now i know that my hubs doesnt mind me spending on our prince, however he jokingly said in front of me with hos friends around that since our prince born he dont get no money spent on him no gifts

do men truly feel this way

why cant he wait til christmas or birthday valentines anniversary etc

how was it for you when the pickney come

this is thread is to get men's perspective, ladies contribute but dont answer for men. ask questions not answers or state how your other half is accordingly.

so men tell me wha gwaan?

I doesn't bother me and never has. These are my boys and my wife dresses them better than I ever could. I have never been one to spend much money on myself so I guess that's why it doesn't bother me. I always put her and the boys before me anyway. As long as they don't mess with my chair I'm cool.

Hey don't watch me, be it money, diet or hygiene, just don't go halves on my boys - the children are my reward for my values and my sacrifices, what you do for them is gift enough for me!

LadyDay wrote: No we dont care but it is nice when you are aware that we still are in da house.

Before it was different sometimes when she came home she brought me a present

and its not the value of the present it is the geste that she is thinking of me

because she appreciated when I buy her flowers or something else because the meaning of that is My man loves me

interesting responses so far

nice replies

I know some man and they say they dont care if al the lady her attention is going 2 his/her/their kids

But I know for sure that he got somebody else on the side çause he doesn't get nuff attention of his wife so he is looking for some love somewhere else