Being25 years old, I still consider myself youthful, yet mature and somewhat distinguished. I have found my self to be the object of desire both by womenaround my ageand those considerably older. For instance, there are two young ladies that have been vyingfor my attention, one is 24 and the other is 21. Both are very attractive and on theIr ways to becoming successful professional Black women. However,there is a sister who does it for me even more than these young women, and she is much older than myself (in excess of 5 years).

Theolder woman is much more confident and straight-forward than the youngerwomen,whichmakes her far more sexy in my opinion.Boththe young and older womenI am talking about are very intelligent people, but perhaps it is the more mature woman's wisdom that draws me toward her. I have always said that I need a woman that knows what she wants, not just to want some guy to take care of her. The younger women seem to not really have it together, while the older one knows what she wants out of life and has clear expectations from a man.I sometimes feel as if I am deluding myself thinking on the long-term with this woman, even though everything feels so right.

Another thing is how younger women tend to want you to give them special attention, spend money, and so forth to prove to them that you are serious. With the more mature women, you will most likely do all those things anyhow, but they have already sized you up and wouldn't be giving you the timeif they didn't already want to get it on with you (that is unless you really screw up). On the positive side for the younger women, they tend to be more energetic. There also isn't as much risk of her not wanting children as a woman already upwards from 30.

Anyhow, have any brothers here experienced this dilemma before? Also, are their any *mature* and *young* women to give their input?

Freak_Of_Nature wrote: blkclap

shemsi

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Awww... poor Shemsi... Do you see a 'future' with the older woman?

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HAPPINESS!

damn, missed your posts , where you dissapeared to!



jeeez come back, we need your kick ass take no sheesh-let-me-educate-you approach!

every mature woman has a young girl inside of her...but with a more experienced approach to life... life circumstances and situations...with age should come wisdom, at a certain age women realize what is truly important to them because they have been through somethings that younger girls may not have yet...but sometimes age does not matter if both people are mature and get on well...if 2 people enjoy one anothers company and have some of the same ideas and goals in life...why not give it a go......a 5 year difference is not that much...jmho...

Every mature woman has a young girl inside of her.

Good one.

Now the thing is does the older woman want you to bring out that young girlin her?

Itsreally a swap if you will...

An older woman will see the fun she'd have being around a younger guy and the younger guy will see the maturity in dating an older woman. A younger girl will see the maturity bestowed on her being with a mature guy (protectorate, father figure)and the mature guy willhave fun being with the younger girl.

Thing is its the same thing that they see essencially. Personally I put it down to focus, a man thatknows what hes doing and how to get there. Us guys cuss women for checking out the guy in a flash car but we forget the motherly instincts in the women.... Flash car = money = financial security = Good to have childen with. Mature strong minded persons will attract the opposite sex for the same reasons.

Now... does the older woman see how she can mould you into being her type of man?

Feel at all insecure and prehaps try to be too much like the younger woman whos number you have safely stored under a diffrent name in your phone book?

By taking on the responcibilities of being in a mature relationship are you beginning to forgetwhat she sees in you but you may not see in yourself?

Taking on too much for someone your age will only mean you'll fall for the young type when you're older wanting it back.... Nothing wrong with being and being with peopleyour age. No matter how serious your outlook on life is you shouldn't loose yourself in growing too fast and taking on too much.

Find a woman whos about the same age as and just as mature as you are orgive the younger woman the maturity shes looking for.

The only sista I ever fully, deeply connected with on a mental level was an older sista around 10 years older than me - I'm not sure whether that was because she was older or because we just had very very similar personallities and ethics.

Either way she was something else...

On so many levels...

Anyways...

My advice is simple...

Check them all out and then you'll no for sure...confused3