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Post imported post - 12-09-06, 06:28 PM

I don't get it. Perhaps one of you can explain it to me. Did some "Black" women make fun of you? Did they turn you down? What is it? What did they do? Who did it to you? How can we help you to get over it?

Because one thing is for damn sure. Continuing to make threads about the bad things "Black" women do, is not going to help you. And it won't do a thing for anyone here.






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Post imported post - 12-09-06, 06:51 PM

Damned good question Dogon, I would be interested to see if you get any responses...


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Post imported post - 12-09-06, 06:53 PM

Okay,



I see what's going on here...

You guys should not play the bait game.



Anyway, I'll jus watch the other threads as they spinoff each other like this one.


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Okay,



I see what's going on here...

You guys should not play the bait game.



Anyway, I'll jus watch the other threads as they spinoff each other like this one.
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I am not baiting anyone. I want some real answers. And "real" men should come to this thread and state their opinions. This is not directed at you DSP. But how does a thread about the sexual behavior of some "Black" women enpower us? What does talking about a few women who lie about their age do to help our unity?
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What do "Black" men want to do here? Gossip about "Black" women? Is thisour definition of "progress"? Since when has it become commonplace for a "Black" man to act irresponsibly simply because he has known "Black" women that do the same?
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I am sick and tired of this bickering and quibbling. If you don't like "Black" women, fine. It just gives me better odds on finding one.I am here trying to establishrelationshipswith brothas and sistaswhohave different cultural upbringings and come from different countries. I don't need this crap.
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It isn't healthy. It isn't sane.No matter what crazy logic you try toemploy or what insane rhetoric youtryto put down.Complaining about what some other "Black" person did isn't doing a damn thing for anyone. "Black" folks come here with the attitude that "them n!ggers over did stuff wrong". What hell am I supposed to do about some woman who screwed you over?
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If you think "Black" women are so bad, stay away from them. No one is trying to convince you of the truth. So just date out and get lost.
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Post imported post - 12-09-06, 07:42 PM

I know it's not directed at me.. I know who it's directed at...lol. You are all feeling froggy today.


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I know it's not directed at me.. I know who it's directed at...lol. You are all feeling froggy today.
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Anyone who has complained about "Black" women here. We have a few brothas who have some serious problems.


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Post imported post - 12-09-06, 07:55 PM

Hay! hay! Hay! Come on man, you and I both know black women talk trash about us black men like a broken record. You so concerned about bridging the gap between black women and men? Then start your thread by saying why do black men and women have problems communicating their issues? That’s the meat of the argument that you wish to explore isn’t’ it? Bro black men have enough on their plate to be bothered by some mad black women that lacks basic logic, in fact all women regardless of colour lack logic once a month.


I don’t hate black women nor do I find them ugly to look at, they are attractive...but what is an attractive sister with a dirty heart? Looks don’t mean a darn thing as far as I’m concerned, if she has dirty morals…bye bye..big L is not in >>>>



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Post imported post - 12-09-06, 08:24 PM

Dogon

*rubs eyes*

whoa..........easy now, you are going against guidelines!..........lol

to be honest

i would not call it genuine hatred........ i would call it LOW SELF ESTEEM

see how a black man got dogged by a single black female from their immediate enviornment.........i mean by that a)more successful then them through career and education ( ask Big L)b) does not find him attractive c) is generally happy with herself..........then that is a recipe of disaster

so nah, what they need is a big moma therapy to make them better........or even better .................i mean to hate black women.......leave one option......get a man..........tutty fruity...........lol


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Post imported post - 12-09-06, 08:35 PM

Cool I will play the role Dogon LOL

Why do "we" hate black women? That's easy......

Because they want us to live up to our responsibilities as men...... I mean why I gotta get a job when she can work? Please.... Somebody has got to be here to hold down the house. She can pick up the kids when she gets off work and cooks because I am usually hungry by then. "We" hate black women because they won't do everything we tell them to do and then come back with trying to tell us to take out the garbage......Take out the Garbage?!?!?!?! Do you know how much effort and television time is missed taking out the garbage? Then on top of that she wants you to spend time with the kids??????? Come ON!!! A brother needs his time toooo........

I mean for real though, I need to look good and my car does too I work sometimes, she can spend money on the kids.....she works that for real though.....I mean I pay our phone bills when I got the money......she can pitch in on the rent........then on top of that everytime I try to get some she is claiming she is tired. She ain't did nothing but sit up in an office all day. I was sittin' up all day too but I ain't tired......And she is going to get mad at me for having a piece on the side? That is some bull she needs to perform more of her womanly duties........
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Post imported post - 12-09-06, 08:36 PM

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Hay! hay! Hay! Come on man, you and I both know black women talk trash about us black men like a broken record.


This statement right here is what The Dogon is talking about. He is talking to you. You are talking about someone else. This doesn't excuse you. (talking about the logic here not you directly even though you fall under the cloak of those)

I'm going to watch this thread because I have a feeling I will find the morality of many people here to be quite eye opening.

@The Dogon

I really think this thread is a long time overdue


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Post imported post - 12-09-06, 08:38 PM

man if black men cant put black women into check and offer some constuctive critisism then who can....white men?




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Post imported post - 12-09-06, 08:58 PM

Dogon - can never and will neverhate those I class as my own. If I have an issue with a black male or female, the beauty is there hasalways another black male or female to redress the balance. If it appears to be an issue with the majority, then they most all share the same opinion.
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