Met this girl the other day, more or less bumped into one another and got to chatting. Guess we kind of hit it off as I don't normally take to people so quick... past the blonde wig and ghetto stories she has a son and is trying to sort herself out etc etc. Hardly a Ms fat booty senario but it could well have been.

Her mom has cancer and shes in straights financially so she took up a job in a strip club. Apparently shes only worked there once so far but, ''the money is good'' more than she gets hairdressing... told her drug money is good too, a certain type of money reh reh. She could have lied and got away with it.

Anyway, messing around and so on and she asks if I would date a stripper and how far is too far, job wise kind of thing. My answer would normally be no, in fact it is but I guess it gave me a veiw into, 'the life of' kind of thing. Hers is a situation of circumstance more than anything, am sure everyone knows of women who do worse and don't get paid for it so what's with someone who does? Won't go into the story too much.

Question is simple; Understanding said persons circumstance. Would you date a stripper?... Is there a, ''limit''?

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B.L

Wasn't there an identical thread a while back?

DSP is going to be on me like flies on sh*t when he sees this but ......

Now that I am older NO. This will be the roller coaster ride of your life. You think normal women have issues? Heh wait until you get to the heart of a stripper.

They try to justify their jobs and then when they logically cant they blame their past. Then they want you to become their psycho-therapist, lover, friend, substitute dad, pimp(want you to help them manage their money), and all around problem solver. IF you can't or dont want to all the time you have a women-girl throwing tantrums to get your attention or to get you to do what she wants.

Dude I have been down this road many times. It seemed as if that is all I could attract at one time in the park, at the store, etc and I am not a strip club type dude

Dont get me wrong they were nice women BUT it is going to be a salvage job. Unless you do not mind having a strong pimp game and you will have to because no matter what anyone on this board posts after me for saying this at least a month down the road you are going to see this is where it will lead to on some level and you are going to be presented with controlling her.

BUT the sex is usually good and if you are lucky she may throw in a friend BUT man you are going to be emotionally challenged on levels as you will have to play mind games just to get her to do the right thing because she will WANT you to play with her head because to her if you do not, you do not love her because you know she is messed up and need her head messed with sometimes in her eyes and in her eyes she needs this guidance and your approval.

Did you see how that last paragraph twisted? LOL

That is only the tip of the iceberg, but the sex will be good and usually with not hangups Maybe you will have a level of patience that I never had. I gave them a choice after a while and if not I moved on........after a few busted windows and flattened tires oh and deep scratches in my paint job LOL

When they lose you they lose all of the above lover, therapist, friend, pseudo-pimp and her esteem "since all men like her", so be careful man.

Think of a woman dating an ex-pimp.....she may be able to rub off on him but will he really change?

Man this is a challenging question. Honestly I don't know. My instincts are no but you can stretch this to are there any group of women who you would totally exclude from consideration and again to be honest I don't know. I think you can have a perfect relationship with any woman regardless of what she does for a living if she is that person for you in terms of your complement. The issue is the politics of your choices and how your friends and family would respond if they knew you were dating a stripper. Look that woman could be a damn hard working ambitious woman who is going to make her man a multi millionaire or a powerful dude in a different context in terms of the support and stuff she gives you. Who knows..

No talking her out of it, shouldn't have bothered. .lol. Earns 200+ a night... something about in house or something. Have to admit I like her, shes business smart too not properly but with the mind set kind of thing. Full of stories.

Figured it out though... I'm not stupid, common sence is telling me to keep away but my wild side sees this as a challenge, that's what's appealing.

@ SB, dot on... can see it all already. Of course you're saying that it was well worth it in the end and that if you could go back you'd do it all again.

Heck I'm still early 20s, I'm allowed to make mistakes I knew I shouldn't have made but made anyway for the sake of it.

This should be fun.

Sick mum eh???? How many times have I heard that one.

Maybe hit it one time but that's it.

For real, the only kinda chick I can't deal with is the type that knows and hangs with too many male 'friends'.

As a stripper, trust me she will have a few 'brehs' in the closet. Make sure you don't get played son.

Does it matter what her motivations are for doing the stripping?? E.g. the "helping sick mum/relative, paying her way through college" etc or if she just likes the money and is an out and out exhibitionist.

Knew of a girl when I was at uni who stripped she didn't need the money, her parents were quite well off she was just an out and out exhibitionist who liked attention from White men. She only dated White guys and I think she liked to play up on the stereotype of being "exotic" even though she was from Swindon via Cameroon

no, Never

The sick 'mother routine' is an excuse to justify what she does. We all know of certain person on Big Brother 5 who needed the money because of "sick mother". Then spent the money on a BMW.


This is the mentality I despise. Can she wear a sign saying "I don't date black men" so its easier for us to avoid her?

What ever you do, keep your logic. Not d__k logic but your man logic. Once she sees you thinking with the small head the game's momentum will swing her way. Remember a stripper is not a "woman", like a pimp is not a "man". Keep your Jedi Mind Tricks strong and have fun but most of all be safe and have sex with the lights on....... man I can't wait to hear your stories once this ride is over.