In my experience, the physical appearance has less to do with how a woman interacts with me than where/how she was raised.

Could just be me, but I find personality and looks go hand in hand.

Most people think Naomi Campbell is fine, whereas I think she looks like mean bitch, stuck up her own arse.

I tend to judge a book by it's cover, if the person is over 30.

In your 20's you have the face you were born with, in your 30's you have the face you deserve. That sort of thinking.

i think people who are boosted up constantly for their looks are usually self centered when it comes to their looks. They are either ridled with self doubt and obsessive high standards to maintain everyone elses expectations of their looks or just believe they are the best looking thing going, actually i have found that men and women he aren't that fine come out with silly things like "Im the best looking girl/ guy". But i dont think that all Fine men/ women would put themselves before their own family or the needs of someone who was worth off then them, i think thats more to do with mentality and persons own moral standards on an idndividual level and that you can find men and women of all looks that are self centered.

In my experience fine women are not always self centred. In fact I have met certain women who I would view as fiine, who do not see in themselves what I see.

I am looking to hear from the brothers here on BNV from your experiences, what you have witnessed, or just your thoughts. I suppose the sisters can chime in too, but yall are going to be really biased, for sure.

Anyhow, are fine women typically self-centered?

How many brothers would take fine over personality in a woman?...LOL...

First question.... no
Second one... The premise that the two are mutually exclusive is false, as stated in my first answer.

Or do self centred women think they are fine

Far more likely lol. I reckon mediocre looking chicks who spend excessive time and money chasing the illusion of fine, tend to be self centered.

Watcher - lol...you got it my brotha

Going to give TW the man on his biz award because only a man on his biz can make that observation and be soo on the money. Often really beautiful women know what they have and cool with it. Was in JA with some bueatiful arse sisters and they were so nice and funny and warm and comical. Ok a couple were from church families and background..but them gal hot like what..but realy really nice.

My sister in law is classic example. Not bad looking in any way..but her attitude is so ugly it like contorts her skin or feature and men blank it and always prefer the other sisters and mine in particular who is a genuinely nice black woman and a nice heart always makes a woman even more bueatiful. I can't even speak to sister in law because I get this sudden urge to punch her teeth out because of the ugliness that comes out of it. Yes she tries to hard always in the wrong direction. Spend money on clothes like joke, lives in a gym etc etc...But some women got it others wish they had it...

Fred
I was at a video shoot for my friends thing a few weeks back and jamming most of the day with some real fly models. I wasn't pushing up on them or anything just chilling and being cool. The models were mingling with everybody else, crew, the guys girlfriends and female friends. No drama or badness around at all. Then my next friend turns up with his chick who is a stunning model and her sister who is average. I tried to chat to the sister since we'd been introduced and at first she was cool. But as she got more comfortable and opened up I heard pure bitchiness. Nothing but nasty comments towards the other women around. She called them stuck up.

While they were all jamming together with each other and everybody else she was in the corner with my boy and his girl and me (for that moment) just moaning and cussing. A constant stream of comments like "that's why I don't hang with girls like that" and "look at her though, no class" and "with those cheap shoes, I don't know why she thinks she's all that". I seriously had to run from those bad bad vibes.

TW..Life is a wonderful class room if you are a keen student of life or an observer..Usually when you hear sisters going on too much about class...this or class that..you know they aint got any..and fooling themselves by thinking if they use the word enough it may show that some how they may have it or you are an idiot enough not to know the difference..Sad really..