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25-12-07, 04:46 PM
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Originally Posted by Miss Nellia
My advice to the thread starter would be to go ahead and ask or your woman's hand in marriage... she'll REALLY appreciate it... it shows you have respect for her and her family.
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Hey, hey, hey.
This Thread doesn't have anything to do with my personal life. I just wanted to see what people thought about this issue. Marriage is definitely not on the cards for me any time soon.
As far as I am concerned - the black man's seed is GOLD and should not be abandoned wrecklessly © Femergy
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Location: Birmingham
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25-12-07, 04:51 PM
lol see how they push to trap ya??
man asked a simple question and chicks pushing him to jump the broom..
Only the best is good enough....
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Join Date: Aug 2005
Location: Venus, North London
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25-12-07, 04:59 PM
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Originally Posted by Mr. Equanimity
Hey, hey, hey.
This Thread doesn't have anything to do with my personal life. I just wanted to see what people thought about this issue. Marriage is definitely not on the cards for me any time soon.
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Yeah yeah... you know you ready to get hitched... lmaoo 
bp..... you too... from the looks of things it's just a matter of time
AHHHH how sweet all this love in BNV  |
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25-12-07, 05:08 PM
Happily single thank you very much.
As far as I am concerned - the black man's seed is GOLD and should not be abandoned wrecklessly © Femergy
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Location: Birmingham
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25-12-07, 05:09 PM
naa I aint gettin married no time soon...like I said I got stuff to do first..
Only the best is good enough....
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Location: Venus, North London
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25-12-07, 05:33 PM
Happily Single??????? okayyyyy, if you say so...... but for how long? and just out of curiosity why did you wanno know about asking hand in marriage, Mr Happily Single???? LOL
BP
Stuff to do... so you've got plans for the future, business plans I take it... well not a bad reason to put off marriage.... if the misses can wait for you that is...
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25-12-07, 05:54 PM
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Originally Posted by Miss Nellia
Happily Single??????? okayyyyy, if you say so...... but for how long? and just out of curiosity why did you wanno know about asking hand in marriage, Mr Happily Single???? LOL
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Do you find me peculiar? Would you prefer it if I was married but depressed? I'm young, with no children so get off my back (lol). I already explained why I asked this question in the original post. There's more to black mens village then dissing women. Some times its interesting to deal with these types of topics.
As far as I am concerned - the black man's seed is GOLD and should not be abandoned wrecklessly © Femergy
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25-12-07, 06:22 PM
okay calm down..... was just playin wit cha, I'm in a cheeky cheerful mood today . My moto in life is 'to each his/her own', I know quite a few men that would rather stay single then to ever get hitched, and an increasing number of women feel the same way to.
Marriage does scare me, but I would scroll down the aisle if it felt right.
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25-12-07, 06:38 PM
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Originally Posted by Miss Nellia
okay calm down..... was just playin wit cha, I'm in a cheeky cheerful mood today. My moto in life is 'to each his/her own', I know quite a few men that would rather stay single then to ever get hitched, and an increasing number of women feel the same way to.
Marriage does scare me, but I would scroll down the aisle if it felt right.
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Never said I didn't wanna get married. I just wanna know that I've made the right choice when i do go down that road. I don't wanna have to get divorced because my beautiful wife turned into a monster.
As far as I am concerned - the black man's seed is GOLD and should not be abandoned wrecklessly © Femergy
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25-12-07, 06:45 PM
damn the amount times I hear that....... wives turning into monsters / husbands turning into slobs. Here's hoping that you will find the right woman for you... when you're ready.... so I'm gonna get off your back now... okay? lmaooooooo
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25-12-07, 07:08 PM
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Originally Posted by Miss Nellia
damn the amount times I hear that....... wives turning into monsters / husbands turning into slobs. Here's hoping that you will find the right woman for you... when you're ready.... so I'm gonna get off your back now... okay? lmaooooooo
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I'm not really talking about looks but attitude. I'd prefer a wife who's ready to grow old gracefully and not trying to be hip with the teenagers. Me, I don't mind getting old. When I see an old couple together and the bond they have it touches my heart.
Anyway, let me stop before I start getting too in touch with my feminine side. (lol)
As far as I am concerned - the black man's seed is GOLD and should not be abandoned wrecklessly © Femergy
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25-12-07, 07:25 PM
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Originally Posted by Mr. Equanimity
I'm not really talking about looks but attitude. I'd prefer a wife who's ready to grow old gracefully and not trying to be hip with the teenagers. Me, I don't mind getting old. When I see an old couple together and the bond they have it touches my heart.
Anyway, let me stop before I start getting too in touch with my feminine side. (lol)
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roflmao..... embrace your fem side Mr E. it's not a bad thing..... I understand what you mean... I suppose women try to keep looking young so that their men will not feel the need to run off with a younger woman... but I am sure if she (the woman) understood that her husband would embrace her more as she matures she would allow herself to age naturally.
I believe in the strength and bond of the black family unit, so when I see a black family out together, like I did at Toy R US on Saturday, that touched my heart...  <------------ tears of joy  | |
