Attracting Dysfunctional Women

Shemsi en Tehuti · (#1 (**permalink**))

When a man seems to always attract dysfunctional women into their lives, those with emotional/mental problems, have been abused either in childhood or in relationships, or other maladies, what is it they could be doing to consistently attract these types of women?

I have 2 or 3 friends who seem to only attract these types of women who obviously have some emotional issues. The guys are seemingly "good" men, but these types of women even approach them and initiate the convo so they aren't always picking them out. These emotionally unstable women tend to just gravitate towards them.

Is there something dysfunctional that is ingrained in each of these men that they have yet to discover? Or are there so many dysfunctional women with psychological or emotional problems running around that it is just the luck of the draw for some men?

snally · (#2 (**permalink**))

Shemsi have to admit son, you give me real jokes.

There is a serious lack of decent comedy writers in the UK at the moment, you’d make a absolute killing.

But what makes me really laugh is your cheesy smile, a smile like yours MUST reflect the suns rays......... I bet there’s no global warming where you live.

Mezmerized · (#3 (**permalink**))

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Originally Posted by Shemsi en Tehuti

When a man seems to always attract dysfunctional women into their lives, those with emotional/mental problems, have been abused either in childhood or in relationships, or other maladies, what is it they could be doing to consistently attract these types of women?

I have 2 or 3 friends who seem to only attract these types of women who obviously have some emotional issues. The guys are seemingly "good" men, but these types of women even approach them and initiate the convo so they aren't always picking them out. These emotionally unstable women tend to just gravitate towards them.

Is there something dysfunctional that is ingrained in each of these men that they have yet to discover? Or are there so many dysfunctional women with psychological or emotional problems running around that it is just the luck of the draw for some men?

LMAOOO...bloody hell...where do your friends come from? I can't believe you are even trying to excuse them by claiming that some of these troubled women simply just gravitate towards your friends. Simple way to solve this is, simply ask your friends to take off the "dysfunctional women" magnet at home when they are heading out with you.....

JustPassing · (#4 (**permalink**))

LMAO

Maybe some of your friends have a 'Kick Me' sign taped to thier backs

What you attract is proportional to what you put out there...

safetyblitz · (#5 (**permalink**))

I just don't think your friends see the full picture and are looking at how fine the woman is versus how stable she is. this all comes with maturity......

DSP · (#6 (**permalink**))

People who have 'helping' personalities can do that sometimes, not realizing what they're doing. Women can smell certain characteristics in men. If you're a go to person that has a tendency to help people it will attract people that need help. i would suggest your friends do more volunteer work so they'll be around people they can help without getting pulled down themselves.