What do YOU go to the club for? - Page 2

Blackthought · (#26 (**permalink**))

Unexpected Pleasure wrote:

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I can't see how a single guy can go to a club and have that much fun without getting somewhere with the ladies..even just dancing..girls can dance by themselves or in a group and just listen to the music and have fun..imagine a guy telling you about his fun time at the club if he didnt dance with no girls or anything along those lines

"yeah man i had a nang time dancing by myself, me and the boys just danced in a group and just listened to the tunes and two-stepped between us all night long

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So you only feel you can have a *nang time if you catch a common girl to bone for the night, who probably looked skanked but hiding behind the sweaty make up, that all the regularin the clubhave already boned?

Burning Spear · (#27 (**permalink**))

Don't know about the UK, but in the US the shelf-life for clubbing for men is short.My club days are long over.I don't want to be seen as the old man in the club.

Sure there are some that cater to certain tastes and demographics,but still I'll leave that for you young guys.That being said, some men go to look at the eye candy if sampling is out of the question.No real man goes just to "dance".:P

blaknproud · (#28 (**permalink**))

I don't go clubbing often but when i do go to the clubs it is to DANCE and have fun with my friends and nothing else.

No offence but i find the idea of one night stands degrading. Might sound a bit old school saying that but it's only my humble opinion.

An_Advanced_Spark · (#29 (**permalink**))

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tobitrice · (#30 (**permalink**))

Unexpected Pleasure wrote:

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Black_power wrote:

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p***y

quick and easy punani...plus you get to have a laugh aswell...

I had this discussion with a friend of mine recently and said single guys do just that..go for p***y and to have a laugh..i'm guessin your single as well BP...i think no guy who is single doesn't go to the club without promiscuous and illicit intentions. Because i'm sure if you chatted u chatted up a girl and tried to gas her up and she then said she had a man..the conversation would be finished. No guy goes to the club to be friendly and just have a nice chat.

Technicallymeaning single guys go to the club without sexual intentions.Not trying to be to sound ponsyits just i had trouble reading that post since you seemed to contradict yourself.

@ B.P. You're from b'ham right? Is the works still buzzing?

Liono · (#31 (**permalink**))

Back in the day I would go clubbing seven day's a week, Bond's in Birmingham (great night)was good back in the day aswell as Rat and Parrott and the Pink Coconut in Derby, Mr Smiths in Warrington. Don't think anything beatTrevor Nelson's 'The Lick' party's It was all about meeting people,dancing to music and having a laugh (being happy).I never knew why some people just stoodup looking at people with bad eye all night why?? same people week in week out.Then came the fighting culture when the clubs had finished which resulted in the majority of the black nights in Birmingham/ Manchesterbeing shut down.

Ms Price · (#32 (**permalink**))

Liono wrote:

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Back in the day I would go clubbing seven day's a week, Bond's in Birmingham (great night)was good back in the day aswell as Rat and Parrott and the Pink Coconut in Derby, Mr Smiths in Warrington. Don't think anything beatTrevor Nelson's 'The Lick' party's It was all about meeting people,dancing to music and having a laugh (being happy).I never knew why some people just stoodup looking at people with bad eye all night why?? same people week in week out.Then came the fighting culture when the clubs had finished which resulted in the majority of the black nights in Birmingham/ Manchesterbeing shut down.

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Thats so true, yr words speak volumes to me...

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I love clubing, i really do. Me and my girls always have a good night when we go to the spots just to have fun and have a laugh.In the spots we really dont care who is looking at us because we are in our own world livin up life...that to me is what clubin is about livin up life and being free...

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why people would go to a club to look for p***y is beyond me...why not go to a saunaconfused3

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I mean OK when me and my girls go out to clubs ten chances to one we are wearing batty riders or really short skirts, dresses etc...why not were all over 21, we have good jobs, we work hard, good people for our community, degrees, MA's, etcconfused3...but guys should not get it twisted that just because a woman dresses very skimply that she is on that level...guys never approach a woman that dog way I mean WTF...

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Cant a sistah dress that way in a club without attracting dogs

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?? One guy said to me if you dont want men to be pulling on u that way don't dress that way...

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What if you really liked dressing that way? Its a club!!! Dress how you feel is my motto...

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Is a club not hot though?

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As a black woman amwe not allowed to lookclose enough toa hooker

whenwe go to the clubs, because weare respectable when wehandleour business in the day?

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Clubbing should be about expressing you're self and enjoying the moment however that may be.

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Live Life

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Miss Price

the soul machine · (#33 (**permalink**))

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yeah but the thing is you women get scared when you dont get the attention you want at clubs you see, you start thinking you aint attractive enough.

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why else would you have on short skirts? pls dont say you hate guys hitting on you cuss you all do to some extent.

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anyways my conclusion with club chicks is that they are all attention seekers and nothing more. they know guys are gonna houndthem at clubs cuss most guys wouldnt chase some of these women in day light without the dim lights of the clubs to hidethier imperfections. no ones perfect but many of them are to insecure to meet a guy in day light.(sados)

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i now see why most girls go clubbing 5 days a week. iv meet beautiful girls at clubs only to realise that they dont even look that good outside the club environment. and believe it or not most girls go there looking for mr.right.

