Ok, so I've been after this girl for a while, probably a good few months now ever since I noticed her for the first time... shes always been there but I'm pretty short sighted. .lol.

Guess I was a bit weary cause I could tell it was gonna be a relationship... yeah you know, like commitment and all that stuff so I've been dealing with that but shes been on my mind enough to get methinking about being with her... and staying, or at least trying... or something like that.

Anyway, wentto see her the other night, like a love sickcub I went over to check her all on a high even though I'm running out of weed. It was then she decided to 'tell' me something....

Shes pregnant.

No,I lion hasn't done anything to breedno pickney, thats not in my agenda for a good while yet and I'm too g.dammed busy to have to deal with anything like that. But this girl who I've been getting along with for quite a while, all flirty flirty is pregnant and didn't even tell me.

*cue mocking type laughter*

Blinded by 'love' and after being assulted by a woman before for asking I noticed something but didn't ask, didn't want to get that whole, ''you think I'm fat!'' business thrown at me which I now think is just an ingenious way women hide their pregancy from guys they like. Can't really hide something like that for too longbut yeah, she tried....

I'm man enough to say it hurt. Kinda kicking myself for not noticing and thinking so much of her in the first place but now I don't know what to do... didn't even ask whos it was, I'm guessing hes not around but what 3-4 months ago she was with someone else and (I'm pretty sure) it wasn't me... yeah... it wasn't me. I could've been in another 'relationship' by now, kinda chose her over another girl but now this and its thrown me off. Went out last night and drowned my sorrows, visiously beat some guys in pool which normally boosts my spirits but still, I don't know what to do....

I mean... wtf is she doingif shes f'in 4 months pregnant, hiding it under thick jumpers and all that? Figuring 4 months ago we weren't really there kinda thing but if thats not a kick in the nuts I don't know what is.

Kinda still feel for her, can tell shes hurt but I don't know what to do...

Anyone give anyadvice on this one?

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Looks like the friend option I guess... probably try and play on my feelingsto get me to look after her kid or something though.

Kinda feel to just de-link her and not see her again to be honest. Its a piss take messing people around like that would've clocked but I've been so busy recently I didn't have the time. F'in thick jumpers like its cold.Heck she was probably getting her hormones in a mix and didn't even like me in the first place...

Women are evil.

Babyfather has planted his seed, there's plenty mo fish in da sea rude boy!

play your cards right you might still get a gobble LOL

Believe me Rebel - in time to come, you don't want a punk to have who you call a wife as one of his receptacles!

@Rebel

Seriously...

Duck Out.

She didn't have the decency to tell you about that so I wouldn't remain friends with her either.

She's what me and nex brothaman call long..

You dont want deceitful people like that in your life bro...

She has the potential to do this again while you remain JUST FRIENDS with her as well.

Scratch that number out the book - LOL!

As long as you're sure it's not yours count your blessings and run like the wind!

Believe me Rebel - in time to come, you don't want a punk to have who you call a wife as one of his receptacles!

True say.

She's what me and nex brothaman call long..

Apparently I'm not a man if I can't stay with her .lol. Blanked herand her friend theother day. F'inBiatch. Swear I'm gonna ask every woman I chat up before hand from now on. Feel to find the babyfather and.... :X

Would make me feel better.

Ahh bless!

I feel for you (R-L)!

I know this topic was so last month, but how did it end? I hope your keeping your chin up, and dont let that experience make you think all women are dishonest! We not!

man what are you doin??....BOUNCE!

foget about this trick..you sharing her right now. next man seed in her body an all..

plenty more fish deyah...go catch another one with less attachments.

oh by the way...now that you know shes breeding do feel away when your tapping that ass?...id feel a lil guilty

Rebel don't duck out, cos if you really want to build a future with her this is a small bump in the road. if you want it to be. The real question is what did you want this woman for, what was your plans, for along term or short term relationship. If long term 7 months is nothing.