for peace of mind leave the wardrobe space to the woman either that or get her a seperate one make it LARGE!!..in fact leave all home affairs to the missus when it comes toproviding money- DIY-car thats your forte .Couples should know their position in a relationsship theres no need for any overlap sod the metrosexual man....
As for the shopping with your partner forget it...this can break up a good relationship
Yeah!! do agree keep the heating up in the winter if you want to see your woman in some of that sexy lingerie

No problem if you're only after the look. Heavenly when there's a brain behind it as well.

Damn straight there has to be a brain behind it 'cause that applies to both sexes LOL.

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In terms of taking him shopping for clothes, well when I want his opinion to count (say we are going to a special function e.g. wedding) what I do is buy several outfits, bring them home, do the catwalk thing with the right shoes on etc, then his opinion is more valid (to me). I take back what 'we' don't want and everyone is happy.

Here's a tip if you go clothes/ shopping together:

Whilst shopping no need to argue about the clothes, she's getting what she wants, and if I get in a frustrated mode, he usually goes off to the men's department (I think) because he says he has to go buy something or another. The space usually helps cause we get anxious that you are getting bored with us anyway! . Keep in contact with her via sending a sexy text then regroup.

Most times his opinion isn't needed, so if I want him to come with me it is really because I want some intimacy time and the shopping trip is just a trojan horse for wanting to be close to him. If he comes under these precepts (he usually knows) then he is ultra patient and supportive and usually ends up in a meal, cinema (for a movie he wants to see, 'cause there's the switch in compromise) and bed (end game)! So to conclude: make a day of it, know it's about being intimate and wash down with a good meal, laughter and something you both like doing !!!

Femergy - indeed...I was just falling in line with the bias of the thread title

Keeping in line, as long as women wear clothes that suit them it's all good. Mini skirts when your legs are like broomsticks aint kool

K said'Femegy: therein lies the problem as a men we simply don't have the patience or the inclination to conduct a 12 hour fore play session just to get rumpy pumpy. Gosh it would be easier to have an outside woman at the end of the phone... it would be cheaper and less hassle... if i'm honest!!

Can't beat macsculine rationailty..


But perhaps in Fem's case she is worth waiting for and all the ritual involved?

But in too many cases with K. on this..

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Understandable ... which is why this is not a regular event, to be used sparingly if you know what I mean.

@ K definitely with you re the walks etc., glad to see your're not against long fore play

Kunjufu hits nail on head....dare I say the mentality referred to is not limited to shopping.