My Observation

Freak_Of_Nature · (#1 (**permalink**))

i have come to theconclusion that men nowadays dont identify themselves as the hunters ..but as the ''prey''..!

This is mainly due to the astonishing number of men who wont approach the ''female'' that they like , but instead keep on carrying on this front as if they are all that and a bag of chips!! thats all fine and dandy ..

but if you arent going to approach a female and handle your business ..no amount of lip licking and all that other old skool mack tactics is going to convince a female to sidestep her rolas a female and take yours on board!!:P

Kunjufu · (#2 (**permalink**))

Raaase listen there is a difference between a bwoy and a man, i don't know who has been chirpings you but it might be you're hanging wid bwoys instead of men...

Sooofresh · (#3 (**permalink**))

can someone translate the post............

LadyDay · (#4 (**permalink**))

Kunjufu wrote:

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Raaase listen there is a difference between a bwoy and a man, i don't know who has been chirpings you but it might be you're hanging wid bwoys instead of men...

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mmm k

is there something you wish to tell us lol

what age do you tell the difference? or is it down to the individual

Aryek · (#5 (**permalink**))

Translation of post for Soofresh:

Ihave come to theconclusion that men nowadays dont identify themselves as the hunters ..but as the ''prey''..!

Basically what the young lady is trying to say here is that is that men these days want the female to come and chat them up instead of the other way around.

This is mainly due to the astonishing number of men who wont approach the ''female'' that they like , but instead keep on carrying on this front as if they are all that and a bag of chips!! thats all fine and dandy ..

Er, her evidence for this stems from the factthatshe sees a huge number of men putting up a "front", you know like how females do, instead of approaching the object of their desire. And she is fine with this...

but if you arent going to approach a female and handle your business ..no amount of lip licking and all that other old skool mack tactics is going to convince a female to sidestep her rolas a female and take yours on board!!:P

butshe wants them to know that if they don't approach her, no amount of their LL Cool J lip action is going to convince her to sidestep her role as the submissive... er,I mean, the strong,female and take them on board. :P

DSP · (#6 (**permalink**))

This thread may turn out to be a few pages of blah blah blah that hasn't been said before. I can't believe people are still having these problems. Social fabric from country/culture to country/culture is different anyway. I'll just read and see if I find anything entertaining.

bubz · (#7 (**permalink**))

Uncle Sam wrote:

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I think it's the whole rejection thing.Men hate rejection. Now I'm talking about "Don't like it" or "It gets on my nerves" I'm talking HATE here.For some men to be rejected from a woman is a tortous humilation, a fate scarely better than death. Few women realise thatmost men think women are not interested in them. A man remembers all the times he's been brutallyrejected by women. Some men have done everything to attract women, but have failed miserably. MOST men fail to attract women. Other men succeed most of the time.

Women see the man who does not approach her as fronting but thefact isif aman approaches a womanstatistically speaking there is a far greater chance that she will reject him than accept him. So some guys being the logical creatures that we are, are reluctant to go thru this process.

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could it be that the men least likely to approach the women they like, are those men who lack confidencein general? surely most men realise from an early age that rejection is a possibility, but do not allow that to prevent them approaching women andforming relationships. a man too afraid of rejection to make his interest known is likely to remain singleseeing as most women do not approach men.

Freak_Of_Nature · (#8 (**permalink**))

All i wanted to say was that some men are such cowards...its like ''grow some god damn ballz''!'

wifeable · (#9 (**permalink**))

bubz wrote:

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Uncle Sam wrote:

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Hi

I think it's the whole rejection thing.Men hate rejection. Now I'm talking about "Don't like it" or "It gets on my nerves" I'm talking HATE here.For some men to be rejected from a woman is a tortous humilation, a fate scarely better than death. Few women realise thatmost men think women are not interested in them. A man remembers all the times he's been brutallyrejected by women. Some men have done everything to attract women, but have failed miserably. MOST men fail to attract women. Other men succeed most of the time.

Women see the man who does not approach her as fronting but thefact isif aman approaches a womanstatistically speaking there is a far greater chance that she will reject him than accept him. So some guys being the logical creatures that we are, are reluctant to go thru this process.

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EXCELLENT THINKING!!! STICK WITH THAT FORMULA SO I CAN GET TO WORK IN THE MORNINGS WITHOUT HAVING TO LISTEN TO TRIPE!!!! LOL

the soul machine · (#10 (**permalink**))

geez what the big deal if a guy dont wana approach you dont take it to heart. you cant expect a self repecting man. i say man not the boy's you lott are used to. and this got nothing to do with age to some extent. ages matter's but not always the case. if you want a man then wrk for it too. flirting is a 2 way thing. i bet its eating some of you females alive to know that some hot guy you want will not approach you dosnt it?. you think some guy will come outta air if you dont make eye-contact and flirt?. you people suprise me. all i can say is you are immature thats all. and immaturity got nothing to do wih age either. if you a women or man in your late 20's to 30's still playing that im soo fine licking my lips crap cuss your ego's are like mountains to show that you are interested in someone. then you are stupid. on the other hand insecurity bring this kinda thing when they find a suitable match someone they desire and wana meet they become shy. outta here with that crap. if you want something make an effort.

Shemsi en Tehuti · (#11 (**permalink**))

bubz wrote:

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could it be that the men least likely to approach the women they like, are those men who lack confidencein general? surely most men realise from an early age that rejection is a possibility, but do not allow that to prevent them approaching women andforming relationships. a man too afraid of rejection to make his interest known is likely to remain singleseeing as most women do not approach men.

I must say that it can be very discouraging, and it can really weigh on his ego how I have seen some women get rather indignant with brothers as if he had no right to even approach her. With some attractive sisters, approaching her can be like wading through hot shyt. A sister can be very receptive to you at one moment, but it can be the very next day or hour, or perhaps a slightly different social setting, and she can make you feel very low with her subsequent gestures, body language, or her tongue. Itcan bedifficult to figure out when a sisterwill actually bereceptive to a brother (assuming he is attractive). Me personally, I only chat up afemale if there is clear indication of likeness, because I simply can't be bothered with this stupidness of some women...especially the younger ones.

tobitrice · (#12 (**permalink**))

Freak_Of_Nature wrote:

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i have come to theconclusion that men nowadays dont identify themselves as the hunters ..but as the ''prey''..!

This is mainly due to the astonishing number of men who wont approach the ''female'' that they like , but instead keep on carrying on this front as if they are all that and a bag of chips!! thats all fine and dandy ..

but if you arent going to approach a female and handle your business ..no amount of lip licking and all that other old skool mack tactics is going to convince a female to sidestep her rolas a female and take yours on board!!:P

YOU HAVE NO IDEA! SO HUSH!

bubz · (#13 (**permalink**))

Shemsi en Tehuti wrote:

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