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27-10-09, 11:04 AM
@prince hakeem, I hope that wasn't directed at me, I was simply replying to Ms Price.
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27-10-09, 09:31 PM
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Hi been a while since we seen you up in here...to further buttress your point..check the link below regarding this buffon of course he had to be a footballer..and predictably had to violate a blonde girl despite having a beautiful black wife...beggars belief!!
And not to forget Kobe Bryant..he had the same at home but guess she was just a bit too tanned...lol!!
'Footie ace King groped woman' | The Sun |News
As for @Jemimah please spare us the patronizing comments..and what a silly name ...I for not one not buying it....bet she's not even female..just show your true self and articulate what you believe to be the truth!!...
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27-10-09, 09:56 PM
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@prince hakeem, I hope that wasn't directed at me,.
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29-10-09, 11:19 AM
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Hi ms Price, well to be honest how many Black woman actually find White women attractive or a threat physically? Its not something I hear often.
What you do hear often is a perceived notion by some that Black men are drawn to them. I think many of us know of the fact that many Black men/boys do go through that stage of idealising white women, although not all by any means. We are aware of it and I think its common knowledge.
Its surprising how many times you may hear that Whites/Asians are supposedly "easier to deal with" more vulnerable (damsel in distress), they are often bestowed certain emotional attributes by virtue of their race, its the idea that they are somehow more feminine/conducive in nature than their Black counterpart, which SOME men actually believe or suspect is true. its not about Black women believing it to be true, we know its not, its about whether some Black men have come to that realisation also.
We dont necessarily feel inferior, but we all know the "here we go again" feeling sometimes when some Black men are around White women. Its about how we think/know some Black men react to them.
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It's Good to see you ,Chi.
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29-10-09, 01:06 PM
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Questions like this give white people a 'power' over us. It's like we need thie approval or something like that, so make them jealous is supposed to be some sort of an achievement.
Instead of bringing race into it, I'd say that women are threatened by 'good looking' women period. Women seem to compete, compete, COMPETE over men like males are rare, and it's sad. You may think the other woman is gorgeous, meanwhile the man is looking at YOU but your negative attitude pushes him away.
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Exactly. Are black women/white women even allowed to have a thought that stands alone outside of race? The only valid situation where I can see this happening is if a white woman's man left her for a black woman or admitted attraction to mainly black women...but you can't say then that white women in general would feel this way.
I personally think a lot of white women think the opposite. There are plenty that think they're the creme de la creme and act shocked if a black woman is chosen over them.
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31-10-09, 12:38 AM
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@chi
Hi been a while since we seen you up in here...to further buttress your point..check the link below regarding this buffon of course he had to be a footballer..and predictably had to violate a blonde girl despite having a beautiful black wife...beggars belief!!
And not to forget Kobe Bryant..he had the same at home but guess she was just a bit too tanned...lol!!
'Footie ace King groped woman' | The Sun |News
As for @Jemimah please spare us the patronizing comments..and what a silly name ...I for not one not buying it....bet she's not even female..just show your true self and articulate what you believe to be the truth!!...
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Why would you consider a compliment to be patronizing? It's pretty sad when the only comment you want to hear is a negative one...believe what you want.
Funny how i try to point out that white women do find black women attractive and give my own personal thoughts on how i feel given my situation and no one wants to accept or believe it. I just get accused of being fake and i guess the "troll" thing was aimed at me also.
....and yeah it's a stupid name, thanks for that, but i didn't choose it so what can i do.
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31-10-09, 06:12 PM
@Prince Hakeem......sorry luv. Just wanted to make sure wires werent being crossed.
@Astmartins, hows things? Just got back from Naija /Ghana last week. Had a great time, and came back with my new Nigerian passport, now I need to learn Igbo.....lol.
I guess we are supposed to be so flattered and GRATEFUL, that a WHITE woman thinks we are attractive......sigh........rolls eyes.
@Gmahogany777..hey girl, how you doing?
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31-10-09, 11:22 PM
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@Prince Hakeem......sorry luv. Just wanted to make sure wires werent being crossed.
@Astmartins, hows things? Just got back from Naija /Ghana last week. Had a great time, and came back with my new Nigerian passport, now I need to learn Igbo.....lol.
