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[size=3][font="Times New Roman"]Would the ladies be attracted to a man studying engineering at unior some good looking bad boy street gangster type? :?


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I would be attracted to the intelligent guy cos at least he's smart.
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like me!


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Is thatwhy you started the thread to get a back door big up for yourself.?.......(lol)

a desperate man is a turnoff ya know.... (jokes)

If a guy is intelligent but physically unattractive to me, I wouldn't date him, but would try to build a friendship.

Never wanted a bad boy gangster rapper (some black guys who don't have a degree are more intelligent than some of the ones with the degrees inmmy experience) I am attracted to character to be honest I love ambitious, determined guys who are sure of their place in the world and are comfortable in their own skin, their degree is a gateway or formality, rather than the thing which makes them matter.......

I wont lie I love 'em rough around the edges with the degree......those diamonds in the rough...................

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Is thatwhy you started the thread to get a back door big up for yourself.?.......(lol)

No, i just want feed back to the question i posted earlier. is that okay with you honey?confused3


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Would the ladies be attracted to a man studying engineering at unior some good looking bad boy street gangster type? :?
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The latter mate, so don't get your hopes up.
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[size=3][font="Times New Roman"]You should be more interested in who you're attracted to however, surely more important right?
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i would be interested in the guy at uni.......... coz i no that he would havea degree and be able to get a good job and look after me........ and hopefully become rich............

if the guy at uni was ugly i wud cheat on him wit the gud lookin gangsta JOKES

nar the guy at uni wud av to be kinda street still....... i dnt like soft boyz......... gotta be gangsta............ n ya cnt say dat street manz dnt go uni cah i no bare of them.......... i was surprised weni found out they were in uni..... i was like what for real.................. and there actually doin sum hard course........ they aint doin nothing easy!!!!!!!!
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Sup? i am new at this and i just wanted to say to everyone cus i dont know what to say anyone out there
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everyone's actin all goodie girl who's gonna admit they like a bit of ruff!!??? ok, i will then
gimme a 'thuggish- ruggish-bone' any day!( the line frm the song not implying anything else lol)
i bet many women have secret gangsta cravings...

but on a serious note education is the key but uni degrees these days don't promise a glittering career...
but there should be physical attraction also, thuggism or street gangster behaviour is only a temporary ' fix' to a bigger problem u cant be on road forever... this aint Harlem!
so the uni dude would b best long term, as long as he's not a total dweeb!
and if he aint that good looking maybe u could give him a make-over??[align=center][/align]


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Heck yea I would be...I like smart men.
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Post imported post - 05-06-05, 11:24 PM

What about the Rough Bad Boy who;se also intelligent.....is that allowed or am I just confusing the issue....



Seriously though lets not forget that women are programmed by their physiology to want the Strongest man....the man that would keep the wild beasts away from the cave....keep us safe from other roving males...provide the Mammoth burgers.

And I guess the clever guy could of course provide for her and offspring with his good job and career prospects.

But its always the Bad guys that make a womans heart beat faster because he is Dominant and dont let a woman get away with murder! Hench type men are never hen pecked you notice. Women dont seem to like the adoring "will do anything for ya types" Or the guys who ask if they can "make love tonight?"

Interesting experience for me was visiting a guy in prison. I had never seen so many Beautiful women all in one place visiting their wayward men.

I aint saying its right, and I;m not saying being treated like crap is ok but from what I know of women so many love a guy with an edge!


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Post imported post - 06-06-05, 02:27 AM

No, my male has to be a fine ass piece of man meat, I can "intelligent" him up later.blkdevillol


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Way too many stereotypes in this thread. People are too complex to be put in boxes labled "thug" "badboy" "nice guy" etc. People lie.

The "thug" act could be a front put up to seem tough. For all you know the "thug" probably too weak to lift a spare tire. The "nice guy" act could be some cat with 3 females on the side playing a quiet timid role. Human beings have many dimensions.


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Post imported post - 06-06-05, 03:22 PM

when your with a thug,fine or bugly,you have to constantly think "is some one out to get me?"," are the feds watching?", "will one of his past girls be lurkin and want to key my car or drive me off the road?" " will i have to do time if police think im apart of his illegal acitivities? "what if he ask me to hold for him?" too much risks. is he even worth it?

smart guys ugly or cute have their flaws. they could be cheap,greedy and onlyhas education just to gain more money. they could have a small wee wee,or big one and not know how to use it. or they will act like they know it all and can never be wrong. thats annoying , they never know when to loosen up. Those are minor in comparison to being with a cute thug that may completly jack up your life.

personally I'd fall for the one with a brain. there will be more of a mental challenge. he could teach me a few/plenty of things. I dont know if i could learn a whole lot from a thug,except how to screw the law.
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