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Post imported post - 11-09-06, 06:36 PM

well one just like her anyway...

seriously though I was walking down the road goes to the shop for moms and I see this woman jump off the bus with like 4 kids... all small and she breaking her nick to look at me!! titties all hangin out in a short skirt made my eyes water at the thought of that cooch...eww

anyway seriously why do these people never learn?? whats the deal with these chicks with like 3+ kids still looking for the magic stick?




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Post imported post - 12-09-06, 10:03 AM

one word...desperate.

they obviously don't know the meaning of self-respect and very rarely have any self-esteem.

if their not going places in life then they feel the need to dress that way to attract the next man who would be the father to their kids and they don't care who it is.

they know they won't get a decent man otherwise


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Post imported post - 12-09-06, 10:41 AM

just because she has many kids does not mean she is forever looking for the magic stick

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Post imported post - 12-09-06, 12:03 PM

BP - babymother?, how you so sure she wasn't married?

A babymother I know through mutual acquaintence has five kids from five men and just turned down a five bed house given to her by the council. maybe it's time we have to accept this things as the norm now, it should not be causing a reaction. maybe deep down we already do.
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Post imported post - 12-09-06, 12:39 PM

Melissa - one tell tale sign is if the children start calling random men on the street daddy LOL
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Post imported post - 12-09-06, 12:50 PM

they were her kids.. they called her mom.

I always observe before passing judgement.

so continue acting like these people dont exists




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Post imported post - 12-09-06, 01:27 PM

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they were her kids.. they called her mom.

I always observe before passing judgement.

so continue acting like these people dont exists
BP I don't think people are trying to say that they don't exist, just that'a number of small kids accompanied by a skantily dressed woman' does not automatically meanyou have acase where it does exist.

My wife often take our two and our neighbours four children on outtings to the cinema and stuff. It is possible to believe the 6 children are related given the age range. Granted she does not go dressed in short skirt with tities hanging out (no sense of adventure my wife..lol), however anyone looking in and assuming 'there goes another one' would be way off the mark. You see what I mean?

Anway, given it does exist and even assuming you witnessed an example of it (though you have had to make a number of assumptions from what your eyes saw and ears heard), what exactly is the point you are trying to make about 'these' people?

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Post imported post - 12-09-06, 01:36 PM

But would you wife be eyeing up a next man??

the point im trying to make about "these" people is where are their morals..

say not all of those kids are hers either way what did she expect me to do...stroll over and lay the mack down infront of her brood?




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Oh now I see. The issue for you was with the way she 'appeared' to be giving you the come on, as if she expected you to 'lay the mack in front of her brood'?

So what if she had been dressed the same way and gave you the 'signals' in the same way but there were no children around. Would it still have been a question of her morals? Or did that question arise for you because she appeared to be a mother out with her young ones?

I am just trying to get it clear if you are linking the 'lack of morals' to her (assumed) baby-mother status, her 'come-on' behaviour, or toher mode of dress. In other words would the 'come-on' behaviour not been so much an issue for you if she (appeared) to be a children-less single woman? Or if she was dressed different? Or is such behaviour just a sign of low morals period?

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Post imported post - 12-09-06, 02:04 PM

There are seriously vunerable people among us..children are having children like clockwork. Makes you wish you had a magic wand.
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Post imported post - 12-09-06, 02:59 PM



I don't know what's worse.........this woman's behaviour

or fathers spending so much time on internet ( mon to sun am to pm)instead of working extra hours to get the extra money or promotion to provide PROPERLY to their kids.........or even better spend the time with their kids.


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Post imported post - 12-09-06, 04:50 PM

I agree.. men should spend time with their kids..

if I meet a man who doesnt ill be sure to tell him.




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