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At my work place they finally hired this black girl to work on the tills, she must be 22 years old. The shop is not very big we have about 3-4 tills available for when the shop gets busy. Now I’ve been working in that place for 1 year now and the management team has be completely replaced. The last guy was not, to put it bluntly, doing his f**king job properly. They would sit up stairs drinking f**king tea and leaving us to f**king sort out the delivery. Anyway them suckers are gone and the new guy is o.k. does everything to the book. I must say and give credit where credits do, and the guy is f**king nice too. The new guy runs the shop like a well-oiled machine. blkexercise Nothing is going wrong and when the area manager turned up one time he said he came in and walked straight out again, thinking he walked into a different shop by mistake. It was that good. Now when my new manger told me this I was well pleased. Dam right to be to, because we all worked our butts off. But me I was especially satisfied and beating my chest too. And to top it all off that white witch that smokes pot 24/7 is gone and her nasty crew too! :P

Now I’m living a dream, because not only do I have a good team leader and management but a f**king positive workforce too. I turn up to work with a smile and not a f**king frown. Believe me the day I heard them suckers got thrown out, because they where basically f**king sh*t, it felt like a 50 Kg weight fell off my shoulders. It was that nice of news and when some of the new staff asked me about them, what do you think I told them? That’s right and beating my chest too! clp)

Now you would not believe me but this black girl is the nastiest woman I have ever met, I actually believe she has no house training! I’m standing there packing some shopping andmy girl says “hi babe how you doing� to this home delivery driver who just come in. and I swear by the lord alone this women did not even know this man and she’s asking him questions like that, and this is her first day too.confused3 Now a man like me would not be interested in what this young black skinny ass black girl got to say. But I’m a man that observe the situation and makes moves like a military planner without even saying a word, how do you think I’m survived for 1 & a half years at this joint? Now that’s not even the most disturbing thing about this black girl. She talks to all the white employees like she’s f**king them. I mean like she is f**king them for real. blktrainersShe hasn’t even said two words to me since she started working there and I wish not to even say a single word to her. confused3Because at the end of the day who the **** does she think she is? A princess from a kingdom far far away?confused3

The other day the home delivery driver whistled at her to shake her ass about, and she did and she was calling him babe and everything. But I don’t know why she is so kind and friendly with the white employees I mean why does she look at me with eyes of thunder. Girl I haven’t even done anything to you and you look vexed? And this is the first black girl that has come to work for us. There have been many brothers that have worked with us, and I must say they have held their own against themonster of white cooperate scum, friendly too. confused3

But this girl makes me want to break my two foot on her ass instantaneously. I’ve never done anything to this girl, and she acts like a complete b**ch when she’s around me, and so cold too, like a blizzard has just blown in, and it’s nearly summer time. I found out form one of my male colleague that she’s pregnant. I was shocked at first and then we laughed it off and joked, I even accused him of farthing the baby, and he laughed harder. blkclapBecause at the end of the day she will pass into the dustbin of retail employees and leave the job soon, I would be surprised if she stays for another month. Bwoy let me tell you this woman is pure ugliness, and to think I help get her a job and my workplace, darn some humans can be unappreciative whores sometimes. and this girl has mashed up my once unstoppable flow. the white males think she's low class! blkfingerwag

Brothers have you had a bad experience with a black female workers? And why are they so cold and darn right ugly when they see you? Any thoughts??



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Was going to say she fancies you before the pregnant part. Anyway, maybe she has been burnt by Black men in the past, maybe you look like her unborn baby's daddy confused3maybe she feels more comfortable conversing with white folk. Anyway, best totry not to watch what she is doing too much - get on with the job you are being paid to do, and step. Simple.


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Im not being funny Big L but you come across to me as someone who has a problem with women. The last thread you started was about how Black men have it tough in todays society more so than Black women. You seem to start these threads with the purpose of dividing men and women and starting WW3. The majority of men vs women threads normally do.

Maybe this colleague of yours doesnt speak to you because of the vibes you give off towards her?? If you have all these thoughts in your head of her being ugly and a whore (in my opinion that is very harsh) then you must be translating that in the way you look at her or your body language towards her. Just a thought. You sound like you really dislike almost hate her and because she flirts with guys and ignores you?? to find out if she does dislike you, man up and talk to her then if she actually point blank ignores you then you know she is rude. Then you can move on, itsjust job you there to make money not friends...


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we all know these people at work... I've seen them many times. Like they're scared to talk to the other black people there for fear of what white folks think. They don't want to be seen to be friendly with you. Sheeet... I've seen them in uniconfused3


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Silly billy how was I talking about you?confused3

I was actually thinking of a dude I'm sure I told you about who went out of his way in the first semester of the first year to avoid the black people in the lectures and tutorial groups. A tricky task since most of the engineering faculty is black but he managed anyway lol. Now most of us don't business because at uni I talk to all or nobody. I get on with the Russians, the Chinese and so on. But when somebody is so conspicous about not wanting to talk to, sit near, do group work with, eat with a particulur group it's easy to see. When it's a black dude who doesn't want to associate with other black guys it's so blatant we just shake our heads in amusement and write him off as "one of them ones" lol


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Why doesn't she like you?

