell? You see any Asians trying to marry off their daughters to a poor man? nah the more successful he is the better chance of him hooking himself up with some one for lack of better words to use "better"... that's one of the major reasons why Asian men always strive to get rich and do well... don't be fooled... it aint so that they can have a nice ride or take exotic holidays... those mofos work so much they practically are dropping dead from exhaustion.

Same with Arabs the richer they are the more likely they can marry several wives... it's easier for them especially since the women don't have any control over their own damn lives...:P If he is rich he don't even have to go looking for women, the parents will actually come to offer him their young daughters nasty wretches... so please stop with this foolishness about black women and money, if you want to see real love of money look to White women, Arab women, and Asians... only difference is it's not made a big deal out of since they consider having money and power as natural part of being a man....

Gzzz wtf?

@ mesmerized

Not too many women i know who are over the age of 21 would date a man just because he has a nice ride, a hard body or lots of cash...

where you live in a cave, well iguess not coz there you were

Everything is about money, every damn thing cost so yes a sista will look for someone who is financially secure if you think otherwise then your a damn fool... because no person i know man or woman will choose to live on beans on toast when they can have a steak ok...

I guess you wouldnt settle for a ford focus if you can get an X5, and thereshe goes again "financially secure " what a nice way (gold digger term) of trying to say LOADED ! ! !

Bet you and the many women you know over 21, that dont date a man coz of cash, never ask a brotha what he does for a living in the first five mi nutes of a date.

I made that exact point about money in the Golddigger thread

There comes a time when its not golddinging, its prudent planning

But the looks thing is a seperate issue



Theres one thing not finding someone attractive, its a total other to denigrate their facial features and make them feel like rubish

Is this topic about skin tone? Interracial dating? Naughty black women? Golddigging?

Im baffled confused3 PM me to explain. In the meantime Im temporarily closing to consult with other mods... I don't like the direction of all this but Im not completly into stopping any kind of debates entirely either.

On the golddigging thing "they didn't want him then" well DUH!! Who wants a broke man?

Look we can't be in here all the time going on about male and female roles and asserting those, then being upset when women behave precisely as we would want them to! Of course the man who can provide and is wealthy is a top catch... it's universal and he can fufil his role as provider/protector for his family.

Besides... what kind of man is you daughter going to marry?confused3 My son in law best make sure his arse has a good job and earning potential and thats my word.