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13-02-07, 12:26 PM
An old chums brother said all women are whores, if they are not your whore they are somebody elses whore, even if married.
Met a white dude who says he is a good lay so why should he pay for sex - he is willing to pay for the wining and dining but will not pay for sex.
Another brotha feels no way to spend money on the wining, dining, valentines, presents etc and says one way or another we all pay.
I told a babymother that her demanding money from the babyfather before he can have a relationship with his children is a form of prostitution.
Got me thinking how much of a subconscious thing this is which drives many women to insist on paying their own way and how much men with money prefer to deal with women with less as a means to getting 'easier' sex which begs the question who is the real whore.
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13-02-07, 12:45 PM
YOUR TALKING OUTTA YOUR ARSEHOLE MAN... PROSTITUTION IS A PROFESSION, HAVING SEX WITH SOMEONE BECAUSE YOU ARE A DADDY, OR ARE GOING OUT TO DINNER DOES NOT CONSTITUTE THAT. BUT THEN IF IT DOES THEN MAYBE IT'S THE MEN THAT ARE WHORES AND PROSTITI HOES, BECAUSE IF A MANS PAYING FOR SEX THEN THAT MAKES HIM THE PROSTITUTE OKAY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
THERE THATS SOLVED
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13-02-07, 12:58 PM
As the song goes, how many gal get slam for Nike Airs?
The term prostitution refers to the act of having sexual intercourse or performing other sexual acts explicitly for material compensation—normally money, but also other forms of property, including drugs, expensive clothing, jewelery, or real estate.
If we wanted to split hairs you could say the definition of prostitution boils down to whether you got the sex first before you parted with the payment - too subtle difference to make make a difference perhaps.
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13-02-07, 01:32 PM
WHATEVER, BUT LET IT BE KNOWN, MEN ARE THE BIGGEST TO PIMP, MEN ARE LOW DOWN SCANDRELS. SEX IS NEVER A ONE WAY STREET. IF WOMEN ARE THE HOES THEN SO IS THE MAN
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14-02-07, 01:39 PM
This is why I don't date, unless I am pretty sure it is leading to something. It certainly is whorish the way women receive "payment" in various formsjust so a guy can court her...not I, sir. I just have casual friendships with women. That is the best way to get to know them. If they are genuinely interested, then intimacy will naturally ensue if the feeling is mutual. Basically, I try not to contribute to the unspoken prostitution.
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17-10-07, 03:04 PM
I feel prostitution should be decriminalized, legalized and taxed. This goes for women or men prostitutuion. If consenting adults want to participate and profit from this then I don't see a problem with legalizing it. As long as you do weekly test for venereal diseases and like Amsterdam or anonomously men and women who prositute should pay taxes and receive health insurance. Whether we all like it or not prostitution has been around for hundreds of centuries and even making it illegal or disgusting to some like doing drugs it will still continue behind doors for some.
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17-10-07, 04:27 PM
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I If consenting adults want to participate and profit from this then I don't see a problem with legalizing it. .
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The problem with prositution is that the majority of women are not consenting adults and if its legalize it be harder to prove consent.
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18-10-07, 06:40 AM
If there weren't men who wanted sex without commitment, would there be any prostitutes?
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18-10-07, 02:53 PM
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Exactly.
I hear of countless women in London who have to sleep with their childs father before he will give them any maintainance money, sad thing is, many of them find this perfectly acceptable.
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Yes, indeed...sad. Just goes to show what people will accept in the effort to "survive". I think it's a sad commentary on men that many of us will exploit the vulnerability of women for selfish (sexual) benefit. What kind of future can we expect to produce from women who are treated like dirty rags?
The Hon. Elijah Muhammad once told us that the level of civilization of any society is determined by the condition and status (treatment)...not of the Man...but of the WOMAN.
Some of us are striving to make a difference though....in time.
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18-10-07, 09:13 PM
Mr. Muhammad, with all due respect for your comments and beliefs..
don't quote the hollow words of Elijah Muhammad about the treatment of women..it's known fact that he spoke one thing in public..and had several affairs behind closed doors....while he was married.
That kind of hypocrisy, ultimately, is the kind of stuff that today's adults dealt with from their parents......and you see the effects today.
I'd be much more interested in your words and thoughts than just hearing a regurgitation of somebody else's sermons.....but if you're going to quote somebody.....find a better person..
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18-10-07, 09:53 PM
DtotheJ...
The only thing that is a "known fact" is your ignorance of the situation that you think you know enough to speak on.
If you do not understand the Laws of Islam, then you have no base upon which to evaluate "goodness" of a Man who is a Muslim and is living by the provisions of the Laws of Islam as given by the Holy Qur'an.
The accusations of embittered detractors and rumor mongerers may satisfy the appetites of the ignorant, but have no value as compared with the truth.
In any event, we should never make accusations that we are not prepared to support with our lives...because our accusations could cost others their lives. Those who repeat slander bear some share of the responsibility for the effects of that slander.
A word to the wise is sufficient.
That being said, what the Hon. Elijah Muhammad taught is right and exact.
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18-10-07, 10:16 PM
my brother...it's documented that Elijah Muhammad had several children outside of wedlock
once a wealthy man dies......and his children have to fight for their share of his money......the TRUTH has to come out because there is money involved....
19 Children of Muslim Leader Battle a Bank for $5.7 Million - New York Times
I'm sure, as you are, that courts would throw out all claims by so called "heirs" if there wasn't substantial physical proof provided that they were in fact legal, biological heirs...
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His biggest supporters have to acknowledge that he fathered kids out of marriage...more than once.
Don't make yourself look bad by denying the facts, brother.
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18-10-07, 10:36 PM
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