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I mean think about it. During slavery, you were supposed to be a part of the lower class race, BUT the white male desired you sometimes.
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forget what we were supposed to be. the truth is we were women. some of us very attractive so of coursesome white males would have desired us as they do now. no need for shock or surprise.
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Remember even during those times when the master had a wife, he still had some "relations" on the side with the slave women. So how do you think this made the white woman feel? I guess as any woman would feel, in that she does not have the necessary set to keep her man glued to her.

she probably felt the same as any woman whose man cheats on her. but who cares?

Not only did you cook and take care of her man, you also ended up satisfying some of his needs that she could not. So to me logically that seems to have left a footprint on her soul. Even though a lot of them try to deny it, history tells us other wise.

again, who cares? We cooked cuz we were slaves and had no choice. we took care of his 'needs' becuz we could have got lynched or whipped if we didnt. A footprint on her soul? dunno what that means but i dont think many white women in slavery days had any reason to be scared or jealous of any black woman if thats what your saying.

Your ancestors were in her house feeding her man and sometimes providing extra loving that her man did not and sometimes even raising her kids.......Even though this not something that we should look back on with pride, you have to see where to me it has shaken the white woman down to her foundations as a woman.

extra loving???????????? ermm i dont think you could have called rape or coercion extra loving. even when the black women did go along willingly it would usually only have been because they thought it would make theirs and their families lives a bit easier which is quite tragic. thinking of the brutal, barbaric life they led this is not something we can judge them for but at the same time not something we need to be proud of. you say the same but at the same time act as if it is something a white woman would need to envy. thats like saying wives of rapists nowadays envy or fear their husbands victims.

Even though they deny it, they try to look more and more like you everyday by getting injections in their behinds to accentuate them a little more, getting more of a natural female muscle tone than many of you have already, tanning to get a little darkness in their skin, injecting collagen in their lips to get the soft puffy lips that some of you have or even adopt the close females bonds that you have and now call each other girlfriends like you and yet they try to bring you down to their levels by getting you to put on blush and other makeup to give your face color that it already has or persuade you to wear clothing made by Europeans that does not accent your shape in any way shape or form.

i dont think there are many white women who really would like to looklike the average black woman. some may, but i think the majority are probably happy being white women even if they wouldnt mind poutier lips, a tanand a bit more ass. if you notice its mainly black women that look more white in features or skintonewho white people tend to thnk are beautiful.saying white women tan and put collagen in their lips to looklike us is like saying many black women want to look white because they relax their hair or go on diets - which i think is untrue.

It is just funny to me how white women just seem so afraid of you and funnier that many of you do not even realize the fear that you generate.

i think the fear white women have of black women isnt to do with our looks necessarily. i think they find us sometimes too direct and they see it as aggression. when we laugh loud or wave our arms around while talking they find it all a bit too much. a bit threatening. a voluptuous black woman usually has more curves than a white one but many white women dont value voluptuousness they value stick thinness. i know for a fact that a lot of white women would hate to have a bottom like a black womans. even if they would like their own to be a bit rounder there is no way they would like to go to bed one night and wake up with a real black woman's bottom. no way.

I just witnessed this and it got me thinking about how much white women fear you.

you do get female rivalry which occurs between women of all races and inter racially too. what happens is that females check each other out and if they find the other female to be more attractive than them some women can feel intimidated and uncomfortable which sometimes shows. what i mean to say is that unless a white woman thought you was more attractive than her she would not show these signs and its not every black woman or even most black women who these white women are going to think is more attractive than them because they are naturally biased towards their own like I am towards mine. that means i think on the whole black women are better looking and i really believe this but i am quite sure that most white women and white men too truly believe that white women tend to be better looking than black women.
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Wow you brothas on here are making me feel really good right now. Just wish that many felt the same way.

I think it's a lie when women, especially black women, think that they don't need a black man's love because hearing all these positive and wonderful things you brothas say on here are just music to my ears and food for my soul because we do not hear this enough. Black females won't say it, but I will, we love LOVE to hear compliments from a black man.
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I mean think about it. During slavery, you were supposed to be a part of the lower class race, BUT the white male desired you sometimes.
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forget what we were supposed to be. the truth is we were women. some of us very attractive so of coursesome white males would have desired us as they do now. no need for shock or surprise.

So what is your point? You have to come on here and attack me for versing something that I notice in public? Again instead of READING and COMPREHENDING what was being conveyed another MOFO-ING REAL BROTHA or REAL SISTA in this case comes on to make a point that was really already made if he/she READ and COMPREHENDED instead of READING TO ATTACK.......

