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27-06-06, 08:22 PM
Mansamusa - walk street? man believe it or not this is just one of his pieces on the side. he has his main woman at home. He says the 18 year old knows the score, she's just after good sex. But then he doesn't see the age, he talks of her as just another woman who happens to be 18.
Liberiangirl - I think this is where my gut feeling comes into it. Something is telling me it's ok the other way round but I'd behard pressed to say it's down tosexism. If it is just sex we're dealing witth then why should it be a problem either way- mabe the problem is the focus on sex itself which binds us from what should be a moral code of conduct - but then who says morality and sex do not mix?
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27-06-06, 09:36 PM
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At this present time for me it would be different as i'm an 18 year old boy so if i was dating a 37 year oldwoman there would be less, if any, stigma attached.
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well if you were my son i would object to a 37yr old woman dating you.no way would i accept that; and i would see the older woman in the same way as i would a man doing it - pathetic and creepy.
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27-06-06, 10:32 PM
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A 37 year old friend of mine (an original sweetboy) is sleeping with an 18 year old girl. Anybody see something not quite right with this? Is there an age you will not go below, or above? Is their a moral or just a gut feeling as to why..or is sex just sex i.e age is nothing but a number? - he has a teenage daughter himself.
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No way inhell. I am 40. Below 35 years-old. Forget it. He is taking advantage of her.
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27-06-06, 11:14 PM
I'm 32.
28 would be my limit
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27-06-06, 11:31 PM
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A 37 year old friend of mine (an original sweetboy) is sleeping with an 18 year old girl. Anybody see something not quite right with this? Is there an age you will not go below, or above? Is their a moral or just a gut feeling as to why..or is sex just sex i.e age is nothing but a number? - he has a teenage daughter himself.
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wonder how he'd feel if somedutty ole cruff was doing his daughter....
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28-06-06, 12:05 AM
Well, i actually prefer older men.....and i don't have any father issues, my dad was lovely and we had a wonderfull relationship...i just prefer the company of men with very large bank accounts....smoking-devil
With Incognito's friend, he sounds like he is only in it for the sex and the fact that she is very young.....something is just weirdconfused3
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28-06-06, 01:49 AM
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That's a situation I would never find myself in because I CAN'T STAND KIDS. Teenage girls and women in their early 20's get on my damn nerves. But these young women try to get at older men all the time and some are quite bold. Can you imagine? Running around with their c**chie still smelling like pee. They should find some boys their own age to play with. And that grown ass man ought to know better, especially since he has his own teenagers.
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Awww, sounds likethe old geiser has been rejected by some young, fine woman. We live and we learn. But besides that, whenever the topic of nastywoman comes up for some reason I always see your name. I would love to know exactly the type of woman you date, LOl. And if a teenage girl is walking around with her "c**chie smelling pee"its most likely because her mama didnt teach her how to clean herself, which would mean there are probably some older woman walking around with their "c**chie stillsmelling like pee". Nastiness is not agediscriminate, you know. niceone.gif
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Baahhh!!! LG stop, stop. bighairlol
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28-06-06, 03:23 AM
I only deal with older women. If you're younger than I and I deal with you,consider yourself lucky.
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28-06-06, 05:45 PM
I'm only 25 and I wouldn't even talk to an 18 year old.The maturity level just isn't there. Most women I am attracted to are actually older than me, but never more than3 years younger. Maybe that will change as I get older.
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28-06-06, 09:58 PM
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like I said chick gotta be like 23 at least to even get on my radar...
but heres a question for the young lady fanatics...
why stop at 18?? why not just go all out and get a 16yrs old chick...
afterall its bound to be the sweetist nani you have felt for ages...imagine
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28-06-06, 10:22 PM
Any man that wants to bone a 16 year old is borderline paedophile as far as I'm concerned. Howa mancan even harbour such thoughts towards a pickney I don't know, 'legal' or not.
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29-06-06, 01:06 AM
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At this present time for me it would be different as i'm an 18 year old boy so if i was dating a 37 year oldwoman there would be less, if any, stigma attached.
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well if you were my son i would object to a 37yr old woman dating you.no way would i accept that; and i would see the older woman in the same way as i would a man doing it - pathetic and creepy.
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True and i would expect that from my mother and would want nothing less than a verbal attack on myself as a man and for you to be disappointed in me and give me the cold shoulder for as long as you see fit....if it was just a sexual thingi wouldn't tell you anything about itniceone.gif
If i was dating someone of that age[37]..well i wouldn't be dating anyone of that age, i was just putting myself in that position to give an example of the different perspectives
Me personally, i wouldn't date someone that age. maybe have sexual relations, but not date, as in walk down the street hand in hand and bring her to dinner to meet the family, i couldn't do that
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