Has this happened to brothers here, where you have been out of the runnings for a while and don't know how to approach a woman anymore?...and perhaps even get a bit nervous?

Do you guys practice on a dozen random females at the mallto get your swagger back?...LOL.

I was at Taco Bell the other day and as soon as I stepped out of my car, this sweet redbone sister (or perhapsLatino)was giving me the I want you to come over here and say somethinglook. I contemplated briefly,but went on to ordering myfood. She was looking like, "I know you didn't just pass me up...I'll give you one more chance to get this booty". She hung around for a few more minutes occasionally glancing in my direction, but thenjust left in frustration after I didn't approach.

The whole time, I was a bit nervous...not that I have not been with a woman in a long time, but I have not had to even approach a sister in so long that I actually had to start thinking about. It was odd...just wondering if other brothers have had their brains go into deadlock about approaching a fine sister.

You might wanna know that saying "been out on the game" has a whole other meaning this side of the pond lol

But anyway

Usually happens if I've been with chick a longwhile and then being single again... long ting. I see a nice woman and reflex makes me almost step to her then I just get annoyed and remember last cow with a "why bother, I know where this is going" sigh and move on. Swagger comes back naturally though as soon as you get um... hungry enough

LOL at practising, no I don't do that I know it's odd but I always think I'll see people again... yeah in a city of 10million I know but I don't go burning bridges that way needlessly. What if the next time you see a woman you "practised on" she's with a super fine friend who's your perfect girl and now the bitter one crashes you? Far fetched I know but....



As to that woman you were shook to move to... maybe it was all in your head?confused3

It happens and it's internal:

There are a number of ways one approach it. The first is when you are thinking:

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this sweet redbone sister (or perhapsLatino)was giving me the I want you to come over here and say somethinglook. I contemplated briefly,but went on to ordering myfood. She was looking like, "I know you didn't just pass me up...I'll give you one more chance to get this booty". She hung around for a few more minutes occasionally glancing in my direction, but thenjust left in frustration after I didn't approach

Just Do it, and Chat.

The second is to let situations like this carry on and be an objective observer of your thoughts and feelings. With a chuckle at the Womans own fruastration, for not taking the "Hints".

Then when it happens toooften say:

AAAAAAAAAAhhhhh; Just Do It.

It's probably a confidence thing about how your feeling about yourself. And despite what society says you don't have to be confident all the time F**Kumsmoking-devil.

Take time out.

They can only say no. What you never have you dont miss. Judging by your post it wasnt meant to happen for whatever reason. For all you know she was a nutter. But if you weren't feeling it why force it. Its not everything on that fall on your plate you must eat.

Bredder Tukoma wrote: LOL wicked phrase

The Watcher wrote:
INDEED!!!!!!!! LMAO!!!!

Shemsi en Tehuti wrote: I see wot you mean. Being inactive for a while does have a tendancy tohave a negative effect on a man's game. The most confident guyi know, whenhe came out after a year in jail, we met again at thissocial gathering, just a day after he got out. It was old friendsgathering together, and his ex happened to be there. She woz lookin fine as ever. I woz like'go on, at least say hi to her.' And he replied,'I duno, girls, its been a while.' I was shockedto hear this from him of all people.

What i hightlighted in orange, is what im guilty of. But not a dozen, lol. All it takes is one for me to 'tick.'