I don't know, perhaps she read your "When is it okay to beat a woman" thread. Teeheeheehee blkbrukteet...
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This is so true and i can back it up with many stories and bore you to death with them and near miss i had with black girls at my current uni. but i will give you one example and let me tell you why.

on my engineering course there are other2 black males, and one is from Nigeriathe other African American. And weall get on well. the Nigeria is a bit fall of himself sometimes butthat's to be expected since Nigerians think they own Africa. We cuss each other, but it's just harmless fun, and we know the red line not to cross..ect. We help each other when it comes to course work and exam preparations. it's like one happy family, and believe I’ve leant some things about Nigeria that otherwise would of been ignorant about.

on the uni campus i'm mostly in the library and studying real hard as an engineering degree is no joke, and enuff men have dropped out because they simply can't hack it. when i was sitting my first year engineering math’s exam, just two tables up from my right was this white European lad, just sitting their not even writing a single word.confused3 i was shocked, because theirs me thinking this dude was a ****ing genius. i spoke to him after the exam and he said basically i'm doing this course because of my farther and i don't really like it. i was stunned beyond belief,which from that point onwards shattered my belief in these European lads can do maths, which is a complete joke watching that lad throw away one years work right their in that 2 hour exam. i believe they just give them grades when in secondary school to encourage them to go to university, and basically pump them up with hot air and falsehood and make believe. At the same time pushing the young black kids down a barrel of a gun, and fill them with hopelessness and propaganda.sport-smiley

I was in the library using the photocopier and this very attractive black girl walked passed, I look up and man she was fine as hell. blkclapBut me I’m a well-disciplined man and would never enter into uncharted waters without a map. So I continued to use the copier only to find my girl standing their right behind me. from the shear shock I nearly swallowed my own tongue, we talked for a bit and she said she has a boyfriend, not hard to imagine why. I left so she could use the copier. Theirs me thinking black girls don’t talk to me or other brothers. the other day I saw her with a white male kissing and holding hands and it’s a dude I know from one of the other modules we take together. They both walked pass me, the white boy said hi and she said nothing…just eyeballed me right their.blktrainers One time when I caught her in the lunch queue she said nothing completely ignoring me like we had never met or talked. Don’t bother me because I’m not the one sucking white cock. confused2

There is this one black girl my mate was telling me about and the amount of times she given him the evil eye. And this guy only shares like two classes with her and she’s acting like half her family got murdered by the hands of this collage student. Very funny stories and all true because I have seen it with my own eyes. It’s like Drama without words and it drives some of the males mad. Let me tell you this one time an African student came from over seas to continue his electrical engineering degree and we where all sitting their eating lunch. And my man here starts talking about why all the British black girls or the ones that live here acting very strange. They never seem to talk to us or even engage in a conversation with us. You could see my man was pulling his hair over this.blkheadbang One of the brothers gave him a beautiful explanation about the social dynamics in this country and why so many black folks have gone silent. My man was so shocked that wanted to jump straight out of the window and leg it back to Africa, and **** this place. Because in Africa everybody talks to anybody and that’s the cultural norms. Not in Britain and many black people have taken up this white man practice like a new age religion thing. confused3

This is not the only time TW, their have been many many others, that have happened to me especially during the first year at uni. It’s like a plague and their no cure. confused3

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no honey I don’t think she was burnt by black men in the past. Because did I forget to leave out the part of who is the real farther? The dude is a white boy and I’ve seen him when one time when he came into the store.

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I don’t believe I have given out bad vibs before. I’m actually an easy person to talk to. Even this far eastern Asian girl talked to me. And she was as silent as a mouse when she first started, about the same time as the black girl. blktype

@ Aryek

please sister don’t come in my thread with the intention of deliberately trying to sabotage my thread with you emotional baggage. Please go back to the shrink you have been seeing. Because I believe the good doctor has not addressed your tantrums and door slamming yet.blktrainers






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@ Big L

Appologies if my observations are off the mark, but I get the impression that you personally have not had a good time of it with black women.

I mean, the fact that you have many stories to tell about the 'near misses' you have had with black girls at your Uni and now the torment with thislone black female (the first one hired ever) at your work place all paint a daunting picture of a species created for no other purpose than toreign downmisery and painupon your life.

This thread is not the only example of apparent issues you seem to have withthe 'fairer sex'. I really hope you are not a serial killer in the making.............and trust me, that is not meant asjoke.

It is not that in youraccounts of "Women From Hell", you say things which'the average black man cannot relate to on some level or other. It is just that the way you do itsuggests underlyingfeelings of resentment, and even venom,towards these 'tormentors of your soul'.

Look brother, I myself can recount experiences (I doubt as many as you) of black women who wouldn't win my 'female of the week' award and who I wish I had the power to turn into any colour other than 'chocolate brown' so that people would not associate them with the race of women I believe to be second to none in this world. However, these experiences are no way near significant enough to make me feel deterred by the prospect of meeting and getting to know the fine specimen of womanhood which I believe the African woman to be.

Women like the one at your work are, for me, very much in the minority, and I could never see them being such astain upon my spirit that I would feel the need to Call On All Black Men, like some desperate call of the wild, to warn them of this scourge on our peaceful existence.

I really doubt this 'woman' at your work place gives you half as much thought as you appear to give her, (does she know as much about your personal life?) or allow her existence to be marred by the knowledge that you exist. I would even suggest that you weld zeropower over her.

Some advice.....don't let her, or those of her ilk (whichare not the epitome of black womanhoo) weld as much power over you asyou are currently allowing them to.

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