I guess we are supposed to be so flattered and GRATEFUL, that a WHITE woman thinks we are attractive......sigh........rolls eyes.
@Gmahogany777..hey girl, how you doing?
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I'm good, Ms. Chi. Thanks for asking.
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31-10-09, 11:28 PM
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@Prince Hakeem......sorry luv. Just wanted to make sure wires werent being crossed.
@Astmartins, hows things? Just got back from Naija /Ghana last week. Had a great time, and came back with my new Nigerian passport, now I need to learn Igbo.....lol.
I guess we are supposed to be so flattered and GRATEFUL, that a WHITE woman thinks we are attractive......sigh........rolls eyes.
@Gmahogany777..hey girl, how you doing?
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Now you are just making shit up. Flattered?? Grateful?? I simply said it is sad that when someone says “black women are attractive” and no black women believe it. You can’t just take a compliment for what it is, you have to turn it around and be all “white girl thinks she’s better than us and is just being patronising and thinks we should be thankful”. That says more about you than it does about me.
You are throwing your own perceptions back on me.
Anyway, I’ve learned my lesson. You’re all *****ng ugly and I’m sh*t hot.
Happy?? sigh.....rolls eyes.
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01-11-09, 08:13 PM
@Jemimah.......I dont really care what you think Black women do or dont do.

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02-11-09, 09:26 PM
@chi...
tell whatever her name is to free u..its a free world..
I'm good thanks..had mine done out there 'bout 2 years ago..but they messed up some bits..I would be having a new one done online and picking up at the London Embassy and it ain't cheap either..so u escaped the recession perfect timing..hope you had a blast sounds like it..
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13-11-09, 10:09 AM
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Hi ms Price, well to be honest how many Black woman actually find White women attractive or a threat physically? Its not something I hear often.
What you do hear often is a perceived notion by some that Black men are drawn to them. I think many of us know of the fact that many Black men/boys do go through that stage of idealising white women, although not all by any means. We are aware of it and I think its common knowledge.
Its surprising how many times you may hear that Whites/Asians are supposedly "easier to deal with" more vulnerable (damsel in distress), they are often bestowed certain emotional attributes by virtue of their race, its the idea that they are somehow more feminine/conducive in nature than their Black counterpart, which SOME men actually believe or suspect is true. its not about Black women believing it to be true, we know its not, its about whether some Black men have come to that realisation also.
We dont necessarily feel inferior, but we all know the "here we go again" feeling sometimes when some Black men are around White women. Its about how we think/know some Black men react to them.
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Amen. Spot on. (coming from a black man)
 
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hi ppl. Im a new member.. I wud like 2 express my opinion on this subject. -
06-12-09, 05:13 PM
Personally I believe that the majority of women envy the hour glass shape with perfect breast and bum.. Regardless of skin colour.
I do not believe white women are jealous of black women.
We are all human.. And we all have different prefences of what we personally find attractive.
I believe in interracial relationships.
The only reason ppl hate on other ppl is because consciously or sub-consciously there jealous or feel inferior.. Dnt watch that, your bigger than that y'hear?
Alisha.x
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02-01-10, 12:56 PM
I don't think so, it seems to me that white women dwell within a world unto themselves. I don't think that that let much outside of that world concern them to that point.
I've been looking for love is all the wrong websites.
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04-01-10, 03:28 AM
unequivocably, yes.
I have yet to meet a YT female w/o self esteem issues, hidden behind their lack of handwashing and flipping of cave hair.
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04-04-10, 07:25 AM
Generally, I would say that white women are not threatened and it is more and more often the black women [usually unnecessasarily...!]that feel this threat. A white woman can decide if she wants to step over, whereas a black man may want to, but may not be 'accepted' anyway!
Maybe it is due to the weakness of more of our men. Also, in a predominantly black function, maybe more black men would fancy that woman but haven't the front/nerve to make a move!
Women [of all colours] also remember that your power is that you could walk into a room of 100 men virtually anywhere in the world...and maybe 50/60...even 90! ('cos you're so hot!!) of those men could be attracted to yourself.... You on the other hand may only find 3 or 4 of these men attractive!! Need I say more ...?? 
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