Ladies - what do you say or do when you want to dump your man. Do you make excuses not to go out with him, or excuses not to stay in?! Do you talk more rudely to him or only talk to him when you really have to??

Just out of interest!

I pretty much spill the bean vs acting different. I an honest person so I will tell a guy straight up that it is over. I lack patience with men I don't have a interest in anymore so I will call it quites asap.

I'm not perfect and have been dumped myself and I would of prefered the same method from a man vs him acting funny and then after about a month telling me the truth lol

SoI am a big fan of the cut the cord method as soon as you know its not going to work outclp)

DEPENDS ON WHY U WANT TO DUMP HIM. IF IT'S COS HE CHEATED OR SOMETHING LIKE THAT THEN U HAVE EVERY RIGHT TO BE RUDE. IF IT'S SIMPLY COS UR FEELINGS HAVE CHANGED, UR DRIFTING APART ETC THEN U SHOULD SIT HIM DOWN AND TALK OPENLY AND HONESTLY. AVOIDING HIM IS CHILDISH AND IMMATURE.

The way i see it is: When he’s gotta go, he’s gotta go!!

If he's done you something, be ruthless. Break it down to him in such a way that he won't want you back. Be harsh!!!! mad-moonie

Whereas, if your feelings have just changed, be nice (but truthful).Maybe, "I just don't feel the way i did before about you". Remember, be nice, coz one day you may want him back. niceone.gif

[size=3][font="Times New Roman"][color=blue]When he's gotta go, LET HIM GO!!

I hate the DUMP word as grown up folks it would better if 2 pple just agree to disagree and finish well..though some would want to remain as friends some wouldnt

id rather agree to disagree like drunkmonkey said it would be better if it where mutual but if i just wanted to get out and he didnt ..

id sit him down and be like where better apart then toghter cause it aint working and it aint fair on the either of us...i think ur a great guy and if you need me holla anytime anything but as 4 USwhere no more babeblktypesimple