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Post imported post - 12-09-06, 05:40 PM

When they love things like valentines day..

Diamonds...fancy things..

like to be spolied...

wined and dined..

most women love these types of things so why claim they dont??

Ive yet to meet a woman who dont like these things.




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Post imported post - 12-09-06, 05:52 PM

hmmm..even worse whenthey want it even if the man laying it on them doesn't like doing it himself....but still, too many women this and women that threads..let's switch it and askwhy do men continue to entertain it?

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lol im gonna stick my neck on the block here and say it mainly west african males who are guilty of this..

me... dont get me wrong I buy my woman plenty but so does she buy me...thats just how we live...




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Post imported post - 12-09-06, 06:18 PM

Another brotha who has serious problems with women.

Can someone tell me where does this come from?

Is it the same source for all "Black" hatred and self-doubt. . .or is this different?

We need a thread for the brothas to discuss.






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Since when is wanting to be wined and dined "materialistic?"confused3

I think some people are taking certain words too lightly without really knowling the meaning of it. To be honest, i like to be spoiled, wined and dined....i do not BEG for it or go out with men just for that sole purpose. For the guy i like, those are just perks that keep us BOTH entertained, sharing new experiences. I don't just take, i also give by cooking up romantic meals and throwing in surprises here and there.

I don't really care much for diamonds....mainly for personal reasons...but i do like to receive other gifts and i do not apologise for it if a man willingly offers. To turn down freebies is just silly....gifts are meant to be recieved, and if its coming from a bloke i actually like, he sure would know that he is for a hella of a good time after....

At the end of the day, its the men's responsibilties to know whom they are dealing with.....you cannot just load up gifts on ANYwomen, then after callALL women gold diggers or materialistic.


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Since when is wanting to be wined and dined "materialistic?"confused3

I think some people are taking certain words too lightly without really knowling the meaning of it. To be honest, i like to be spoiled, wined and dined....i do not BEG for it or go out with men just for that sole purpose. For the guy i like, those are just perks that keep us BOTH entertained, sharing new experiences. I don't just take, i also give by cooking up romantic meals and throwing in surprises here and there.

I don't really care much for diamonds....mainly for personal reasons...but i do like to receive other gifts and i do not apologise for it if a man willingly offers. To turn down freebies is just silly....gifts are meant to be recieved, and if its coming from a bloke i actually like, he sure would know that he is for a hella of a good time after....

At the end of the day, its the men's responsibilties to know whom they are dealing with.....you cannot just load up gifts on ANYwomen, then after callALL women gold diggers or materialistic.
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For get it Mes. . .it's time for the brothas to meet up about this. I am sick and tired of this crazy sh!t.
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lol im gonna stick my neck on the block here and say it mainly west african males who are guilty of this..

me... dont get me wrong I buy my woman plenty but so does she buy me...thats just how we live...

Where is your survey data?


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Mes? Did you read my post? Did you look at my thread?

Err, i think i get it now...just seen your thread




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Post imported post - 12-09-06, 07:13 PM

DSP surveys aint worth shit..

The prison population of the U.S seems to be made up of majority black males...so the survey said.




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Post imported post - 12-09-06, 07:42 PM

Since when did materialism become so important that a man forgets to check the girls character before he decides to develop a relationship with her? I’ll be perfectly honest I would marry a woman who is from a poor family, which had the best heart & classic manners. Than marry a middle class materialistic whore with no social skill apart from “can I get this?�


Anyway the love for materialism is a crap concept!



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