Guys, I'd like your input. Whats the deal when a relationship has started off relatively well, you get on etc, and then you try to start an argument out of nothing...and then start to point the finger and call people argumentative and then wont return / answer calls?
Why do people do that shite? Why you dont just speak your damn truth and be over with it?

What is that all about?

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Guess this in response to Nightz's I have a question for all women' thread....guess its the different needs we have men from mars women from venus u get me...once a woman becomes enamoured she wants your attention 100%..always trying to compete with our love for sports c'mom now theres time for everything you don't see us getting in your shopping time women love attention too much and thats why some cheat 'cos as soon as any man shows her a bit of attention for 5 mins she's in love all over again...Malcolm X was right in that' respect

Once your guy notices that he doesn't have you waiting around for him like a puppy dog to figure it out, while he's off doing god knows what with other women, there's going to be a big change in his attitude and behaviour.

It doesn't make "sense", but that's how it works. Women must learn to understand and identify "EMOTIONALLY UNAVAILABLE" men. If a man doesn't know what he wants, he generally doesn't want what he's got. This may sound harsh, but it's the truth of the situation. And even when it isn't completely true, it's a good rule to go by.
A good man who is the right person and wants to be with you will find his own way to his "Emotional Truth".

The above post is CLASSIC man-speak for "I'm not emotionally available or conscious of what I want, and therefore and I'm not ready for a real relationship like the one you want." When they can't get in touch with their feelings and isn't open to exploring them, it's a textbook case of unavailability.

You need an award for this post!

either...u gave it up too fast or not fast enough...charge it to the game of life and keep it moving sistah...

Blessingfromgod wrote.

"and then you try to start an argument out of nothing"

Well that point spells out what your problem is ‘drama‘.

Salaam (Peace)...

What we, as a people, need is a deeper appreciation for ourSELVES and a higher purpose for coming together, which will dictate a higher standard of evaluation for prospective partners.

If you don't demand respect, you most certainly won't get it.

RM

Talkalot, you hit the nail on the head... Emotionally unavailble indeed. The head is willing...the heart is lagging behind. What a b....h

Bluehoney "either...u gave it up too fast or not fast enough..."

Girl I dont know where you come from or the men you meet, but my royal goods dont get played that easy... I can safely say the men I date are much deeper than that!

Thanks again.