Ok Ladies....common, lets reap it open and discuss what wereallywant in our ideal men......Being itCharacter wise or the physical aspects....

Oh and PLEASE....This is NOT another celebrity thread.....real life please!

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Ok then i'll start....

Character wise.......

*He must be kind....i was raised to be very kind and i consider it one of the most important attributes to have!

*Passionate......not just between the sheets..lol Passionate about life and one'sbeliefs......i don't like lukewarm people!

*Witty and naughtysense of humour and irony..

*Intelligent....not just in how many degrees, they must have an instinctive common sense about life in general..

*Honest and courageious.........meakness is just a lazy way out me thinks!

*Must like traveling and the arts....like theater, foreign films, and museums....ect...

*Man U only....no Arsenal supporters please......:P

And most importantly, must be a Pan African....like i said i don't like lukewarm believers, i quit Religion because i was lukewarm to it...so no *we are all the same* bullshit please!

And physical wise......hmmmmm

*Must be tall...i am petite....no need for more shorties to join the family....

*Naughty and weird eyes and nice rough hands is a must!

*An Afro thats taken care of......and nice kissing lips....

*And skin tone wise....as long as its not mixed race, then you could be aslight or dark as you come....don't care much.....

See, i don't ask for much...

Character wise, my ideal man is confident but not arrogant. He is charming, romantic, friendly, outgoing, a go getter who is also compassionate. He does not take things for granted, he is understanding and cares about the plight of others. He speaks his mind but is willing to listen to the opinions of others even when they disagree with him and he likes nothing better than to take care of his woman.

Physically, my ideal man is tall, about 6 feet. He is muscular but not too built, he has to be a little lean as well. He has a strong, squared jaw and broad shoulders. His chest is nice and wide with a little bit of hair that trials down to his *ahem*. He has a bright smile that never fails to brighten up your day and the little side smirke that some men have which I find so attractive.

Ladies Listen!

I as a man will tell you about your Ideal man since some of you have been brainwashed by the hippies with their slack morals.

Your Ideal Man should care for you, should provide for you with money, should be responsible for handing out punishment toyour childrenwhen he's around.

He should expect you to clean the house and cook a very nice meal after hard days' work.

He should expect as much loving and sugaras you can give, be it rain or shine. Don't let him of the hook ladies, he should expect you to be quite during the right circumstances.

That's your Ideal man, now C'mon and holla at your papi.

Lol Taysense and Aryek...maybe i should nominate you both for the new BN couple of the moment over night!niceone.gifKeep it up.....

Anyway....C'mon ladies....speak upand don't be shy......It doesn't have to be perfect you know, we all know that most of our standards is forever changing....but for now, what do you really consider your ideal mate to be like....

If you don't have any standard then no moaning about worthless men out there

Okay ..characterwise has to be kind, confident,intelligent(alot of degrees isn't necessary like Dimoke said *common sence in general life*, caring, has to love children(and cats), he has to feel comfortable beingat home and out, appreciates my space and my love for being with friends and family, submissive

Physically...not too tall(as I'm rather tall), broad shoulders, bright eyes,even skintone, nice teeth, shaved head(doesn't really matter, but I think it's very attractive), has to smell nice(hygienic), soft lips

Mine would be kind and understanding, confident (not cocky), ambitious (not obsessive), smart without being over bearing; he would have a lot of respect for my beliefs, family, friends, my space and me,

He'll be cultured, likes the outdoors, travelling (and I don’t mean Ibiza), enjoy raving on occasion and also be content to spend a lazy Sunday afternoon in front of the telly watching a DVD or reading a book…

Physical appearance… he’d be tall about 6 foot, toned body and specially abs (no guts), broad shoulders, smooth skin all over, smell nice, not too hairy, fresh breath, white teeth, great smile, big dark brown eye’s, have a tattoo on both arms (i choose a black panther, he can choose the other one… (no naked female or snake), able to throw down in the kitchen, oh yeh he must also like walking…

my ideal man....

(character)

is a strong brotha. should be confident but not arrogant.

either works in music or at least a big fan of black music.

is honest and straightfoward - i don't have time for game playing.

is passionate about his work, his life and me - his love.

has a good sense of humour and is spontaneous.

is intelligent - intelligence which isn't just proved with a qualification - intelligent about life.

is family orientated - not meaning he wants kids straight away, but enjoys hanging with the fam and keeps in contact with them.

recognises he is a black man and takes pride in his heritage.

my ideal man....

(looks)

is tall. has a confident and individual dress style - don't be following every dam trend.

has a good haircut - would prefer a well kept fro. banana.gifsmells good - but not like he dipped himself in a bath of joop! he should smell clean but not overpowering.

has a nice smile and nice skin - whether dark or light, as long as you look after it.

soft lips.

clipped fingernails!



thats my ideal man! clp)

@Dimoke- Come back to earth. You are dreaming too much, please be realistic. Maybe you should have asked for the perfect man.


@ladies- Any of you like a man with goatie?? What do I mean, the OSama type of beard. Will you consider dating him,(Sorry not really talking about having it for religious reason) assuming a guys just want to have some beard, do you like it? I am talking of those bushy ones, that you can get a domestic mouse from if you look carefully.

Craven men die hungry.