If you're gonna make me your damn alibi I beg a bit of notice beforehand. That way when your woman bells me at silly o'clock asking if you been here or if I was with you today and I'm half asleep.... I will have an idea of what to say.

Since I'm half asleep and say the first thing that pops into my head (truth) that I got no idea where you deh and no I ain't seen you... It's your damn fault. Belling me later after the fallout to cuss an get mad at meis kinda silly.

Prepare the people you want to use as alibis fools!

Like those people who use me as job fake reference... LET ME KNOW



rant done

*back to bed*

chuuuups!

*Laughs self to bed*

hey cb....too funny

LOL!

Humans are funny.

The same thing has happened to me... only I was totally unaware of his 'woman' until she called at silly oclock,FROM HIS MOBILEto inform me that he was sleeping next to her and ask me WHO I WAS?blkangry

In my restless tone, I informed her she had just woken me up and if her 'man' was sleeping next to her, she should wait until the morning and ask him herself!

'Suffice to say, that relationship didn't last..

MEN! sh1

The Watcher - lol. Thee's me thinking there was a brothahood common code of conduct that automatically knows the score when receiving such a call. I think the premise is that all men are the same...and that's coming from the men

Still, not all outside sex is cheating. You may just be going through a phase or even depression where sex between you and the one you confide just flows naturally.
Apparently prostitutes play that role very wellniceone.gif

Not to change the topic mind you.

shockolate wrote:

i know that feeling....while living in london...i went out on one date with this guy...a week later...get a call from some girl wanting to know who i was and she told me she was pregnant by him i just informed her that who i was...did not matter and she should ask him who i was...men and their cheating ways....*shaking my head from side to side* till this day he does not know she called...unless he finds his way to readin this...lol

Incognito there is a brotherhood in existence. I'ts called don't involve me in your sh*t. So no woman or very few going to have the neck to be asking me those questions. A couple have and got the Hanibal Lecter stare. What some woman can use my name to beat a brother. As fool fools as he is or may be my name is not the weapon.

For real. My wife or girlfriend can't go fishing amongst my bredrins they will cramp her and close that door fast and then tell me.

Any man gal phone me asking questions in the morning going to get blank and the man is going to get a call telling him to fix his gal or sh*t.

By the way and generally. A brother should have the right to act and explain himself later and expect another bone fide brother to have his back or at least keep his ****ing arse close and tight. That is what brotherhood is about. Sometimes a man can't brief you because time does not allow. But you represent first and clean up the mess afterwards not go opening your arse to some gal. That is weak and a boy.

This kind of thing is pure *&$$**@ on many levels.

For one, a woman calling me at some ungodly hour to alibi her man is a reason for a response straight off. That is pure disrespect on her part, messing up my sleep that way.

What? Somebody died or in an accident? Then wtf?

Just because a)You can't hold yourhead togetherlong enough to deal with this thing at a reasonable and respectful hour; and b)You have underlying issues withyour man thatleads you not to trust what he says, suchthat you have to double check........is NOT good reason to be calling me at this hour. Just because you can't sleep with this thing so much on your mind, I am supposed to share in your disquiet? Damn, you and your man have to sort out the real issues of trust, loyalty, commitment or whatever, which is far more important than a simple confirmation that 'he was with me'.

For two, I would not expect any 'friend' of mine to be using me as a 'get out' in his domestic sh*t and not.....a) at least gain my agreement to act as cover (something he is unlikely to get anyway); and b) having the backbone to deal with his home sh*t like a real man instead of likesome school boy lyingto the teacher about who really brought the sweeties into class.

Again it's about dealing with those issues of trust, loyalty and commitment like mature people. If youfeel the need to run around doing stuff behind your woman's back like that, then you need to look at the deeper issue.....What is it that's missing in your relationshipwhich youfeel compelled to get elsewhere and in such a clandestine fashion?

Of course, it may not nessarily be a 'cheating thing'.....people (men or women) don't only lie to their partnersto cover upcheating.....but I would still expect to be told what's going down so that I candecide how much, or if at all, I am prepared to be a part of the 'conspiracy'.

I would tell any woman (or man) whois a situation where they feel the need to double check their partner's story (irrespective of whether that check subsequently confirms it to true or false), that it signifies some other underlying issue which, moreimportantly,needs addressing. An issue which youshouldbe taking up with your partner...............i.e. why is it thatI don't believe what you are telling me?

Respect

FredB wrote:
FredB you really crack me up....you really paint a fine picture, sounds like you been there bro. A woman frantically calling around his friends shows the state of the realtionship and where it is going...no where. A true relationship is based on truth, I suppose thats not what brotherhood means.

A cheating male is simply a male with no honor. Its much easier to be honest with women about your intention instead of manipulating them with lies about your intentions. There are plenty of females who just want a fukkbubby, you dont need to pretend that you are giving her an exclusive relationship.

Just tell the truth. Is that so hard?

Bacoo wrote:

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