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Is it acceptable for women to exchange sex for money ?
To get into relationships because of material gain
Does it make them "brainy" or smart or is the joke on them?
What is the difference between full time professional whores and women who do this
your thoughts please
I have a brain and a uterus, it vexes me to use one at the expense of the other
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24-07-04, 06:24 PM
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NO
To get into relationships because of material gain
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hmmmm,I say the guy has to have looks, personality and rich,but I guess comprimise can be made on the rich part.
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prostitutes, whores and the men that use them are clowns.
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What is the difference between full time professional whores and women who do this
no difference whatsoever.
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24-07-04, 06:48 PM
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Is it acceptable to live in a society that gives these womenthe choice to do that, or even put them in a position to do it.?
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It isacceptable for a person to do that especially in a society that teaches it's citizens to greedy and selfish.
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It makes them quite sad really.
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Most people make judgements on things that would make their lifes more easy for themselvesregardless of other peoples feelings. I seefew differences between people when it comes down to it. All they are doing is using people and frankly it's what most people do in one way or another.
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25-07-04, 12:08 AM
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Is it acceptable for women to exchange sex for money ?
To get into relationships because of material gain
Does it make them "brainy" or smart or is the joke on them?
What is the difference between full time professional whores and women who do this
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The difference IMHO, is that one gets paid and the other doesn't. I mean come on, let's not beat around the bush for a minute.
Lot's of people are going around have one night stands and having on off relationships and even creating babies as a result. They'll legitimise it because they ain't taking money for getting the sex. One view might be that the prostitute is smarter because she is the one in control here, she has her boundaries in place and everybody understands the deal, bit like getting married, boundaries and contract.
However, with regard to the scenario you have painted, a woman who is only into a man for material gain is a bit like a model believing that her looks will get her through the whole of her lifetime. It is the exception that a woman will get material gain with no direct personal expense to her emotional and spiritual well being. And it is unlikely that she will experience the fullness of what her relationship could be because her focus is on the least of all the many other splendid tangibles and intangibles that her relationship could supply.
I will close by stating that I don't advocate the life of prostitution and will add that my statement regarding them is basic and doesn't of course cover the very desperate, dangerous and violating lives that comes with prostitution. .
Therapy is the attempt to understand all things of the body & mind which make the human being a whole being. - Kimbwandende Kia Bunseki Fu-Kiau
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25-07-04, 01:13 AM
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[quote]Is it acceptable for women to exchange sex for money ?
Yeah it's acceptable because in some places they have legalised it or are trying to legalise it. Not the sort where women are standing on street corners, but more so in strip clubs, brothels, escort agencies, **** films. It's down to individual opinion as to whether u agree with it or not
To get into relationships because of material gain
It wouldn't be called a relationship, it would be called gold digging, free loading, using, convenience. It would be called everything but a relationship, and it's acceptable only if the person allows themself to be used in that way
Does it make them "brainy" or smart or is the joke on them?
Laying on their back does not require them to use their brain. If they were smart they would be using their brain in the first place, and not their body
What is the difference between full time professional whores and women who do this
One would openly admit they are a whore, the other one wouldn't
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I dont think it really matters whether or not it is acceptable. People have been doing this forever. For that matter I think the nature of all relationships is mutual gain and mutual consumption. Most people who are in productive relationships are getting something out of it, whether its sex, love, money.. it's always something. I think its very acceptable as long as the woman (of reasonable age)makes the consciouschoice to do so. Thats her business. As for the man, there are plenty of them who would "buy" attention from a woman and have for thousands of years, so I dont think they have a problem with it.
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Hmm. I think anything goes as long as its clear from the get go. Again, I people always do this. Even innon-sexual relationships, so its not terribly new. I do think these people oughta be SUPER careful about disease and pregnancy though.. Theres no material gain worth dying for and no child wants to be born to a prostitute.
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That largely depends on the person. When a man and a woman go into such a relation, both of them are "gaining" and both have to sacrifice or "lose" a little to keep it fair.
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A "professional" whore is probably more skilled on the manipulation part. I dont mean a common prostitute, but a real pro. I am guessing that she is an expert throughyears of trainingand knowing the social atmosphere.. She is thinking in terms of business and not letting emotions drive her. The man in this case is more suseptable to her manipulation. These kinds of whores are probably well mannered, well dressed and expect the same. The polished ones who demand a certain respect...
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A "common" prostitute is probably not very educated, or skillful in her negotiations. She may be easily manipulated, mistreated andfooled. She may have turned to this professiona due to her emotional/financial stress and feels degraded. This way of thinking automatically makes her "cheap". I believe that you are what you think you are. If a person willfully goes into a situation like prostitution at their weakest point, they are weak and desperateanyways. These kind of whores, are probably trashy women with no self respect.
A regular woman who dates a man who has money in order to gain socially or financially is just common. I prefer to date a man who is at my level socially, financially, education or better, but I am not a whore.
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People who choose relationships for the sole purpose of getting money, are probably not very talented at anything in their lives and have nothing better to offer the world other than a peace of a**. Its fairly simple and EVERYONE has one and can do it, but only the peope at the BOTTOM socially are going to actively use these ASSets for moving foreward.. they havent anthing else going for them.
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25-07-04, 03:41 PM
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Look whats your stupid name, done come here and be kissing you teeth like something is stuck in it, use a tooth pick!
if you don't like the topic, exercise self control like a man(s******s) and buttoff alright
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don't make me start dissing you again just take your stupid self out of my thread.
I have a brain and a uterus, it vexes me to use one at the expense of the other
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25-07-04, 04:02 PM
"Retard" is MY invention of disses, Please use your own.
Honestly! I am very protectative with my disses.
Beside their is a nice new thread on the open form, where we can battle it out with no warnings given
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Do people have nothing better to do than attack each other's thread??
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25-07-04, 05:22 PM
sooofresh peacemaker was the one that i saw using the word retard for dissing so stop telling untruth. 
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