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ever notice how as a guy sometimes when you go to a spot youv never been beforesome of the girls look at you and wana get your attention cuss they think you could be different than all the guys they see everytime every weekend at the clubs. besides it could be that these women are slags and want a guy outside thier postcode to wife them, cuss no brother in thier area wants them due to wierd sexuall stories they been hearing.

Kibibi · (#34 (**permalink**))

Vubundada_Kandaba wrote:

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I rarely go to clubs nowdays, I prefer small gatherings in houses or parties organised for specific or random purposes for like minded individuals like me ( too much violence in clubs nowdays). In the past during my clubing days, I never went with the intentions to meet a girl for a one-night stand. I went to dance and have a nice time.Nowdays I go to concerts alot and fund raising parties and usually in small venues. Last time I went to a reggae concert by Richie Spice a girl with short skirt with a chain belt and net mesh on top of her see all skirtcame and stood by me eyeing me while I pretended like I did not see her. Before I knew it she slowly made her way in front of me and slowly started rubbing her behind all over and bending down and sh*tforhalf an hour or so and she ruined the new shirt I just bought with the chain belt pulling the fabrics off my shirt. I pretty much stood there and watched.

So basically you didn't think to tell her to stop, or didn't want to tell her to stop because you enjoyed the rub even though you thought she was low class? confused3

Vubundada_Kandaba · (#35 (**permalink**))

BlackBeauty wrote:

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So basically you didn't think to tell her to stop, or didn't want to tell her to stop because you enjoyed the rub even though you thought she was low class? confused3
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No I never said she was low class. I don't believe in this class thing, I only believe in morals and how one conducts themselves. So iftheir(guys and girls)morals are high then you are of high quality in my opinion. For the sake of argument, She could be high class but low morals. I am also not interested in one night stands. If you read the latest medical reports young people in our age group have the highest risk of STDs. Lately I have been reading alot about different diseases and there cures even though I am not a medical doctor. I have seen the pictures in medical journals and books of how STDs destroys the human body and they are not pretty pictures to look at. With that in mind, why wouldI want to engage in sexual acts with people I just met. I would rather know the person well and then afterwards engage in such activities. Who is to say she does not sleep with different guys everynight. Have you seen the Maury Povich show with women bringing 20 guys for DNA test to find out who fathered their child?

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Now to answer your question, I never said anything because I thought she would get the message. I am not one that would embarass people publicly by shoving her away. Besides she might be enjoying herself, who knows. If she had approach me in a different way then I would havedefinitily danced with her and called her afterwards. Don't getme wrong, I am not saying the women who go clubbing are not good women. You never know you can meet your future mate in a night club.

Ms Price · (#36 (**permalink**))

the soul machine wrote:

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yeah but the thing is you women get scared when you dont get the attention you want at clubs you see, you start thinking you aint attractive enough.

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why else would you have on short skirts? pls dont say you hate guys hitting on you cuss you all do to some extent.

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anyways my conclusion with club chicks is that they are all attention seekers and nothing more. they know guys are gonna houndthem at clubs cuss most guys wouldnt chase some of these women in day light without the dim lights of the clubs to hidethier imperfections. no ones perfect but many of them are to insecure to meet a guy in day light.(sados)

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i now see why most girls go clubbing 5 days a week. iv meet beautiful girls at clubs only to realise that they dont even look that good outside the club environment. and believe it or not most girls go there looking for mr.right.

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ever notice how as a guy sometimes when you go to a spot youv never been beforesome of the girls look at you and wana get your attention cuss they think you could be different than all the guys they see everytime every weekend at the clubs. besides it could be that these women are slags and want a guy outside thier postcode to wife them, cuss no brother in thier area wants them due to wierd sexuall stories they been hearing.

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Hi Soul Machine

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Totally disagree somewhat. Of course all women like attention off men that is perfectly natural. Attention form men can be flattering of course am so not going to lie. However if a guys don't even look at me in a club I really dont care because that's not the reason I go clubbin. Sometimes guys pay me attention sometimes they don't, u know it really isnt the end of the world. I have some friends who crave guys attention when we go out but i really just go out to have a good time. I work really hard in the day so i need to realise the energy at night. By dancing with friends.

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I wear short skirts because i was blessed withkiller long legs, long legs look good in short skirts and shorts right?confused3Plus OMG are we not just stepping out of a heat weave?

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What you said about looking different outside of a club, unless you pile on the MAC/loreal make up like it was running out of fashion then yes u will look different. However at the same time women regardless are going to look slightly differentto the evening to how they look in the day, that is a fact dont u watch Americas next top model??

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One thing I have to say I will never go to a club and look for mr right. I mean thats the dumbest thing a chick could do. Guys in clubs will say the same line and ish to at least 50 girls, probably has a girl and 7 others. Guy's in clubs are just for entertainment,i wouldnt take themseriously. What ur describing to me is the low life of clubing and all the DRAMA. you really shouldnt look at clubingthat way, start going out with people who know how to party.

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Really though. What is wrong with clubing/goingto bars/lounges/resturants5 days a week? If you can afford it have good friends, no kids. Whatever happened to, the work hard play hard ethos?

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You know what i really and i mean this from my heart I dont wanna get old that i start talkin like ya'll.

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Live Life cause you never know whats gonna happen

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Miss Price