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im a very curious female!

i work in a gym and im surrounded by a lot of fine men. one in particular has caught my eye (if i wasnt in a relationship i would definately holla!!)

one of my collegues, a straight black male, insiststhat this guy is gay, but i really cant see it. i'veasked my colleguenufftimes why he thinks this guy is gay and he's like "its obvious, look how he stay..." whatever that means.

trust me, it is not obvious, and i dont believe he is gay, just wondered if straight guyscan tell when aguy is gay?
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im a very curious female!

i work in a gym and im surrounded by a lot of fine men. one in particular has caught my eye (if i wasnt in a relationship i would definately holla!!)

one of my collegues, a straight black male, insiststhat this guy is gay, but i really cant see it. i'veasked my colleguenufftimes why he thinks this guy is gay and he's like "its obvious, look how he stay..." whatever that means.

trust me, it is not obvious, and i dont believe he is gay, just wondered if straight guyscan tell when aguy is gay?
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He's gay and so is your friend. Your friend wants him to himself, that's why he's trying to put you off him.Come on, they're in the gym, and he's been watching him afterall to figure that out.
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Most people in gyms are suspect, it's actually cheaper in the long run to just buy the equipment, plus it won't get covered in other people'sarse sweat.
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He's gay and so is your friend. Your friend wants him to himself, that's why he's trying to put you off him

lmao, yeah the thought did cross my mind!

my friend has got a girl but that dont mean shit now-a-days!

the guy i like aint gay tho,he cant be!
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Post imported post - 11-09-05, 06:17 PM

He probably isn't.

But the him being in thegym should put you off.

If he was a real man he'd be a Lumberjack or a Pirate, and wouldn't need the gym at all.
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He probably isn't.

But the him being in thegym should put you off.

If he was a real man he'd be a Lumberjack or a Pirate, and wouldn't need the gym at all.
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LMAO you are too funny. Pirate you know! but i kinda agree. I'm highly suspicious of gym freaks, therez something about guys (who don't work in the actual gym)that gothere day in day out that is a bit off. They freak me the hell out.
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whyis your co-worker (that has got a girl i might add) even commenting......that too is off. most straight guys i know can definitely tell if a guy is gay but most time will choose not to comment but you can tell by what they don'tsay what they think.


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Post imported post - 11-09-05, 08:23 PM

I'm a female and even I have a 'gay'dar. I can tell you if he gay or not.
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Gyms, gays, saunas andshowers. No, just no ok.




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Post imported post - 11-09-05, 09:17 PM

I knew it....

Men who spend their whole life in the gym are soooo gay... In my experience only gay men seem to be able to afford many things without having to really go out to work.... yes things that make you go hmmm... if only the bank accounts of thelords and MPs could talk hey?

Anyway yes they are both gay, gay, gay... any man who loves to look at himself flexing in the mirror inhis little shorts and walking around like he has a pumpkin stuck uphis butt... and those who watch him ehhhh very suspect...


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you are going to break Lucas heart when he reads your post.

how could you!

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Post imported post - 11-09-05, 09:39 PM

@sooofresh what? that was not me it was my internet ego talking...

Really i know nothin...

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I don't know if can or not. I usually assume it about men who are markedly effeminate, but some of them have turned out to be married guys with families. The flaming ones are the easiest. One time was at the gas station getting some petrol and I had a female friend with me. She said, "Whew, let me get in the car because I hate the smell of gasoline." I told her, "Actually, I kind of like how it smells." And then I heard the most feminine male voice EVER say, "Oooooooooh noooooo! I cain't stand nobody that like the smeeeeeeeeell of gasoleeeeeeeeeeen!" I looked on the other side of the pump and lo and behold, dude looked like Ru Paul. I was horrified.

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