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Reload this Page Ladies, have you ever faked it with your man?

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Why not just tell him what you like?


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I take the 5th on this one!
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It's your responsibility to make sure you enjoy your experience together. If you don't at least communicate it's mostly your fault for the disappointment.


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Sometimes women do communicate but the loved one just cant ever seem to get it right. then the woman might fake it cuz she too tired of giving instructions and trying to teach the unteachable. then the woman will justcarry on fakingfor a while until someone who does know what they are doing comes on the scene. then she will lie about the reason for the break-up because she dont want to hurt the man's feelings.

also sometimes if a woman is getting much more from a relationship than the sex she might fake to make her man feel good even tho she herself is not that bothered about reaching orgasm with him.

also some men dont want to do the things they need to do to guarantee orgasm so some women fake until eventually they just end the relationship when it becomes clear they will never get satisfaction from this person.

also some men are constantly asking if a woman has come. this pressure can cause anxiety, prevent the woman from being relaxed and canaffect the woman's ability to come. so in the end after being asked for the 50th time in 15 minutes she might just say ooooh, yeahhhhh i came. just to put an end to it and get some sleep.

those are just a few possibilities for why some women fake.
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I wouldnt fake it...he wouldn't buy first of all...

besides, why fake it..it will only make yourpartner think he or shedoing a good thing, and probably will do it again:?
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oh and some women are not very assertive in that way especially early in relationships. they then find themselves trapped because they what they didnt complain about in the early days then becomes like a thorn in their side. by the time they gain the confidence to say it is too late cuz the man gonna know she was faking before.

some women are just not assertive or very sexually confident. some dont think that having sex is equally about their enjoyment, they happy to give pleasure and not receivemuch in return,but if it seems the man is keen to know that she is reaching the heights she will lie so as not to upset him.
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Post imported post - 28-02-06, 10:32 PM

I agree with you 100%

You were all up in my mind with that comment


BOOM BAZOOKA JOE!!!
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I bet bighairlol


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I wouldnt fake it...he wouldn't buy first of all...

besides, why fake it..it will only make yourpartner think he or shedoing a good thing, and probably will do it again:?

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I wouldnt fake it...he wouldn't buy first of all...

besides, why fake it..it will only make yourpartner think he or shedoing a good thing, and probably will do it again:?



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Ditto

Oh we soo beleive you...LOLblkbrukteet

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I wouldnt fake it...he wouldn't buy first of all...

besides, why fake it..it will only make yourpartner think he or shedoing a good thing, and probably will do it again:?





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Oh we soo beleive you...LOLblkbrukteet

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Im simply shocked that you would doubt me mez! shocked! you know what they say, honesty is the best policy! smoking-devil


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Yes hun...honesty is the key...smoking-devil
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never faked it...never plan to....women should take some responsibility for their "O" sometimes that may include learning as well as teaching...blkpg.
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