Is the grass greener the other side?

NotGuilty · (#1 (**permalink**))

"The grass is greener the other side because the owners tend it," but sometimes it can look so because you have a sprite bottle that you are looking through. The point is being single will either transform or deform one. I for instance entered the 'Singles Zone'with a shout of 'hooray' but as the months have trudged on its unbearable, other times exciting. When you are single you sometimes ooze 'desperate' or 'cautious.' A desperate single woman is sometimes easy prey for one night stands and a very 'cautious' woman can sometimes be mistaken for pushing for the 'C'(commitment, which some men dont really like) both spills (desperate and cautious) have to be used in small doses in order for a single woman to exisit in harmony. whatare your views on single women and why are somemen more attracted to the sistas in bondage (oops relationships) than those available and free?

DCDC · (#2 (**permalink**))

NotGuilty wrote:

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"The grass is greener the other side because the owners tend it," but sometimes it can look so because you have a sprite bottle that you are looking through. The point is being single will either transform or deform one. I for instance entered the 'Singles Zone'with a shout of 'hooray' but as the months have trudged on its unbearable, other times exciting. When you are single you sometimes ooze 'desperate' or 'cautious.' A desperate single woman is sometimes easy prey for one night stands and a very 'cautious' woman can sometimes be mistaken for pushing for the 'C'(commitment, which some men dont really like) both spills (desperate and cautious) have to be used in small doses in order for a single woman to exisit in harmony. whatare your views on single women and why are somemen more attracted to the sistas in bondage (oops relationships) than those available and free?

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This can go both ways. Men and women are more attracted to someone that is in a relationship because it can be covered up...SIMPLE! If both participants are married, and it's just a fling, neither are going to have the balls enough to tell their mate, so it is done and each can go on living life. However, since single women (mostly) get a greater attachment to men, they may get a little "clingy". When thay happens, he is just trying to get the drawers and leave. She on the other hand wants someone that will listen to her, understand her, and make her feel wanted. With two different agendas that type of things cannot happen. In many cases the women gets upset with the man for one reason or another, finds his home number, ot follows him home, gets in touch with the wife/girlfriend, and starts a confrontion that is unnecessary! Women can be very nasty towards another women and it's ridiculous. If one enters into a FLING (don't know why) with a person that is attached, then they should be smart enough to know that it is about sex, and that's about it. I don't condone this behavior, however it is being done. Since it is being done, then those that dare into into that trap need to understand there are RULES AND REGULATION!