No shock and awe, it was just something I decided to post and see if others noticed it too.
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Remember even during those times when the master had a wife, he still had some "relations" on the side with the slave women. So how do you think this made the white woman feel? I guess as any woman would feel, in that she does not have the necessary set to keep her man glued to her.

she probably felt the same as any woman whose man cheats on her. but who cares?

Probably the white woman who viewed her self as good for nothing second to her husband. Why the hell are you defending white women anyway? Starting to sound like a TROLL........

Not only did you cook and take care of her man, you also ended up satisfying some of his needs that she could not. So to me logically that seems to have left a footprint on her soul. Even though a lot of them try to deny it, history tells us other wise.

again, who cares? We cooked cuz we were slaves and had no choice. we took care of his 'needs' becuz we could have got lynched or whipped if we didnt. A footprint on her soul? dunno what that means but i dont think many white women in slavery days had any reason to be scared or jealous of any black woman if thats what your saying.

They did have a reason to be threatened by us for once can a muthaphucka on here check their history besides what they read in social studies? yeah I said muthaphucka. Did you look at the legal records of white women that left their husbands during those times because of his preference of the slave women? Did you look at the facts legal facts that some of the slaves did refuse the advances of the "master" and the majority of these women were sent to work in the field? Did you look at the fact that many white women were so jealous of some of the slave women that they forced the white man to get rid of the slave women? Or did you just come on here armed with what you learned from a white man in social studies?

Your ancestors were in her house feeding her man and sometimes providing extra loving that her man did not and sometimes even raising her kids.......Even though this not something that we should look back on with pride, you have to see where to me it has shaken the white woman down to her foundations as a woman.

extra loving???????????? ermm i dont think you could have called rape or coercion extra loving. even when the black women did go along willingly it would usually only have been because they thought it would make theirs and their families lives a bit easier which is quite tragic. thinking of the brutal, barbaric life they led this is not something we can judge them for but at the same time not something we need to be proud of. you say the same but at the same time act as if it is something a white woman would need to envy. thats like saying wives of rapists nowadays envy or fear their husbands victims.

Again everyone else INTELLIGENTLY knew how I termed this or simply read between the lines and it had nothing to do with love, but again because apparently your red river is flowing or you ain't getting enough had you come on here to attack me for what reason? If you even stopped for a second to comprehend the whole conversation or even look at the other post that I had you would see that I have already said some of this.

Even better you would not have even written this part in a WEAK attempt to break down what I said. You would see that I did not say that this was to be celebrated in any way shape or form. Hell I even say in the above paragragh that this was not something to look back on with pride but IGNORANTLY you seem to miss that part in an attempt to attack.

Again check your history MANY MANY MANY white women during that time were feeling as such. You are judging white women the same back then as they were today, but in reality they had almost no more power than we except freedom, being that they could be legally victimized in any way shape or form by their owner (husband) at the time as well. CHECK YO HISTORY and the history of this country and not your social studies book.


Even though they deny it, they try to look more and more like you everyday by getting injections in their behinds to accentuate them a little more, getting more of a natural female muscle tone than many of you have already, tanning to get a little darkness in their skin, injecting collagen in their lips to get the soft puffy lips that some of you have or even adopt the close females bonds that you have and now call each other girlfriends like you and yet they try to bring you down to their levels by getting you to put on blush and other makeup to give your face color that it already has or persuade you to wear clothing made by Europeans that does not accent your shape in any way shape or form.

i dont think there are many white women who really would like to looklike the average black woman. some may, but i think the majority are probably happy being white women even if they wouldnt mind poutier lips, a tanand a bit more ass. if you notice its mainly black women that look more white in features or skintonewho white people tend to thnk are beautiful.saying white women tan and put collagen in their lips to looklike us is like saying many black women want to look white because they relax their hair or go on diets - which i think is untrue.

Again the defense of white women is because of what? I mean you are adamantly defending them for some reason or another. Still I do find it odd that white women pursue to have African features and white corporate stresses AA women to sucuumb to more European features. And what I said is untrue? So those dark ass white women we see in the summer time with braids are only doing that to look more white? Oooookaayyyyyy

It is just funny to me how white women just seem so afraid of you and funnier that many of you do not even realize the fear that you generate.

i think the fear white women have of black women isnt to do with our looks necessarily. i think they find us sometimes too direct and they see it as aggression. when we laugh loud or wave our arms around while talking they find it all a bit too much. a bit threatening. a voluptuous black woman usually has more curves than a white one but many white women dont value voluptuousness they value stick thinness. i know for a fact that a lot of white women would hate to have a bottom like a black womans. even if they would like their own to be a bit rounder there is no way they would like to go to bed one night and wake up with a real black woman's bottom. no way.

Funny because I see more white women trying to round theirs off like an AA woman's big is one thing, but they are going for roundness which is an African feature. So how the hell are they not dreaming of an African woman's bottom?

I just witnessed this and it got me thinking about how much white women fear you.

you do get female rivalry which occurs between women of all races and inter racially too. what happens is that females check each other out and if they find the other female to be more attractive than them some women can feel intimidated and uncomfortable which sometimes shows. what i mean to say is that unless a white woman thought you was more attractive than her she would not show these signs and its not every black woman or even most black women who these white women are going to think is more attractive than them because they are naturally biased towards their own like I am towards mine. that means i think on the whole black women are better looking and i really believe this but i am quite sure that most white women and white men too truly believe that white women tend to be better looking than black women.

This thread had nothing to do with intra racial biases in Africans. Damned trolls. I said how white women look at AA women and what I and a lot of other people notice. If you don't see the same thing start your own damn thread.

Nice Safety is not here this week. If you spit sh*t, you get venom this week, apparently the old Safety is creeping back.

SO ALL TROLLS PLEASE READ WHAT I SAID BEFORE YOU COMMENT ON IT AND TRY NOT TO MAKE IT PERSONAL
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Take this from a brother who (in another life) used to date white women. White women are TERRIFIED of everything about you sisters, from the way you wear your hair to the way you walk. They wish they could move like you. They actually derive a sense of pleasure from taking the educated brothers away from you...to think that will all your good looks and grace and SOUL they still get your men. They throw themselves at me here in Ohio but I can't see them. That's probably because I see right through them...and if they had some melanin I wouldn't be able to.



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Take this from a brother who (in another life) used to date white women. White women are TERRIFIED of everything about you sisters, from the way you wear your hair to the way you walk. They wish they could move like you. They actually derive a sense of pleasure from taking the educated brothers away from you...to think that will all your good looks and grace and SOUL they still get your men. They throw themselves at me here in Ohio but I can't see them. That's probably because I see right through them...and if they had some melanin I wouldn't be able to.



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What exactly do you mean by this? I'm not trying to start nothing, just curious.
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If you used to date white women, then why don't you just say it straight out than rather beat around the bush?
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I agree with everything said but question therhetorical nature of the thread

Safety, were you actually expecting someone to say no!!??

Of course black women are physically untouchable. I have never had anythin to do with any women that isnt 100% black. No holding hands, no phone numbers, nothing!!!

But I do find these 'cum-b-ya' love ins a bit pointless, although I'll take positivity over negativity 7 days a week

Ligali have a running post, why do you love african? Why cant it be expanded over here. A female only Why do you love African men, a male only why do you love African women.


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I agree with everything said but question therhetorical nature of the thread

Safety, were you actually expecting someone to say no!!??

Of course black women are physically untouchable. I have never had anythin to do with any women that isnt 100% black. No holding hands, no phone numbers, nothing!!!

But I do find these 'cum-b-ya' love ins a bit pointless, although I'll take positivity over negativity 7 days a week

Ligali have a running post, why do you love african? Why cant it be expanded over here. A female only Why do you love African men, a male only why do you love African women.


Actually some have said no. And yeah it is rhetorical and I admit that BUT if people find it rhetorical why go out of their way to reply it? If we are singing Kum baya on this thread what gives you or anyone the right to come here and try to dampen it?

For threads like "What is you Wu Name?" or other non sensical threads on here like it which really do not even relate to the progression of Africans anywhere or any how and I am catching some heat for this, something positive and true? Even if it is rhetorical?

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Safety i wasnt attacking, just giving my opinion. seems you cant handle it. cool.
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some women are just competitative by nature and dont know how to act when they see someone thay consider to be more attractive then them. trust me, as many black women as white will look me up and down when they see me coming and then try turn their head when i walk pass as if they didn't see me..and don't get me started on the looks i get when women walk with their man. and i know i'm not alone on them ones...

women just need to get more confident in their own skins, recognise their ownpersonal attributes and stop worrying about what white women think.

the 'special loving' that black female slaves gave their masters in desperate and abusive times is nothing that should be acknowledged with pride...the need to feel that white women are intimidated by our beauty is a sign of insecurity in itself. we don't need to compete with them..damn, ladies! stop that!
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the 'special loving' that black female slaves gave their masters in desperate and abusive times is nothing that should be acknowledged with pride...the need to feel that white women are intimidated by our beauty is a sign of insecurity in itself. we don't need to compete with them..damn, ladies! stop that!
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to be fair@ safety, I said positivity is better then negativity. I'm sorry if it felt like I was giving you heat






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